hello my name is tom i have a wanderful woman and 4 beautiful babies,
we have been together for four years and in that time i have abused
her to no end emotionally.i was abused emotionally as a child and now
i did it too her.For that i am soo sorry.she stood by me and tried to
help me out in so many ways,she took it for that long and now we r
split up.she still loves me dearly and wants to c me get better but
does'nt want me around her tell i can show her improvement,i still
nit pick and fight over stupid shit,im learning to love her but when
i show it i still throw daggers and hurt her emotionally,and i dont
even realize that i am doing it,thats the hard part cause u cant help
ur self if u dont c what yur doing.

please help me get through this,i need her back in my life so bad.i
need to do this for my self and my family.

thank you tom