Another thought about sin and innocence. One definition of innocence is
'not knowing' or 'unawareness'. How true about misdirected anger-- it is
an unconscious process and no wonder people have no remorse--the anger
is justifiable even if misdirected. Jesus said 'forgive them, they know
not what they do' and no wonder God put a mark on Cain that no one
should harm him.

John Speyrer has kindly put some of your testimonials on the Primal
Psychotherapy Page
http://home.att.net/~jspeyrer/
There is a wealth of information on this page. A primal is a detox
crisis and the most healing primals or detox crises are those during
which anger is redireted. If you think about the primal scream--a scream
is the first angry communication of a newborn child and a part of the
God given fight or flight reaction. It is the suppression of this
response that is the cause of our emotional pain. I was listening to the
Dionne quintuplets (if you are old enough to remember them), who were
isolated from the world and abused as children. A reporter asked them,
"What was it like when they finally let you out into society?": One of
them replied. "We didn't know how to defend ourselves"

Another good site is Aletha Solter's. if you have young children. Her
book Tears and Tantrums is a great source of help.
http://www.awareparenting.com/

Ellie