Hi Ellie, I'm very much in alignment with your posts and ideas for breaking free of powerlessness. When we say people "push our buttons" this does not only...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 1, 2000 10:02 am
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... hear ... Yes, I call this Wrong Neuron! Ellie ... and ... Yes again, Wrong Neuron! to direct it inward. Ellie ... be ... Yes, let it out and redirect it....
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 1, 2000 3:04 pm
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... difference ... to ... able to dismiss them. Phil Dear Phil, Please print out the Welcome message and the Pamphlet and study the Pamphlet so you can...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 2, 2000 1:02 pm
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... Hi, It sounds like you have already broken down that brick wall and the major detox crises have subsided. But you will need to do the redirecting for a ...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 2, 2000 1:28 pm
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I shared my interpretation of sin as misdirected rage, and I want to add to that that even the misdirecting of anger is an unsconscious physiological process,...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 3, 2000 8:50 pm
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Frequently Asked Questions Questions are best be answered by reading the articles The Biology of Emotions: Self help for anxiety and depression ...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 4, 2000 2:08 pm
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Hi Elli, I have been redirecting my anger for 3 weeks now. Yesterday, as I sat in my office at work, I was feeling my loss...and all of a sudden, it was like...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 5, 2000 3:10 pm
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... i've experienced social anxiety ... year ... to ... clogs ... make ... redirecting ... Dear Rita, Yes, you are in the right place. Don't try to correct...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 6, 2000 11:44 am
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... been ... me ... I ... day ... had ... in ... wonder ... Hi, it sounds like you are doing it correctly and it may be too soon for you to feel better after...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 6, 2000 3:10 pm
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Misdirecting anger in current interactions is an unconsious process, and is unavoidable in early recovery. Any guilt about this needs to be recognized as anger...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 9, 2000 10:11 am
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... still finding my way. ... suffering in this way many, many years, I do find it all very difficult, although very promising. My anxiety goes very deep....
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 9, 2000 11:49 am
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My thought about "apologizing" is that one could easily take their significant other or others aside when they start to do redirecting and tell them, "Look,...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 9, 2000 1:00 pm
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Your suggestion, Sharrhan, about explaining that there may be overreacting with family members during early recovery is what I am hoping therapists will be...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 9, 2000 3:13 pm
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This forgiveness thing is taken all out of context by a lot of born-agains, and new agers. Both camps are highly fixated on it and attach a lot of garbage to...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 9, 2000 4:05 pm
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... Welcome Cluadia, and you can indeed get your life back and experience joy and enthusiasm. Please print out the article, The biology of emotions, as a...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 9, 2000 4:15 pm
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Hi Steve! I cried buckets, many times several days in a row, during my period of redirecting. I, too, had stuff with my mother because she had abandoned me ...
Sharrhan Williamson
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Nov 10, 2000 8:51 pm
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Hi Ellie, ... crisis due to a failed relationship with my ex Girlfriend to whom I was engaged. I have written to you a couple of days ago regarding ... anger...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 13, 2000 10:47 am
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... for a month or two, but then the depression reappears. I am currently starting to feel better again, with 3 new antidepressant medications, but I want a...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 13, 2000 11:21 am
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"I am still marveling that IT REALLY WORKS!!! It does. These simple measures are an incredible gift to enable people to get their life back. I haven't awakened...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 14, 2000 11:05 am
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Hi Steve-- What I went through at work during redirecting was so similar to your experience, I had to respond. It seemed like as soon as I started redirecting,...
Sharrhan Williamson
mymuseislove@...
Nov 14, 2000 8:49 pm
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I need some advise on how to handle my current situation. My wife of 16 years ... don't ... with ... tried ... Dear MSW I can't give you advice about specific...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 15, 2000 1:23 pm
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... treat ... mother ... I ... spent ... not ... haven't a ... with ... so ... right ... missed ... anything ... know ... Dear Steve, Quit the St. John's Wort....
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 16, 2000 10:37 am
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If you are struggling with an addiction to sedative type drugs, including alcohol and foods that sedate, the self help meausres will gradually relieve you of...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 16, 2000 2:51 pm
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Ellie, ... past ... I ... and ... rejecting ... That you said it helped but not as much as you expected, is actually a good sign. It sounds like you are not...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 18, 2000 12:23 pm
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... Sleep' ... had ... had ... in ... me ... redirecting..beating ... break ... rise ... detox, ... much ... crisis...then ... her ... out ... I'm gonna start...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 19, 2000 2:51 pm
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Many of you are in other Internet groups, which are valuable for interacting and especially useful in triggering detox crises. I want to thank you for posting...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 19, 2000 2:55 pm
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... too? Yes, try substituting natural sugar, like dates, and include some fats, if you can eat raw animal fats, like Sushi or raw egg yolks, or if you're not ...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 19, 2000 2:57 pm
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... Diva Damned right it's your table, if it's indestructible give it a good kick first. Ellie...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 19, 2000 3:13 pm
885
Many people have been diagnosed with hypothyroidism when there is nothing wrong with the thyroid and told they will need life long thyroxine. Hypothyroidism is...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Nov 19, 2000 3:17 pm
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... that soy products are causing thyroid problems. I cut out all protein powder products about 2 weeks ago and have already lost about 8 pounds. Sharrhan...
