God grant me the
Serenity to accept the things I cannot change;
Courage to change the things I can;
and Wisdom to know the difference.
Thy will, not mine, be done.
July 5, 2006
Daily
Reflections
A NEW DIRECTION
Our human resources, as marshalled by the will, were not sufficient;
they failed utterly. . . Every day is a day when we must carry the
vision of God's will into all our activities.
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.45,85
I hear talk of the "weak-willed" alcoholic, but I am one of the
strongest-willed people on earth! I now know that my incredible
strength of will is not enough to save my life. My problem is not one of
"weakness," but rather of direction. When I, without falsely
diminishing myself, accept my honest limitations and turn to God's
guidance, my worst faults become my greatest assets. My strong will,
rightly directed, keeps me working until the promises of the program
become my daily reality.
Until we came into A.A. most of us had tried desperately to stop
drinking. We were filled with the delusion that we could drink like our
friends. We tried time and again to take it or leave it, but we could do
neither. We always lapsed into ceaseless, unhappy drinking. Families,
friends, and employers threw up their hands in hurt bewilderment, in
despair, and finally in disgust. We wanted to stop. We realized that
every reason for drinking was only a crazy excuse. Have I given up
every excuse for drinking?
Meditation For The Day
Many things can upset you and you can easily get off the track. But
remember that God is near you all the time, ready to help you if you
call on Him. You cannot forever stand against God's will for you, nor
can you, forever upset God's plan for your life, even though Gods plan
may be postponed by your willfulness and deliberate choice of evil. A
whole world of men and women cannot permanently change God's
laws nor His purpose for the universe. The sea of life may look very
rough to us, but we can believe that our Captain steers the boat on a
straight course.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may try to steer a straight course. I pray that I may
accept God's direction in my life's journey.
***********************************************************
As Bill Sees It
Between the
Extremes, p. 159
"The real question is whether we can learn anything from our
experiences upon which we
may grow and help others to grow in the likeness and image of God.
"We know that if we rebel against doing that which is reasonably
possible for us, then we
will be penalized. And we will be equally penalized if we presume in
ourselves a
perfection that simply is not there.
"Apparently, the course of relative humility and progress will have to
lie somewhere
between these extremes. In our slow progress away from rebellion, true
perfection is
doubtless several millennia away."
What brings change?
Inventory.
In human affairs, vast changes sometimes take place almost
spontaneously, bringing on revolutionary upheavals. What brings about
such change?
These visible changes, for good or bad, occur because people come to
accept new ideas. It's easy to see how this works in one person's life,
but it works in the same way with socities.
The 12 Step movement is a most dramatic form of such change. We've
become effective b ecause we have new forms of thinking to replace the
old destructive forms that caused so much harm. Our movement will grow
and develop only as long as we retain the new ways of thinging that
first brought about this change.
I'll hold to the idea that my life can only be as good as the thoughts
I choose. ***********************************************************
Keep It Simple
If at first you don't succeed, you're running about average.---Ovid
Our program speaks of spiritual progress, not perfection. We can take
all
the time we need. Our bottom line is steady progress. We can ask
ourselves, "Am I a little more spiritual than I was a year ago? A
month ago?" If the answer is yes, we're doing great. If the answer
is no, we should look at why.
Our illness pushes us to be prefect. In recovery, we learn that we are
free to be what we are---human. Even the world's fastest runners are
average in most other areas of their lives.. This is okay. Remember,
"spiritual progress, not perfection."
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, I'll not be ashamed of how average I
am. I'll remember I'm
average---and that's good.
Action for the Day: I'll list what is average about me. I'll share
this with a friend. Than
I'll ask my friend what is special about me.
***********************************************************
Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
Physician, Heal
Thyself Psychiatrist and surgeon, he had
lost his way until he realized that God, not he, was the Great
Healer.
Something else happened to me. This was such a new thought that I
got all sorts of books on Higher Powers, and I put a Bible by my
bedside, and I put a Bible in my car. It is still there. And I put a
Bible in my locker at the hospital. And I put a Bible in my desk. And
I put a Big Book by my night stand, and I put a Twelve Steps and Twelve
Traditions in my locker at the hospital, and I got books by Emmet Fox,
and I got books by God-knows-who, and I got to reading all these
things. And the first thing you know I was lifted right out of the
A.A. group, and I floated higher and higher and even higher, until I
was way up on a pink cloud, which is known as Pink Seven, and I felt
miserable again. So I thought to myself, I might just as well be drunk
as feel like this.
p. 304
*********************************************************** Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Tradition
Three - "The only requirement for A.A. membership is a desire to stop
drinking."
