God grant me the
Serenity to accept the things I cannot change;
Courage to change the things I can;
and Wisdom to know the difference.
Thy will, not mine, be done.
July 3, 2006
Daily
Reflections
EXPERIENCE: THE BEST TEACHER
Being still inexperienced and having just made conscious
contact with God, it is not probable that we are going to
be inspired at all times.
ALCOHOLIC ANONYMOUS , p. 87
Some say that experience is the best teacher, but I believe
that experience is the only teacher. I have been able to
learn of God's love for me only by the experience of my
dependence on that love. At first I could not be sure of
His direction in my life, but now I see that if I am to be
bold enough to ask for His guidance, I must act as if He
has provided it. I frequently ask God to help me remember
that He has a path for me.
In the beginning of Alcoholics Anonymous there were only two
persons. Now there are many groups and thousands of members.
True, the surface has only been scratched. There are probably
ten million or more persons in America alone who need our
help. More and more people are making a start in A.A. each
day. In the case of individual members, the beginning has
been accomplished when they admit they are powerless and turn
to a Power greater than themselves, admitting that their
lives have become unmanageable. That Higher Power works for
good in all things and helps us to accomplish much in
individual growth and in the growth of A.A. groups. Am I
doing my part in helping A.A. to grow?
Meditation For The Day
Blessed are they that hunger and thirst after righteousness,
for they shall be filled. Only in the fullness of faith can the
heart-sick and faint and weary be satisfied, healed, and rested.
Think of the wonderful spiritual revelations still to be found
by those who are trying to live the spiritual life. Much of life
is spiritually unexplored country. Only to the consecrated and
loving people who walk with God in spirit can these great
spiritual discoveries be revealed. Keep going forward and keep
growing in righteousness.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may not be held back by the material things of the
world. I pray that I may let God lead me forward.
***********************************************************
As Bill Sees It
Whose
Inventory?, p. 161
We do not relate intimate experiences of another member unless we are
sure he would
approve. We find it better, when possible, to stick to our own stories.
A man may
criticize or laugh at himself and it will affect others favorably, but
criticism or ridicule
aimed at someone else often produces the contrary effect.
<< << << >> >> >>
A continuous look at our assets and liabilities, and a real desire to
learn and grow by
this means are necessities for us. We alcoholics have learned this the
hard way.
More experienced people, of course, in all times and places have
practiced unsparing
self-survey and criticism.
We are only as sick as the secrets we keep.--- Anonymous
It is dangerous for us to keep secrets. Shame builds, and we'll want
relief. We may turn to alcohol or other drugs. True relief
comes by talking about our secrets, by sharing who we really are with
others. Our program helps us live a life based on honesty. Our program
helps us battle shame. We don't keep secrets anymore. We start our
meetings and share what we tried to keep secret before.
" Hi, my name is____________, and I'm am alcoholic." " Hi
my name is_____________, and I'm a drug addict." We keep telling our
secret, and the shame gets less and less.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, I pray to live an honest life.
Action for the Day: I'll list any secrets I've been keeping. I'll talk
with my sponsor about
them. ***********************************************************
Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
Physician, Heal
Thyself Psychiatrist and surgeon, he had
lost his way until he realized that God, not he, was the Great
Healer.
As someone in A.A. said to me once upon a time, there is nothing worse
than a confused psychiatrist.
p. 303
*********************************************************** Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Tradition
Three - "The only requirement for A.A. membership is a desire to stop
drinking."
A member gives us a vivid glimpse of those days. "At one time," he
says, "every A.A. group had many membership rules. Everybody was scared
witless that something or somebody would capsize the boat and dump us
all back into the drink. Our Foundation office* asked each group to
send in its list of `protective' regulations. The total list was a mile
long. If all those rules had been in effect everywhere, nobody could
have possibly joined A.A. at all, so great was the sum of our anxiety
and fear.
pp. 139-140
*In 1954, the name of the Alcoholic Foundation, Inc., was changed to
the General Service Board of Alcoholics Anonymous, Inc., and the
Foundation office is now the General Service Office.
***********************************************************
Deep within us is a place where we have found God and God has found
us. Once in a great while, we come to this place within us and we
realize it is the goal of our seeking. It feels like home. We may not be
consciously aware of our seeking. We may be living our lives day by
day. The wonder is that while this searching goes on within us, there is
also the One who seeks us out, calling to us, desiring that we find the
home within. It is God who takes the initiative of seeking and places
the desire in our hearts to be found.
