... "Bargaining is the all-American neurosis. It's much the same as the magic diet pill; it's getting something good for little effort, like scotch. What makes...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 1, 2000 10:26 am
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My lessening of food cravings was not voluntary. As a lifelong obese and diet obsessed individual who used food as a narcotic, I now find following an allergy...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 1, 2000 10:52 am
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... Hooray for you. You did him a great favor confronting him. NO GUILT ALLOWED if it was out of proportion. If so turn the guilt to anger toward your parents...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 1, 2000 11:00 am
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... Sounds good, literally! Are you using the self help measures?? If Janov's comment made you feel uncomforatble it sounds like you perceived him as critical,...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 1, 2000 11:25 am
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... Congratulations. You are an inspiration. It sounds very much like another needed detox crisis during the muddy basin period, with some anger from the past...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 2, 2000 11:36 am
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Ellie, I am battling once more a problem employee, this is the case, she is 71 and hasnt' wanted taxes taken out of her check, because of paying higher taxes,...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 2, 2000 12:03 pm
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Re: Janov's description of normalcy and bargaining. ... GM Sounds like she wants you to be mama and 'love' her. Only that's not love. I don't think you need...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 2, 2000 12:18 pm
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... GM I don't want to debate food either or push anyone into Instinctive eating, it's just that post flood people find they cannot tolerate the standard...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 2, 2000 12:46 pm
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I'd like to ask you about the product call "SAM-e" GM SAM-e is a form of S-adenosyl methionine, which is a natural substance involved in the metabolism of...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 2, 2000 1:15 pm
549
... Welcome to a group of about a hudred people who have similar stories and are using self help measures that can free you of this bipolar disease in a few...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 2, 2000 1:30 pm
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... Isn't it tragic. The paradox is that the attraction to all these toxins is physiological and is because these toxins trigger needed detox crises. Think...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 2, 2000 1:44 pm
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... Hope you add to your list some redirecting. Remember what Jesus said when they told him he shouldn't help people heal on Sundays? He told them to get lost....
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 2, 2000 1:54 pm
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... I went to 3 one hour sessions with a ... A primal is a detox crisis, ie the release of excess neurochemicals that store repressed anger in toxic neurons,...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 3, 2000 10:52 am
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... Hooray for you. I'm sure that's why heavyweight champs get into fighting, to help themsleves heal. Too bad most don't know about redirecting. Ellie...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 3, 2000 11:01 am
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... Not being a doctor I do not want to suggest avoiding medical treatment and am well aware it can be life saving. I think is is important to be diagnosed and...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 3, 2000 11:41 am
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... No SHOULDS please, and if you took a solo flight and landed, you landed in a new and healthier place. I'm not sure if you reacted specifically to rayon. I...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 3, 2000 11:55 am
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... at home from him begging me to talk to him. When I finally did he gave me the same old song and dance of how his marriage was in name only and he wasn't...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 3, 2000 1:48 pm
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... That's the way I see it. The first commandment is to love God and the fifth to honor thy father and mother. I don't think honor means 'love' in the...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 3, 2000 1:53 pm
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... at was my subconscious mingled wtih past and present situations. GM I think your dreams are trying to detox your anger, and this is a good example of...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 3, 2000 2:01 pm
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... I'm not sure I buy into the "addiction" label for sex, but I definitely ... I have found a marked decrease in this compulsivity since I started ... In a...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 3, 2000 3:10 pm
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If you get enthusiastic about raging and redirecting you may find yourself temporarily childlike, although I would not accurately describe this as a regression...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 4, 2000 12:19 pm
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... It seems we all wanted to escape from that early environment. In 12 step programs I heard a lot about people taking 'geographics' to get away from the...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 5, 2000 9:02 am
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... Well, if this isn't the creation of a punitive God by a toxic mind, I don't know what is. As a healthy child I would tell this God just where to go! Ellie...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 5, 2000 9:03 am
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... I'll bet you have no more nightmares about her. I have a sign in my kitchen, 'Let not the sun go down on your anger.' Ellie The Biology of Emotions: ...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 5, 2000 9:05 am
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Letter from a GM to her doctor. ... - Sounds good. You may still have anxiety and panic attacks that are detox events, so try to recognize them as detox crises...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 5, 2000 9:11 am
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... This is because you are post flood and most of the excess noradrenaline is gone. Before you were post flood there was excess noradrenaline that was...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 5, 2000 9:14 am
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... Good for you. Why shouldn't you have unconditional approval. She sounds controlling and like she is misdirecting anger in the form of criticism. Ellie The...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 5, 2000 9:15 am
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... Full of love and wisdom. My cat taught me all I needed to know about having my anger in the moment. Ellie...
Elnora Van Winkle
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Jul 5, 2000 9:23 am
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... interfere with my belief that God is a woman! (joke). Doesn't bother me either AFTER I have my anger at such criticisms. Writers are at a handicap about...
Elnora Van Winkle
clearpathway@...
Jul 5, 2000 9:45 am
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I took a day off yesteday from replying to all your posts, and just sent the one with my childlike letter. I hope you enjoyed that one. You are getting a host...