How could we then guess that all those fears were to prove
groundless? How could we know that thousands of these sometimes
frightening people were to make astonishing recoveries and become our
greatest workers and intimate friends? Was it credible that A.A. was to
have a divorce rate far lower than average? Could we then foresee that
troublesome people were to become our principle teachers of patience
and tolerance? Could any then imagine a society which would include
every conceivable kind of character, and cut across every barrier of
race, creed, politics, and language with ease?
pp. 140-141
***********************************************************
God, guide me in making my commitments. Give me the courage to
make those that are right for me, the wisdom to not commit to that
which does not feel right, and the patience to wait until I know.
--Melody Beattie
Gratitude is our most direct line to God and the angels. If we take the
time, no matter how crazy and troubled we feel, we can find something
to be thankful for. The more we seek gratitude, the more reason the
angels will give us for gratitude and joy to exist in our lives.
--Terry Lynn Taylor
Wisdom is using those things that work for you, for as long as they
work for you, and letting go of the things that are not working for you.
--John-Roger
"Allow God to speak through you and smile upon the earth through
you, because you are an unconditional giver, a purposeful being."
--Dr. Wayne Dyer
Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will
ever regret.
--Ambrose Bierce
***********************************************
Father Leo's Daily Meditation
FORGIVENESS
"Without forgiveness life is
governed by . . . an endless cycle
of resentment and retaliation."
--Roberto Assagioli
So much of what I resent in others springs from my unhappiness with
self. I hate in others what I know to be in myself: arrogance, pride,
narrow-mindedness, snobbery and dishonesty.
Today I am learning that as long as I refuse to forgive others, I am not
capable of forgiving myself. Part of my denial is reflected in my
attitudes towards others. Those character traits I refuse to forgive in
others are buried within myself. I know that without forgiveness there
is no freedom -- and I wish to grow in freedom.
Today I am learning the difference between forgiveness and
acceptance. I can forgive other people without accepting their
lifestyle. I can forgive myself and still see the need for change. In my
forgiveness is the hope for tomorrow.
Master, You taught that without forgiveness, there can be no pure
love. Help me grow in the forgiveness of self and others.
Though
you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him
now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and
glorious joy, for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the
salvation of your souls.
1 Peter 1:8-9
As obedient children, do not conform to the evil desires you had when
you lived in ignorance. But just as he who called you is holy, so be
holy
in all you do; for it is written: "Be holy, because I am holy."
1 Peter 1:14-16
Through him you believe in God, who raised him from the dead and
glorified him, and so your faith and hope are in God. Now that you
have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere
love for your brothers, love one another deeply, from the heart. For
you have been born again, not of perishable seed, but of imperishable,
through the living and enduring word of God. For, "All men are like
grass, and all their glory is like the flowers of the field; the grass
withers and the flowers fall, but the word of the Lord stands forever."
1 Peter 1:21-25 ***********************************************************
Daily Inspiration
If you want those around you calm, you must be calm.
Lord, when life becomes frantic, help me focus on solutions and restore
the peace that the events of the moment try to destroy.
We are not always what we ought to be or want to be, but through God's
love we are not what we would be without Him. Lord, thank you for
raising me to heights in this world that alone I could not reach and
for giving me eternal life in the next.
Ask and you shall
receive, Seek and ye shall find, Knock and it
shall be opened unto you. Matthew 7:7
God grant me the
Serenity to accept the things I cannot change;
Courage to change the things I can;
and Wisdom to know the difference.
Thy will, not mine, be done.
July 5, 2007
Daily
Reflections
A NEW DIRECTION
Our human resources, as marshalled by the will, were not sufficient;
they failed utterly. . . Every day is a day when we must carry the
vision of God's will into all our activities.
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.45,85
I hear talk of the "weak-willed" alcoholic, but I am one of the
strongest-willed people on earth! I now know that my incredible
strength of will is not enough to save my life. My problem is not one of
"weakness," but rather of direction. When I, without falsely
diminishing myself, accept my honest limitations and turn to God's
guidance, my worst faults become my greatest assets. My strong will,
rightly directed, keeps me working until the promises of the program
become my daily reality.
Until we came into A.A. most of us had tried desperately to stop
drinking. We were filled with the delusion that we could drink like our
friends. We tried time and again to take it or leave it, but we could do
neither. We always lapsed into ceaseless, unhappy drinking. Families,
friends, and employers threw up their hands in hurt bewilderment, in
despair, and finally in disgust. We wanted to stop. We realized that
every reason for drinking was only a crazy excuse. Have I given up
every excuse for drinking?