--Unknown
The world needs all of our power and love and energy, and each of us
has something to give. The trick is to find it and use it, to find it
and
give it away so there will always be more. We can be lights for each
other, and through each other's illumination we will see the way. Each
of us is a seed, a silent promise, and it is always spring.
--Merle Shain
A true winner is one who congratulates the one receiving recognition
in heart felt words.
--unknown
Forgiveness is only one step in the healing process, but a very
important one to learn.
--unknown
Burdening yourself with trivial things only affects one person - YOU.
--unknown
There is no investment you'll ever make which will pay you so well as
the effort to scatter sunshine and good cheer wherever you are.
--unknown
We see God through eyes of faith.
--SweetyZee
***********************************************
Father Leo's Daily Meditation
CHOICES
"Destiny is not a matter of
chance, it is a matter of choice;
it is not a thing to be achieved."
--William Jennings Bryan
It is so important for us to see that we create our destiny. We create
our futures in the choices we initiate today. During my addiction I was
like a ship without a sail. I drifted through life and was tossed in a
thousand directions. Today I am able to point myself in the direction I
want to go.
I do not believe that this attitude takes anything away from the power
of God because He gave me freedom in the first place! He created me
to be free and to have the gift of decision-making. He is not a dictator
God, and I am not a puppet on a string. He loves me enough to allow
me to learn from my mistakes and take personal pride in my
achievements. Addiction made me powerless. Sobriety puts me in
touch with my God-given power.
I am forever grateful and thankful for my involvement in my own life.
I pray today that I might live responsibly a day at a time.
"Jesus
said to him, If you want to be perfect, go, sell what you have and give
to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow Me."
Matthew 19:21
"We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of
childbirth right up to the present time. Not only so, but we ourselves,
who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait
eagerly for our adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies. For in
this hope we were saved. But hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who
hopes for what he already has? But if we hope for what we do not yet
have, we wait for it patiently."
Romans 8:22-25
"Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full
armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's
schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against
the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark
world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms."
Ephesians 6:10-12
"Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like
a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm
in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the
world are undergoing the same kind of sufferings."
I Peter 5:8-9
"You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them, because
the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world."
I John 4:4 ***********************************************************
Daily Inspiration
Stay close to God because He is the solution to all problems. Lord,
I will live in Your presence, protected by You and Your peace will be
mine.
Our lives should be productive and useful and we should always make a
difference because we are alive. Lord, You have brought me to this new
day. Work with me so that I will have a successful day with many
accomplishments whether they are great or small.
Ask and you shall
receive, Seek and ye shall find, Knock and it
shall be opened unto you. Matthew 7:7
God grant me the
Serenity to accept the things I cannot change;
Courage to change the things I can;
and Wisdom to know the difference.
Thy will, not mine, be done.
July 3, 2007
Daily
Reflections
EXPERIENCE: THE BEST TEACHER
Being still inexperienced and having just made conscious
contact with God, it is not probable that we are going to
be inspired at all times.
ALCOHOLIC ANONYMOUS , p. 87
Some say that experience is the best teacher, but I believe
that experience is the only teacher. I have been able to
learn of God's love for me only by the experience of my
dependence on that love. At first I could not be sure of
His direction in my life, but now I see that if I am to be
bold enough to ask for His guidance, I must act as if He
has provided it. I frequently ask God to help me remember
that He has a path for me.
In the beginning of Alcoholics Anonymous there were only two
persons. Now there are many groups and thousands of members.
True, the surface has only been scratched. There are probably
ten million or more persons in America alone who need our
help. More and more people are making a start in A.A. each
day. In the case of individual members, the beginning has
been accomplished when they admit they are powerless and turn
to a Power greater than themselves, admitting that their
lives have become unmanageable. That Higher Power works for
good in all things and helps us to accomplish much in
individual growth and in the growth of A.A. groups. Am I
doing my part in helping A.A. to grow?
Meditation For The Day
Blessed are they that hunger and thirst after righteousness,
for they shall be filled. Only in the fullness of faith can the
heart-sick and faint and weary be satisfied, healed, and rested.
Think of the wonderful spiritual revelations still to be found
by those who are trying to live the spiritual life. Much of life
is spiritually unexplored country. Only to the consecrated and
loving people who walk with God in spirit can these great
spiritual discoveries be revealed. Keep going forward and keep
growing in righteousness.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may not be held back by the material things of the
world. I pray that I may let God lead me forward.
***********************************************************
As Bill Sees It
The Way Of
Strength, p. 129
We need not apologize to anyone for depending upon the Creator.
We have good reason to disbelieve those who think spirituality is the
way of weakness. For us, it is the way of strength.
