Hey girl...............
He is extremely sneaky and I don't put a single thing past him. He has a plan
and I know he's using my bad habbit of assumption as a weapon against me. He
already told me that he was going to use my own mind to work against me and he's
been doing good so far, so now I have to not take the things that he says
personal.

We had another "TALK" last night and I didn't let what he said get to me(he can
be so nasty and mean....evil) and I went to sleep at 12. Girlie.......I woke up
at 4am, went to the gym got the dogs fed, kids up and dressed and ready to go by
6 (this is what I used to do 8 months ago)..............Since all the cars are
in the shop and we have a rental he had to come in with me so he was chit
chatting like nothing happened the night before, took my son in the bathroom
with him and talked with him and it was like the Kurt I fell in love with all
over again.... I know better tho. I think that I threw him off guard by going
to the gym at 4.......... I HAVE to stick with this so he knows that
hey............. I can do my thing also......not to be tit for tat, but so he
knows. He wants me to act like I don't care........cool so be it.

I've never not trusted him, but he likes to play the mind games to twist things
up. HE DOES have insecurity issues in my opinion............. He knows what he
is doing and he's doing it very well, but I have to be thick skinned.

Your Sis
Andra

melissamgibson@... wrote:
This has happened to me, too. The good news is that he's only threatening
you with GOD right now.

I will say this once (unless you wish me to repeat it every day until you
believe it):

There can be no love without trust. If there is no trust - there is no love.

I MEAN THIS FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART!!!

And when someone is THIS adamant that you are cheating, it's usually one of
two things: either HE is cheating and using what they call "projecting" -
where they project THEIR guilt onto you and accuse you of doing the very thing
that they are doing, or it is that he's SO INSECURE that the only way for him
to feel good is to control you.

Either way it isn't good.

You have my support always. This is a BAD situation - one that I was in for
2 years. I left with nothing but my dog and my guitar. I've NEVER LOOKED BACK
- although it has torn me up pretty bad. I'm in a MUCH better place now, and
I know that I DESERVE LOVE - and SO DO YOU!!!

Mellybug


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