Meditation For The Day
Many things can upset you and you can easily get off the track. But
remember that God is near you all the time, ready to help you if you
call on Him. You cannot forever stand against God's will for you, nor
can you, forever upset God's plan for your life, even though Gods plan
may be postponed by your willfulness and deliberate choice of evil. A
whole world of men and women cannot permanently change God's
laws nor His purpose for the universe. The sea of life may look very
rough to us, but we can believe that our Captain steers the boat on a
straight course.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may try to steer a straight course. I pray that I may
accept God's direction in my life's journey.
***********************************************************
As Bill Sees It
Persistence
in Prayer, p. 127
We often tend to slight serious meditation and prayer as something
not really necessary. To be sure, we feel it is something that might
help us to meet an occasional emergency, but at first many of us are
apt to regard it as a somewhat mysterious skill of clergymen, from
which we may hope to get a secondhand benefit.
<< << << >> >> >>
In A.A. we have found that the actual good results of prayer are
beyond question. They are matters of knowledge and experience.
All those who have persisted have found strength not ordinarily their
own. They have found wisdom beyond their usual capability. And
they have increasingly found a peace of mind which can stand firm in
the face of difficult circumstances.
12 & 12
1. p. 96
2. p. 104 ***********************************************************
Walk In Dry Places
What brings change?
Inventory.
In human affairs, vast changes sometimes take place almost
spontaneously, bringing on revolutionary upheavals. What brings
about
such change?
These visible changes, for good or bad, occur because people come to
accept new ideas. It's easy to see how this works in one person's life,
but it works in the same way with socities.
The 12 Step movement is a most dramatic form of such change. We've
become effective b ecause we have new forms of thinking to replace the
old destructive forms that caused so much harm. Our movement will grow
and develop only as long as we retain the new ways of thinging that
first brought about this change.
I'll hold to the idea that my life can only be as good as the thoughts
I choose. ***********************************************************
Keep It Simple
If at first you don't succeed, you're running about average.---Ovid
Our program speaks of spiritual progress, not perfection. We can take
all
the time we need. Our bottom line is steady progress. We can ask
ourselves, "Am I a little more spiritual than I was a year ago? A
month ago?" If the answer is yes, we're doing great. If the answer
is no, we should look at why.
Our illness pushes us to be prefect. In recovery, we learn that we are
free to be what we are---human. Even the world's fastest runners are
average in most other areas of their lives.. This is okay. Remember,
"spiritual progress, not perfection."
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, I'll not be ashamed of how
average I
am. I'll remember I'm
average---and that's good.
Action for the Day: I'll list what is average about me. I'll
share
this with a friend. Than
I'll ask my friend what is special about me.
WINDOW OF OPPORTUNITY - This young
alcoholic stepped out a second-story window and into A.A.
My college had a long history of
drinkers,
including Dr. Bob. At the time of my accident, the deans were
assessing
how to respond to student alcohol abuse and were waiting to try out
their
latest idea. Alcoholics Anonymous. I was the test
case.
They told me in no uncertain terms that I would never get back into
this
college unless I went to A.A. Under that pressure, I went to my
first
meeting.
Tradition One
- "Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends upon
A.A. Unity."
To many minds all this liberty for the individual spells sheer
anarchy. Every newcomer, every friend who looks at A.A. for the first
time is greatly puzzled. They see liberty verging on license, yet they
recognize at once that A.A. has an irresistible strength of purpose and
action. "How," they ask, "can such a crowd of anarchists function at
all? How can they possible place their common welfare first? What in
Heaven's name holds them together?"
pp. 129-130 ***********************************************************
God, guide me in making my commitments. Give me the courage to
make those that are right for me, the wisdom to not commit to that
which does not feel right, and the patience to wait until I know.
--Melody Beattie
Gratitude is our most direct line to God and the angels. If we take the
time, no matter how crazy and troubled we feel, we can find something
to be thankful for. The more we seek gratitude, the more reason the
angels will give us for gratitude and joy to exist in our lives.
--Terry Lynn Taylor
Wisdom is using those things that work for you, for as long as they
work for you, and letting go of the things that are not working for you.
--John-Roger
"Allow God to speak through you and smile upon the earth through
you, because you are an unconditional giver, a purposeful being."
--Dr. Wayne Dyer
Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will
ever regret.
--Ambrose Bierce
***********************************************
Father Leo's Daily Meditation
FORGIVENESS
"Without forgiveness life is
governed by . . . an endless cycle
of resentment and retaliation."
--Roberto Assagioli
So much of what I resent in others springs from my unhappiness with
self. I hate in others what I know to be in myself: arrogance, pride,
narrow-mindedness, snobbery and dishonesty.
Today I am learning that as long as I refuse to forgive others, I am not
capable of forgiving myself. Part of my denial is reflected in my
attitudes towards others. Those character traits I refuse to forgive in
others are buried within myself. I know that without forgiveness there
is no freedom -- and I wish to grow in freedom.