The verdict of the ages is that men of faith seldom lack courage.
They trust their God. So we never apologize for our belief in Him.
Instead, we try to let Him demonstrate, through us, what He can do.
Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 68 ***********************************************************
Keep It Simple
We are only as sick as the secrets we keep.--- Anonymous
It is dangerous for us to keep secrets. Shame builds, and we'll want
relief. We may turn to alcohol or other drugs. True relief
comes by talking about our secrets, by sharing who we really are with
others. Our program helps us live a life based on honesty. Our program
helps us battle shame. We don't keep secrets anymore. We start our
meetings and share what we tried to keep secret before.
" Hi, my name is____________, and I'm am alcoholic." " Hi
my name is_____________, and I'm a drug addict." We keep telling our
secret, and the shame gets less and less.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, I pray to live an honest life.
Action for the Day: I'll list any secrets I've been keeping. I'll
talk
with my sponsor about
them.
WINDOW OF OPPORTUNITY - This young
alcoholic stepped out a second-story window and into A.A.
A few days went by. With the
pressure
lifted, my life did not look so unmanageable. In fact, it looked
as if I was back in the saddle. So, I thanked the dean for his
help
but told him that I would be okay on my own. I did not go to a
rehab.
Two weeks later I walked through a second-story window.
Tradition One
- "Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends upon
A.A. Unity."
The unity of Alcoholics Anonymous it the most cherished quality our
Society has. Our lives, the lives of all to come, depend squarely upon
it. We stay whole, or A.A. dies. Without unity, the heart of A.A. would
cease to beat; our world arteries would no longer carry the life-giving
grace of God; His gift to us would be spent aimlessly. Back again in
their caves, alcoholics would reproach us and say, "What a great thing
A.A. might have been!"
p. 129 ***********************************************************
Deep within us is a place where we have found God and God has found
us. Once in a great while, we come to this place within us and we
realize it is the goal of our seeking. It feels like home. We may not be
consciously aware of our seeking. We may be living our lives day by
day. The wonder is that while this searching goes on within us, there is
also the One who seeks us out, calling to us, desiring that we find the
home within. It is God who takes the initiative of seeking and places
the desire in our hearts to be found.
--Unknown
The world needs all of our power and love and energy, and each of us
has something to give. The trick is to find it and use it, to find it
and
give it away so there will always be more. We can be lights for each
other, and through each other's illumination we will see the way. Each
of us is a seed, a silent promise, and it is always spring.
--Merle Shain
A true winner is one who congratulates the one receiving recognition
in heart felt words.
--unknown
Forgiveness is only one step in the healing process, but a very
important one to learn.
--unknown
Burdening yourself with trivial things only affects one person - YOU.
--unknown
There is no investment you'll ever make which will pay you so well as
the effort to scatter sunshine and good cheer wherever you are.
--unknown
We see God through eyes of faith.
--SweetyZee
***********************************************
Father Leo's Daily Meditation
CHOICES
"Destiny is not a matter of
chance, it is a matter of choice;
it is not a thing to be achieved."
--William Jennings Bryan
It is so important for us to see that we create our destiny. We create
our futures in the choices we initiate today. During my addiction I was
like a ship without a sail. I drifted through life and was tossed in a
thousand directions. Today I am able to point myself in the direction I
want to go.
I do not believe that this attitude takes anything away from the power
of God because He gave me freedom in the first place! He created me
to be free and to have the gift of decision-making. He is not a dictator
God, and I am not a puppet on a string. He loves me enough to allow
me to learn from my mistakes and take personal pride in my
achievements. Addiction made me powerless. Sobriety puts me in
touch with my God-given power.
I am forever grateful and thankful for my involvement in my own life.
I pray today that I might live responsibly a day at a time.
"Jesus
said to him, If you want to be perfect, go, sell what you have and give
to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow Me."
Matthew 19:21
"We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of
childbirth right up to the present time. Not only so, but we ourselves,
who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait
eagerly for our adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies. For in
this hope we were saved. But hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who
hopes for what he already has? But if we hope for what we do not yet
have, we wait for it patiently."
Romans 8:22-25
"Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full
armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's
schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against
the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark
world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms."
Ephesians 6:10-12
"Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like
a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm
in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the
world are undergoing the same kind of sufferings."
I Peter 5:8-9
"You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them, because
the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world."
I John 4:4 ***********************************************************
Daily Inspiration
Stay close to God because He is the solution to all problems. Lord,
I will live in Your presence, protected by You and Your peace will be
mine.
