As young teen ages, Gil and I worked at Farha Brothers Grocery store located at 21st & Grove, here in Wichita, Kansas. Doing the time we worked at Farha's Gil and I became very good frind and shared many happy times together. I will always have fond memories of Gil. My condolences go out the the family of Gilbert Roman, I am quite sure he will be missed. Gil was a tremenous Man, he led by precipt and example.

Uncle Gilbert - I thank you for all that you were to me and my brother. I knew and loved you my entire life. You brought such joy and laughter to us. Some of my fondest memories involve you, Aunt Angie, Gilbert, Denise and Angelique. You made me feel special and I thank you for that. I always knew that you saw me. I cannot tell you how much that meant to me. You always were, and will forever be, my favorite uncle.

Gil thank you so much for being my dad(Mousey) best friend you will be truly missed.He loved you very much

My name is Gloria Dee(Dee) Flores Krehbiel.I am the daughter of Frank and Virginia Flores, a very good friend of Gil's who has known your father for many, many years. We express our love and prayers for your entire family. I had the privilege of being Gil Roman's God daughter. Many prayers are with you all. The Frank Flores family

I met your dad in 1975 when I was working at the Dept. of Health, Education and Welfare and he was the Director of the Office for Civil Rights. One day in casual conversation, we discovered a mutual interest: little league football. He was your coach, Gilbert, and my son John played for an Arvada team. When I told your dad my son's name, he responded, "You're #94's Mom!?" A long-term friendship began that day. Years later he hired my daughter Traci for a summer aide position in OCR during one of her college summers. He continued to follow the high school and college football careers of my sons John and Doug. We met occasionally for lunch at Hogan's (aka Old Curtis Street) although we lost touch over the years once he left the Federal Bldg. I'm so glad I happened to see him at Hogan's a few months ago. We spent most of the time bragging about kids and grandkids - the kind of stuff "old" folks talk about. Your dad was very proud of you and his 8 grandsons. I'll miss him and his sense of humor and my kids and I will always remember and appreciate his kindness. Sincerely and with prayers, Sandra.

My sincere sympathy to COL Roman's family in their loss. I first met COL Roman (it was always hard to call him Gil, somehow COL Roman just seemed more respectful) when he was assigned as my OIC in the 5502 USAH. I grew to appreciate him more and more as a mentor and friend in the 25 years since. His humor, compassion, and drive for developing and seeking the best in all people will truly be missed. My prayers and thoughts to his family in these difficult times. COL Roman, I salute you! Peace of God.

Gilbert was always one of the nicest & cutest guys in our class. He was always a gentleman. We are sorry to have lost him this early. Very proud of the accolades he so richly deserved.

Gil, as we called him, was my friend and co-workerfor many years. Although he in the west and I in th east, both had the same thing in common: to fight for our children's and others civil rights in all areas. My sincere sympathy for the family and may God give you peace knowing thnat he is with him now. Maria MOntalvo

Gil was instrumental in helping me get a job at OCR when my boss, Senator Peter Dominick, lost his reelection campaign.

He was a fine man to work for and fun to be around. Gil's door was always open if you needed advice or even just a good laugh at the end of a hard day.

My deepest sympathy to his family.

Gil,
I only had the privilege of knowing you a short 5 yrs ,but we quickly became the best of friends.
You Dan Trujillo and myself had some wonderful times serving on the board of the American Legion Post 34,you accomplished a lot for our Veterans .
It was an honor and a privilege to have known you and called you my friend .
Rest in Peace Colonel

Gil was the life of the party and put a smile on every face in the room. We will miss him and wished we could have had more time to know him better. We wish we could be in town to attend services but please know that our deepest thoughts are with his family and friends. Our deepest sympathy, Gary and Shawna Rosen

I just loved your dad! I worked at the VA and everytime he came in he put a smile on my face. He loved to joke and share his stories with me. We became really great friends and enjoyed having lunch together several times and enjoyed fighting about who had the best mexican food. I will truly miss my wonderful friend Gil!

I just loved your dad! I worked at the VA and everytime he came in he put a smile on my face. He loved to joke and share his stories with me. We became really great friends and enjoyed having lunch together several times and enjoyed fighting about who had the best mexican food. I will truly miss my wonderful friend Gil!

Gil,
You were and will always be an inspiration to our children and grandchildren. Your love for them will always be carried in their hearts. Rest in peace and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.