Today I am learning the difference between forgiveness and
acceptance. I can forgive other people without accepting their
lifestyle. I can forgive myself and still see the need for change. In my
forgiveness is the hope for tomorrow.
Master, You taught that without forgiveness, there can be no pure
love. Help me grow in the forgiveness of self and others.
Though
you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him
now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and
glorious joy, for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the
salvation of your souls.
1 Peter 1:8-9
As obedient children, do not conform to the evil desires you had when
you lived in ignorance. But just as he who called you is holy, so be
holy
in all you do; for it is written: "Be holy, because I am holy."
1 Peter 1:14-16
Through him you believe in God, who raised him from the dead and
glorified him, and so your faith and hope are in God. Now that you
have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere
love for your brothers, love one another deeply, from the heart. For
you have been born again, not of perishable seed, but of imperishable,
through the living and enduring word of God. For, "All men are like
grass, and all their glory is like the flowers of the field; the grass
withers and the flowers fall, but the word of the Lord stands forever."
1 Peter 1:21-25 ***********************************************************
Daily Inspiration
If you want those around you calm, you must be calm.
Lord, when life becomes frantic, help me focus on solutions and restore
the peace that the events of the moment try to destroy.
We are not always what we ought to be or want to be, but through God's
love we are not what we would be without Him. Lord, thank you for
raising me to heights in this world that alone I could not reach and
for giving me eternal life in the next.
Ask and you shall
receive, Seek and ye shall find, Knock and it
shall be opened unto you. Matthew 7:7
God grant me the
Serenity to accept the things I cannot change;
Courage to change the things I can;
and Wisdom to know the difference.
Thy will, not mine, be done.
July 5, 2008
Daily
Reflections A NEW
DIRECTION
Our human resources, as marshalled by the will, were not sufficient;
they failed utterly. . . Every day is a day when we must carry the
vision of God's will into all our activities.
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.45,85
I hear talk of the "weak-willed" alcoholic, but I am one of the
strongest-willed people on earth! I now know that my incredible
strength of will is not enough to save my life. My problem is not one of
"weakness," but rather of direction. When I, without falsely
diminishing myself, accept my honest limitations and turn to God's
guidance, my worst faults become my greatest assets. My strong will,
rightly directed, keeps me working until the promises of the program
become my daily reality.
Until we came into A.A. most of us had tried desperately to stop
drinking. We were filled with the delusion that we could drink like our
friends. We tried time and again to take it or leave it, but we could do
neither. We always lapsed into ceaseless, unhappy drinking. Families,
friends, and employers threw up their hands in hurt bewilderment, in
despair, and finally in disgust. We wanted to stop. We realized that
every reason for drinking was only a crazy excuse. Have I given up
every excuse for drinking?
Meditation For The Day
Many things can upset you and you can easily get off the track. But
remember that God is near you all the time, ready to help you if you
call on Him. You cannot forever stand against God's will for you, nor
can you, forever upset God's plan for your life, even though Gods plan
may be postponed by your willfulness and deliberate choice of evil. A
whole world of men and women cannot permanently change God's
laws nor His purpose for the universe. The sea of life may look very
rough to us, but we can believe that our Captain steers the boat on a
straight course.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may try to steer a straight course. I pray that I may
accept God's direction in my life's journey.
***********************************************************
As Bill Sees It
Atmosphere Of
Grace, p. 93
Those of us who have come to make regular use of prayer would no more
do without it
than we would refuse air, food, or sunshine. And for the same reason.
When we refuse
air, light, or food, the body suffers. And when we turn away from
meditation and prayer,
we likewise deprive our minds, our emotions, and our intuitions of
vitally needed support.
As the body can fail its purpose for lack of nourishment, so can the
soul. We all need the
light of God's reality, the nourishment of His strength, and the
atmosphere of His grace.
To an amazing extent the facts of A.A. life confirm this ageless truth.
12 & 12, pp. 97-98
About two weeks later, Ed stole by night into an A.A. member's house,
and unknown to the family, went to bed. Daylight found the master of
the house and another friend drinking their morning coffee. A noise was
heard on the stairs. To their consternation, Ed appeared. A quizzical
smile on his lips, he said, "Have you fellows had your morning
meditation?" They quickly sensed that he was quite in earnest. In
fragments, his story came out.
What brings change?
Inventory.
In human affairs, vast changes sometimes take place almost
spontaneously, bringing on revolutionary upheavals. What brings
about
such change?
These visible changes, for good or bad, occur because people come to
accept new ideas. It's easy to see how this works in one person's life,
but it works in the same way with socities.
