... Dear Tina, There are two parts of the peripheral nervous system that are being cleared out in this recovery. One part, the sympathetic system involved with...
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When my aunt was telling me how much my cousin's wife doted on her, I told her my cousin was anorexic and needed help, and a danger to traffic by using her car...
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Mar 1, 2000 1:36 pm
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Dear Laura, I don't believe confrontation or telling someone the truth about their codependent behavior is ever hostile to them. It's tough love. Often they...
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Mar 1, 2000 4:18 pm
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... I don't always do it on the spot either, and if I don't have my anger, then I'm going to bring back the toxicosis and could end up with resentment and...
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Mar 1, 2000 4:22 pm
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... Thank you, yes, I've had similar experiences where being honest brings respect and a better relationship. I guess it depends on how healthy they are. And...
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Mar 1, 2000 4:38 pm
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... So glad you are here. I hope if a panic attack hits you can do some redirecting. Ellie...
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Mar 2, 2000 12:32 pm
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... when I've been rejected this is what happens & I cannot be alone. but alas & alack I am alone. It will be intersting to see how I fair. would you pray for ...
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Mar 2, 2000 12:50 pm
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... recent abusers, I feel so much more grounded, and finally I think I am getting into a space where I'm not irritated with and resisting other co-dependents...
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Mar 2, 2000 4:54 pm
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... the negativity one longs not to express or do, is what is inside and if not brought forth will destroy, so that in itself proves it is not a 'negative' ...
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Mar 2, 2000 6:42 pm
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... grade fever for almost a year, there was nothing physically wrong with me either. No low grade infection just my body had a small fever, was quite ...
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Mar 2, 2000 6:45 pm
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I go numb often, not feeling anything... or just having depression & being numb, which is what I think depression is for me anyway.. it's a blobbing of...
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Mar 3, 2000 11:16 am
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Dear Ellie, I wanted to let you know that i am feeling somewhat better this morning. I had a real flood of emotions last night. I was in a lot of physical pain...
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Mar 3, 2000 11:41 am
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... haven't understood how it relates to any past anger, the ie. I'm angry with my say mother. but I won't say it, and will with present situational person.I...
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Mar 3, 2000 11:52 am
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... out and tried playing for awhile. Even though I've been feeling some music coming back into my consciousness -- which has happened before, during the nine...
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Mar 5, 2000 12:20 pm
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Some of you read the article I sent to Schizophrenia Bulletin. I sent it as a confrontation to psychiatrists, and it's no suprise it was rejected. I can see it...
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Mar 5, 2000 2:59 pm
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I added this to the end of my article, The toxic mind, confessions of a schizophrenic. I also sent Judith Herman's quote to the editor, with a note telling him...
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Mar 6, 2000 3:55 am
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A big yes, yes, to this. Wild salmon (Arctic Char is good) and Boston mackeral and tuna--raw, is better than processed oils. Neurotransmission depends on...
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Mar 8, 2000 10:35 am
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... Good news. Doing the redirecting will have the same effect as the Prozac, and you won't need it after a while. It's so good to hear your doctor is...
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Mar 9, 2000 10:04 am
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... Definitely significant. The fatty layers in neurons are what transmit nerve impulses, and most of us have depleted those layers eating a SAD. I prefer to...
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Mar 9, 2000 10:54 am
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Dear Ellie I totally agree with you that a lot of psychiatry and therapy is abusive and damaging. Many of the people exercising these professions are drawn to...
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Mar 9, 2000 11:23 am
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Having laid the blame on parents I want to say a special welcome to parents on this list. When I first put this on an Autism list, many parents were outraged...
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Mar 10, 2000 11:48 am
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... set and didn't go to work one night (at Dunkin' Donuts - no wonder!) my mom said "If you don't straighten yourself out I'm going to have to...
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Mar 10, 2000 2:25 pm
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Dear Ellie, I am having a really hard time with some guilt feelings.It started with an incident involving my husband and his family. His brother is always...
I think confronting parents in person could be risky in many ways, especially before post flood when there is still so much anger yet to be released. I've...
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Mar 13, 2000 2:52 pm
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... n't know him, same way with my parents. It just seems like someone who took care of me, like my first husband did, and now he's gone and now they are gone...
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Mar 14, 2000 10:35 am
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Even if parents have disowned us, and we lose out on interitances, I truly believe that post flood 'our cup runneth over' and the other one about, 'Seek ye...
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Mar 14, 2000 11:17 am
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... I love it! Ellie...
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Mar 14, 2000 11:20 am
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... I just was accepted to this list. I am having a tough time with my emotions and I want to believe that I can recover and live a good life. I am not...
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Mar 15, 2000 9:17 am
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Dear Ellie, One of the good things about this process is that it makes me very aware of my thinking . In the past I felt pretty helpless to do anything about...