I have known Gil since 1970, when my husband and I joined VISTA and were trained in Denver. He was our immediate superior, in charge of the VISTA volunteers. Our friendship lasted throughout the years - through divorces, children, grandchildren, career changes, illness, and many other life changes. When one of my daughter's graduated from medical school, Gil came to celebrate with our family. Over the last 10 years or so, he spoke about his struggle with the various ailments that followed his return from the Gulf War. Through all the pain and near-death experiences he had, he never was self-pitying or complaining. I could sense that he was suffering, but he always kept his sense of humor. We still argued about politics, though most of the time, we agreed on the fundamentals. He was one of my dearest, lifelong friends, and somehow, although I knew his health problems were real as well as serious, I had this idea that he would overcome them because his character was so strong. But that was not realistic. I feel so sad that he has left this earth. I am ashamed that I owed him a phone call, and he didn't receive my call before his death. I hope somehow, he knows - will always know - how much he meant to me, how much I appreciated his sincerity, warmth, and compassion, and that he will retain a very special place in my heart always. I will never, ever forget you, Gil. When the family gathers for holidays, we will express our gratitude for having known you; in quiet, reflective times, thoughts of you will warm my heart. You will not be forgotten. God bless you, Gil, and keep you in loving care forever.

Gil was an extremely special person to myself as well as many others. He was the kind of guy that would make anybody feel welcome and special as soon as they were in his presence. He will be forever missed and loved!

Steve and I had the privilege and honor of knowing Gil for several years. He was a guest in our home and often shared his stories with us. While I first knew him as an employer over time we became friends and we are very sorry to hear of his passing. May his memory be a blessing to his family.

My sincere sympathies go out to Dr. Roman's family for their loss of Gil, my friend and co-worker of many years. Gil was a distinquish civil rights professional and made historic contributions in that field during his long civilian career in Federal Service. I am proud to have served as a fellow Regional Director and as Acting Deputy Assistant Secretary for Civil Rights, a position we both held at various times. Gil was a good friend and I will miss him. Although we had limited contact during the last ten years,the fond memories of him will be with me always. Gil's life has been and will continue to be a blessing for so many of us who came in contact with him. Rest in peace Gil.

Kenneth A. Mines
Highland Park, Illinois

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Gil was a wonderful man who will be greatly missed by all who knew him. Take Care and God Bless!

Heart felt condolences to the Roman family in this great loss that touches and hurts my heart. Gil called me his WWII Hero and buddy. Because of Gil I was hired as a Vista Volunteer Supervisor during the Chicano Movement of the late 60s early 70s. This gave me the honor and opportunity to work for and with my people, the Chicanos of Denver metropolitan area. Gil was my friend, and young as he was, my mentor. I loved this man and will miss him deeply.

Gil Roman was a role model to me. After sustaining a spinal cord injury while serving with the US Army special operations, I returned to civilian life. Soon thereafter I met Gil. He showed me it was possible to keep my Hispanic culture while improving my lot in life. Because of his influence, I enrolled in college. When the going got tough, I would think about what Gil must have endured and thus “sucked it up and carried on.” Being around Gil made me realize how important it was to live life no matter what circumstance one finds themselves in. Dr. Roman influenced me to become Dr. Padilla. It was Gil’s direct influence that made me realize I too could become educated. In 1997, I earned my Ph.D. Thanks Gil.

Many people don’t know that Gil is actually a “double doctor.” I happen to be visiting him one afternoon when his diploma from the US Army Command and General Staff College arrived in the mail. I sat down with him as he opened the protective shipping container. He was elated! I asked Gil, “What was harder, your doctorate or the Command College?” Gil replied that they were right about even. Many Americans fail to realize the professional schooling that our field grade officers receive in order to field our modern armed forces. Gil made me realize what it takes for an individual to become promoted beyond the rank of Major. Gil showed me that Congress has a say in the matter. One must be approved by the US Congress to be promoted to such rank. After Gil was promoted to Colonel, he showed me the administrative paperwork. On Gil’s promotion papers, it always stated that he should be “Promoted ahead of his peers.”

What I especially respect is that Gil never acted “better than” those around him. He might tease and joke, but it was his way of making a person think and wonder what could happen if said person thought about the issue a little more intensely. Let’s just say Gil could make a person think; but he was never condescending or acted patronizing to them. I miss that about him. Without Gil’s (and Denise’s) influence, I would never have seen life as I have for the past 20 years. Thanks Gil. I keep your soul in my prayers. You will be missed.

Please accept my condolences on your loss. I worked for Gil when he was OCR Director; and, I thoroughly enjoyed the time I spent working for and with him. I am certain he and his personality will be missed. Again, my personal condolences.

Much Love to Angie, Kirby, Steve, Tony and the entire family.
Our thoughts are with you.
Coach Gil was a great man and the best kind of friend.
He will be missed.

Respectfully,

Robert & Kate

Gil, you will forever be in my thoughts and prayers. May you rest in peace. I will miss you terribly.

Me and my family's condloences to the Roman family

Gregg M. Lopez