The 12 Step movement is a most dramatic form of such change. We've
become effective b ecause we have new forms of thinking to replace the
old destructive forms that caused so much harm. Our movement will grow
and develop only as long as we retain the new ways of thinging that
first brought about this change.
I'll hold to the idea that my life can only be as good as the thoughts
I choose. ***********************************************************
Keep It Simple
If at first you don't succeed, you're running about average.---Ovid
Our program speaks of spiritual progress, not perfection. We can take
all
the time we need. Our bottom line is steady progress. We can ask
ourselves, "Am I a little more spiritual than I was a year ago? A
month ago?" If the answer is yes, we're doing great. If the answer
is no, we should look at why.
Our illness pushes us to be prefect. In recovery, we learn that we are
free to be what we are---human. Even the world's fastest runners are
average in most other areas of their lives.. This is okay. Remember,
"spiritual progress, not perfection."
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, I'll not be ashamed of how
average I
am. I'll remember I'm
average---and that's good.
Action for the Day: I'll list what is average about me. I'll
share
this with a friend. Than
I'll ask my friend what is special about me.
A.A. TAUGHT HIM TO HANDLE SOBRIETY -
"God willing, we . . . may never again have to deal with drinking, but
we have to deal with sobriety every day."
For example, we are told in A.A. that we cannot afford resentments and
self-pity, so we learn to avoid these festering mental attitudes.
Similarly, we rid ourselves of guilt and remorse as we "clean out the
garbage" from our minds through the Fourth and Fifth Steps of our
recovery program. We learn how to level out the emotional swings that
got us into trouble both when we were up and when we were down.
Step Twelve -
"Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we
tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these
principles in all our affairs."
As we made spiritual progress, we saw through these fallacies. It
became clear that if we ever were to feel emotionally secure among
grown-up people, we would have to put our lives on a give-and-take
basis; we would have to develop the sense of being in partnership or
brotherhood with all those around us. We saw that we would need to give
constantly of ourselves without demands for repayment. When we
persistently did this we gradually found that people were attracted to
us as never before. And even if they failed us, we could be
understanding and not too seriously affected.
pp. 115-116 ***********************************************************
God, guide me in making my commitments. Give me the courage to
make those that are right for me, the wisdom to not commit to that
which does not feel right, and the patience to wait until I know.
--Melody Beattie
Gratitude is our most direct line to God and the angels. If we take the
time, no matter how crazy and troubled we feel, we can find something
to be thankful for. The more we seek gratitude, the more reason the
angels will give us for gratitude and joy to exist in our lives.
--Terry Lynn Taylor
Wisdom is using those things that work for you, for as long as they
work for you, and letting go of the things that are not working for you.
--John-Roger
"Allow God to speak through you and smile upon the earth through
you, because you are an unconditional giver, a purposeful being."
--Dr. Wayne Dyer
Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will
ever regret.
--Ambrose Bierce
***********************************************
Father Leo's Daily Meditation
FORGIVENESS
"Without forgiveness life is
governed by . . . an endless cycle
of resentment and retaliation."
--Roberto Assagioli
So much of what I resent in others springs from my unhappiness with
self. I hate in others what I know to be in myself: arrogance, pride,
narrow-mindedness, snobbery and dishonesty.
Today I am learning that as long as I refuse to forgive others, I am not
capable of forgiving myself. Part of my denial is reflected in my
attitudes towards others. Those character traits I refuse to forgive in
others are buried within myself. I know that without forgiveness there
is no freedom -- and I wish to grow in freedom.
Today I am learning the difference between forgiveness and
acceptance. I can forgive other people without accepting their
lifestyle. I can forgive myself and still see the need for change. In my
forgiveness is the hope for tomorrow.
Master, You taught that without forgiveness, there can be no pure
love. Help me grow in the forgiveness of self and others.
Though
you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him
now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and
glorious joy, for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the
salvation of your souls.
1 Peter 1:8-9
As obedient children, do not conform to the evil desires you had when
you lived in ignorance. But just as he who called you is holy, so be
holy
in all you do; for it is written: "Be holy, because I am holy."
1 Peter 1:14-16
Through him you believe in God, who raised him from the dead and
glorified him, and so your faith and hope are in God. Now that you
have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere
love for your brothers, love one another deeply, from the heart. For
you have been born again, not of perishable seed, but of imperishable,
through the living and enduring word of God. For, "All men are like
grass, and all their glory is like the flowers of the field; the grass
withers and the flowers fall, but the word of the Lord stands forever."
1 Peter 1:21-25 ***********************************************************
Daily Inspiration
If you want those around you calm, you must be calm.
Lord, when life becomes frantic, help me focus on solutions and restore
the peace that the events of the moment try to destroy.
