There are plenty of resources for dealing with abusive spouses but
not too many for dealing with abusive employers. When I realized
that a male supervisor had chosen me for a target. I immediately
started looking for another job. I talked to a limo service and two
trucking recruiters. I wrote a letter to the Governor about this
man's abusive treatment of women. I was fired. I was planning to
leave the job anyway. Now I get to go to trucking school about
three weeks sooner than I planned. LOL! If that bully had not
ticked me off, I might have stayed with that company another year,
making $6.25 an hour. lots of 12 hour days, 60 plus hour work weeks,
no holidays, no benefits and still gross less than $10,000 a year.
Now I get to start at $31,000 a year with benefits. The best
revenge is success.

--- In emotionalabuse@yahoogroups.com, "kaylou80120" <dkaylee@a...>
wrote:
> Keep talking until she gets it. I was never in a marriage
> like that but I was abused by my boss. We were together
> for more time than he was with his girlfriend. He made me
> afraid just like your sister and I was stupid enough to stay
> and take it. Get her to a shelter if you can before it is
> to late. Get her counseling and help her wake of to the fact
> she doesn't have to take that from anyone.
>
> Good Luck