Hi Gail,
Thanks so much for your e-mail. It is so
strange that you should send this when you did. I am also 52 yo and have grown
out my hair to its natural color. I am a lot of gray with some brown mixed
in. I had a “moment” just this last weekend. I was with my
husband and 22 yo daughter. I was asking them if they thought I should color
my hair again and if they thought I looked a lot older with my gray. My
husband said, quick go to your website…..don’t start the chemicals
again!
AND then you send this thoughtful e-mail.
It made me realize that even though I have times where I feel I would look
younger if I went to the salon and succumbed to peer pressure, I know I wouldn’t
be happy. Thanks so much for sharing and the good thing is if you do decide to
start over again….it is just hair it will grow!
Thanks again.
Ann in
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On Behalf Of gailmclendon
Sent: Wednesday, August 05, 2009
1:01 PM
To:
deciding_to_go_gray@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [deciding_to_go_gray]
What was I thinking?
Hi Ladies,
My name is Gail and I'm 52yo. I let my hair "go natural" (no color
for 12 months)which truly was a pretty silver-gray, up to 1 week ago when I had
a melt-downand hit the bottle again :-(
It was about 9pm and I was feeling old and fat and looking at before and after
pictures when I decided on a whim that coloring my hair would make me look and
feel better. As soon as I started squirting the color on I felt regret but keep
going. I colored it dark blonde which made me look like a middle aged lady who
obviously colors her hair. So 2 days later I had my daughter highlight it which
lightened it up quite a bit. I had told myself from the beginning of going
natural I'd give it a year and if I didn't like it, I'd simply start coloring
again.
Today I was looking at pictures from a wedding I was at 2 weeks ago and my
silver hair was absolutely gorgeous! It looked like icicles from a Christmas
tree the way 1/2 of it glittered (mostly around my face). The back of my head
was more mousy-gray but still nice. I've been offered senior discounts since
going natural and I guess I got a bit too vain. I realized that with make-up
and the right colors that silver still may age me some but it also made me look
confident of who I had become. As someone stated earlier, I too had gotten
compliments from both men and women. Now I'm like the majority of ladies out
there who would do anything to try to keep looking young.
All this to say I'm seriously thinking about doing it again. It took less than
12 months keeping my hair short but now its grown out to an angle cut at the
chin.
Oh, if I could only go back to a week ago!