We are not always what we ought to be or want to be, but through God's
love we are not what we would be without Him. Lord, thank you for
raising me to heights in this world that alone I could not reach and
for giving me eternal life in the next.
Ask and you shall
receive, Seek and ye shall find, Knock and it
shall be opened unto you. Matthew 7:7
God grant me the
Serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
Courage to change the things I can;
and Wisdom to know the difference.
Thy will, not mine, be done.
July 5, 2009
Daily
Reflections
A NEW
DIRECTION
Our human resources, as marshalled by the will, were not sufficient;
they failed utterly. . . Every day is a day when we must carry the
vision of God's will into all our activities.
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.45,85
I hear talk of the "weak-willed" alcoholic, but I am one of the
strongest-willed people on earth! I now know that my incredible
strength of will is not enough to save my life. My problem is not one of
"weakness," but rather of direction. When I, without falsely
diminishing myself, accept my honest limitations and turn to God's
guidance, my worst faults become my greatest assets. My strong will,
rightly directed, keeps me working until the promises of the program
become my daily reality.
Until we came into A.A. most of us had tried desperately to stop
drinking. We were filled with the delusion that we could drink like our
friends. We tried time and again to take it or leave it, but we could do
neither. We always lapsed into ceaseless, unhappy drinking. Families,
friends, and employers threw up their hands in hurt bewilderment, in
despair, and finally in disgust. We wanted to stop. We realized that
every reason for drinking was only a crazy excuse. Have I given up
every excuse for drinking?
Meditation For The Day
Many things can upset you and you can easily get off the track. But
remember that God is near you all the time, ready to help you if you
call on Him. You cannot forever stand against God's will for you, nor
can you, forever upset God's plan for your life, even though Gods plan
may be postponed by your willfulness and deliberate choice of evil. A
whole world of men and women cannot permanently change God's
laws nor His purpose for the universe. The sea of life may look very
rough to us, but we can believe that our Captain steers the boat on a
straight course.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may try to steer a straight course. I pray that I may
accept God's direction in my life's journey.
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As Bill Sees It
"The Only
Requirement. . .", p. 186
In Tradition Three, A.A. is really saying to every serious drinker,
"You are an A.A. member if you say so. You can declare yourself
in;
nobody can keep you out. No matter how low you've gone, no matter
how
grave your emotional complications--even your crimes--we don't want to
keep you out. We just want to be sure that you get the same
chance for sobriety that we've had."
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>> >> >>
We do not wish to deny anyone his chance to recover from alcoholism. We
wish to be just as inclusive as we can, never exclusive.
What brings change?
Inventory.
In human affairs, vast changes sometimes take place almost
spontaneously, bringing on revolutionary upheavals. What brings
about
such change?
These visible changes, for good or bad, occur because people come to
accept new ideas. It's easy to see how this works in one person's life,
but it works in the same way with socities.
The 12 Step movement is a most dramatic form of such change. We've
become effective b ecause we have new forms of thinking to replace the
old destructive forms that caused so much harm. Our movement will grow
and develop only as long as we retain the new ways of thinging that
first brought about this change.
I'll hold to the idea that my life can only be as good as the thoughts
I choose. ***********************************************************
Keep It Simple
If at first you don't succeed, you're running about average.---Ovid
Our program speaks of spiritual progress, not perfection. We can take
all
the time we need. Our bottom line is steady progress. We can ask
ourselves, "Am I a little more spiritual than I was a year ago? A
month ago?" If the answer is yes, we're doing great. If the answer
is no, we should look at why.
Our illness pushes us to be prefect. In recovery, we learn that we are
free to be what we are---human. Even the world's fastest runners are
average in most other areas of their lives.. This is okay. Remember,
"spiritual progress, not perfection."
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, I'll not be ashamed of how
average I
am. I'll remember I'm
average---and that's good.
Action for the Day: I'll list what is average about me. I'll
share
this with a friend. Than
I'll ask my friend what is special about me.
If he is sincerely interested and wants to see you again, ask him to
read this book in the interval. After doing that, he must decide for
himself whether he wants to go on. He should not be pushed or prodded
by you, his wife, or his friends. If he is to find God, the desire must
come from within.
Step Twelve -
"Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we
tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these
principles in all our affairs."
The joy of living is the theme of A.A.'s Twelfth Step, and action is
its key word. Here we turn outward toward our fellow alcoholics who are
still in distress. Here we experience the kind of giving that asks no
rewards. Here we begin to practice all Twelve Steps of the program in
our daily lives so that we and those about us may find emotional
sobriety. When the Twelfth Step is seen in its full implication, it is
really talking about the kind of love that has no price tag on it.
p. 106 ***********************************************************
God, guide me in making my commitments. Give me the courage to
make those that are right for me, the wisdom to not commit to that
which does not feel right, and the patience to wait until I know.
