Hi Group, After 4 and a half years of being in an abusive
relationship I am filing for a divorce Thursday at 9;30 in the
morning. This man has made my life a nightmare. I have learned so
much from this experience. I am looking forward to a new beginning.
I am so excited. We kept moving, I kept buying him new houses. I've
tried desperatly to please him only to learn that it can't be done.
He has a remodeling obsession, I paid for all of the building
supplies. Moving remodeling, and abuse. He has physically moved out
on me 3 times in 4 1/2 years. He tells me 2 or 3 times a week he
wants a divorce. He makes a lot of money I can't squeeze his fair
share of the bills out of him. He lavishes himself with expensive
gifts. I am so excited about starting a life free from abuse. I
will see pain in other people and have great compassion for them
after this experience. The very words he used to break me into a
thousand peices have now turned around and are now the driving force
driving me to take action and make a change. I will surround myself
with kind, gentle, spiritual people. No more being called names,
cussed at, and raged upon. Thanks for listening group. Fluffy Bear