--Melody Beattie
Gratitude is our most direct line to God and the angels. If we take the
time, no matter how crazy and troubled we feel, we can find something
to be thankful for. The more we seek gratitude, the more reason the
angels will give us for gratitude and joy to exist in our lives.
--Terry Lynn Taylor
Wisdom is using those things that work for you, for as long as they
work for you, and letting go of the things that are not working for you.
--John-Roger
"Allow God to speak through you and smile upon the earth through
you, because you are an unconditional giver, a purposeful being."
--Dr. Wayne Dyer
Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will
ever regret.
--Ambrose Bierce
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
FORGIVENESS
"Without forgiveness life is
governed by . . . an endless cycle
of resentment and retaliation."
--Roberto Assagioli
So much of what I resent in others springs from my unhappiness with
self. I hate in others what I know to be in myself: arrogance, pride,
narrow-mindedness, snobbery and dishonesty.
Today I am learning that as long as I refuse to forgive others, I am not
capable of forgiving myself. Part of my denial is reflected in my
attitudes towards others. Those character traits I refuse to forgive in
others are buried within myself. I know that without forgiveness there
is no freedom -- and I wish to grow in freedom.
Today I am learning the difference between forgiveness and
acceptance. I can forgive other people without accepting their
lifestyle. I can forgive myself and still see the need for change. In my
forgiveness is the hope for tomorrow.
Master, You taught that without forgiveness, there can be no pure
love. Help me grow in the forgiveness of self and others.
Though
you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him
now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and
glorious joy, for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the
salvation of your souls.
1 Peter 1:8-9
As obedient children, do not conform to the evil desires you had when
you lived in ignorance. But just as he who called you is holy, so be
holy
in all you do; for it is written: "Be holy, because I am holy."
1 Peter 1:14-16
Through him you believe in God, who raised him from the dead and
glorified him, and so your faith and hope are in God. Now that you
have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere
love for your brothers, love one another deeply, from the heart. For
you have been born again, not of perishable seed, but of imperishable,
through the living and enduring word of God. For, "All men are like
grass, and all their glory is like the flowers of the field; the grass
withers and the flowers fall, but the word of the Lord stands forever."
1 Peter 1:21-25 ***********************************************************
Daily Inspiration
If you want those around you calm, you must be calm.
Lord, when life becomes frantic, help me focus on solutions and restore
the peace that the events of the moment try to destroy.
We are not always what we ought to be or want to be, but through God's
love we are not what we would be without Him. Lord, thank you for
raising me to heights in this world that alone I could not reach and
for giving me eternal life in the next.
Ask and you shall
receive, Seek and ye shall find, Knock and it shall be opened unto you. Matthew 7:7
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God grant me the
Serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
Courage to change the things I can;
and Wisdom to know the difference.
Thy will, not mine, be done.
July 6, 2009
Daily
Reflections
IDENTIFYING
FEAR . . . .
The chief activator of our defects has been self -
centered fear. . . . .
TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 76
When I feel uncomfortable, irritated, or depressed, I
look for fear. This "evil and corroding thread" is the
root of my distress: Fear of failure; fear of other's
opinions; fear of harm, and many other fears. I have
found a Higher Power who does not want me to live in
fear and, as a result, the experience of A.A. in my
life is freedom and joy. I am no longer willing to live
with the multitude of character defects that
characterized my life while I was drinking. Step Seven
is my vehicle to freedom from these defects. I pray for
help in identifying the fear underneath the defect, and
then I ask God to relieve me of that fear. This method
works for me without fail and is one of the great
miracles of my life in Alcoholics Anonymous.
We tried to study our alcoholic problem, wondering what
was the cause of our strange obsession. Many of us took
special treatments, hospitalization, even confinement in
institutions. In every case, the relief was only temporary.
We tried through crazy excuses to convince ourselves that
we knew why we drank, but we went on regardless. Finally
drinking had gone far beyond even a habit. We had become
alcoholics, men and women who had been destroying
themselves against their own will. Am I completely free
from my alcoholic obsession?
Meditation For The Day
"Ask and ye shall receive." Never let yourself think you
cannot do something useful or that you never will be able
to accomplish a useful task. The fact is that you can do
practically anything in the field of human relationships,
if you are willing to call on God's supply of strength. The
supply may not be immediately available, because you may
not be entirely ready to receive it. But it will surely come
when you are properly prepared for it. As you grow spiritually,
a feeling of being plentifully supplied by God's strength will
possess you and you will be able to accomplish many useful
things.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may claim God's supply of strength by my faith
in Him. I pray that it shall be given to me according to my faith.
***********************************************************
As Bill Sees It
Talk or
Action?, p. 187
In making amends, it is seldom wise to approach an individual who still
smarts from our injustice to him, and announce that we have gone
religious. This might be called leading with the chin. Why lay ourselves
open to being branded fanatics or religious bores? If we do this, we may
kill a future opportunity to carry a beneficial message.
But the man who hears our amends is sure to be impressed with our
sincere desire to set right a wrong. He is going to be more interested
in
a demonstration of good will than in talk of spiritual discoveries.
Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 77 ***********************************************************
Walk In Dry Places
Should we Intervene?
Recovery
The method of conducting interventions is considered an effective way
of confronting alcoholics and drug addicts. Interventions are
done
with the hope that this confrontation will "raise the bottom," and that
the addict will face the condition before there's further anguish.
However effective interventions may be, they're not part of the 12 Step
program. Our work is based on attraction, not the admitted coercion
that's part of intervention.
If we take part in interventions, this separation should be clearly
understood. The person who still suffers should know that the 12
Step
program depends on attraction, not any of the other methods that might
be available.
It's important to make this point clear, because the intervention may
fail. Whether it does or not, the individual must not be left with the
idea that intervention is a 12 Step activity. At any stage, the
fellowship is always available to him or her.
I'll probably see lots of people today who need help in facing their
addiction. I'll know that their recovery comes in God's good time. ***********************************************************
Keep It Simple
When fate hands us a lemon, let's try to make lemonade.---Dale
Carnegie
Our illness is one big lemon, but our recovery is lemonade. None of us
signed up to be drunks or drugies, but we all signed up for recovery.
That's when the happiness began. Yes, there will be pain, but the joy
will far outweigh the pain. The sweet joy of recovery becomes our
drink---our lemonade. And, do we drink!
We have new friends. We love ourselves, our Higher Power, our family,
and
much more. We are creative when we give joy, love and help to others
and
to ourselves. If your lemonade isn't sweet enough, add more of your
program.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, it's easy to forget how much
You've
given me. Thank you for
all the joy and love You have given me.
Action for the Day: Today, I'll write down what part of recovery
I
really enjoy. I will then
share this list with my group or friend.
If he thinks he can do the job in some other way, or prefers some other
spiritual approach, encourage him to follow his own conscience. We have
no monopoly on God; we merely have an approach that worked with us. But
point out that we alcoholics have much in common and that you would
like, in any case, to be friendly. Let it go at that.
Step Twelve -
"Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we
tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these
principles in all our affairs."
Our
Twelfth Step also says that as a result of practicing all the
Steps, we have each found something called a spiritual awakening. To
new A.A.'s, this often seems like a very dubious and improbable state
of affairs. "What do you mean when you talk about a `spiritual
awakening'?" they ask.
p. 106 ***********************************************************
Love yourself and all your emotions.
Be as honest with yourself as you can be.
Say how you really feel.
--Melody Beattie
"And now here is my secret, a very simple secret; it is only with the
heart that one can see rightly, what is essential is invisible to the
eye."
--Antoine de Saint-Exupery
Though we travel the world to find the beautiful, we must carry it
within us or we will find it not.
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
God, help me to lower my defenses today, to be open to the good in
the people around me and to the good that I have to offer them.
--Melody Beattie
"Don't let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do."
--John Wooden
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
POWER
"The measure of man is what he
does with power."
--Pittacus
With my recovery has come a certain success, and with the success
comes power. Power comes with the spiritual program, but it must be
exercised responsibly. Just as the disease used alcohol to destroy my
life, so it can use power to destroy me in sobriety. Power is a
doubled-edged sword that has led many back to drinking. Certainly an
abuse of power is not consistent with sobriety.
Today I am respectful of power because I know it can lead to an
inflated ego or an arrogant personality that continues to destroy the
quality of life. Today I surround myself with friends who will remind
me of my roots.
Teach me not to use my White Anglo-Saxon Protestant heritage to
belittle or patronize those from minority groups.
Finally,
brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right,
whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if
anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things.
Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in
me--put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you. I
rejoice greatly in the Lord that at last you have renewed your concern
for me. Indeed, you have been concerned, but you had no opportunity to
show it. I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned
to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in
need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret
of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or
hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything
through him who gives me strength.
Phillipians 4:8-13 ***********************************************************
Daily Inspiration
Make few promises and keep the ones you make. Lord,
grant me the strength to keep my commitments, especially the ones that
I make to myself.
Life is what our thinking makes it. Lord, help me visualize myself
richly living each day, believing, achieving, and then succeeding.
Ask and you shall
receive, Seek and ye shall find, Knock and it shall be opened unto you. Matthew 7:7
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