Our lives should be productive and useful and we should always make a
difference because we are alive. Lord, You have brought me to this new
day. Work with me so that I will have a successful day with many
accomplishments whether they are great or small.
Ask and you shall
receive, Seek and ye shall find, Knock and it
shall be opened unto you. Matthew 7:7
God grant me the
Serenity to accept the things I cannot change;
Courage to change the things I can;
and Wisdom to know the difference.
Thy will, not mine, be done.
July 3, 2008
Daily
Reflections EXPERIENCE:
THE BEST TEACHER
Being still inexperienced and having just made conscious
contact with God, it is not probable that we are going to
be inspired at all times.
ALCOHOLIC ANONYMOUS , p. 87
Some say that experience is the best teacher, but I believe
that experience is the only teacher. I have been able to
learn of God's love for me only by the experience of my
dependence on that love. At first I could not be sure of
His direction in my life, but now I see that if I am to be
bold enough to ask for His guidance, I must act as if He
has provided it. I frequently ask God to help me remember
that He has a path for me.
In the beginning of Alcoholics Anonymous there were only two
persons. Now there are many groups and thousands of members.
True, the surface has only been scratched. There are probably
ten million or more persons in America alone who need our
help. More and more people are making a start in A.A. each
day. In the case of individual members, the beginning has
been accomplished when they admit they are powerless and turn
to a Power greater than themselves, admitting that their
lives have become unmanageable. That Higher Power works for
good in all things and helps us to accomplish much in
individual growth and in the growth of A.A. groups. Am I
doing my part in helping A.A. to grow?
Meditation For The Day
Blessed are they that hunger and thirst after righteousness,
for they shall be filled. Only in the fullness of faith can the
heart-sick and faint and weary be satisfied, healed, and rested.
Think of the wonderful spiritual revelations still to be found
by those who are trying to live the spiritual life. Much of life
is spiritually unexplored country. Only to the consecrated and
loving people who walk with God in spirit can these great
spiritual discoveries be revealed. Keep going forward and keep
growing in righteousness.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may not be held back by the material things of the
world. I pray that I may let God lead me forward. ***********************************************************
As Bill Sees It
Spiritual
Kindergarten, p. 95
"We are only operating a spiritual kindergarten in which people are
enabled to get over drinking and find the grace to go on living to
better effect. Each man's theology has to be his own quest, his own
affair."
<< << << >> >> >>
When the Big Book was being planned, some members thought that it
ought to be Christian in the doctrinal sense. Others had no objection
to the use of the word "God", but wanted to avoid doctrinal issues.
Spirituality, yes. Religion, no. Still others wanted a psychological
book, to lure the alcoholic in. Once in, he could take God or leave
Him alone as he wished.
To the rest of us this was shocking, but happily we listened. Our
group conscience was at work to construct the most acceptable and
effective book possible.
Every voice was playing its appointed part. Our atheists and
agnostics widened our gateway so that all who suffer might pass
through, regardless of their belief or lack of belief.
1. Letter, 1954
2. A.A. Comes Of Age, pp. 162, 163, 167 ***********************************************************
Keep It Simple
We are only as sick as the secrets we keep.--- Anonymous
It is dangerous for us to keep secrets. Shame builds, and we'll want
relief. We may turn to alcohol or other drugs. True relief
comes by talking about our secrets, by sharing who we really are with
others. Our program helps us live a life based on honesty. Our program
helps us battle shame. We don't keep secrets anymore. We start our
meetings and share what we tried to keep secret before.
" Hi, my name is____________, and I'm am alcoholic." " Hi
my name is_____________, and I'm a drug addict." We keep telling our
secret, and the shame gets less and less.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, I pray to live an honest life.
Action for the Day: I'll list any secrets I've been keeping. I'll
talk
with my sponsor about
them.
A.A. TAUGHT HIM TO HANDLE SOBRIETY -
"God willing, we . . . may never again have to deal with drinking, but
we have to deal with sobriety every day."
All these things and many, many, more, A.A. gave me. But above all, it
taught me how to handle sobriety. I have learned how to relate to
people; before A.A., I could never do that comfortably without
alcohol. I have learned to deal with disappointments and problems that
once would have sent me right to the bottle. I have come to realize
that the name of the game is not so much to stop drinking as to stay
sober. Alcoholics can stop drinking in many places and many
ways--Alcoholics Anonymous offers us a way to stay sober.
Step Twelve -
"Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we
tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these
principles in all our affairs."
After we come into A.A., if we go on growing, our attitudes and
actions toward security--emotional security and financial
security--commence to change profoundly. Our demand for emotional
security, for our own way, had constantly thrown us into unworkable
relations with other people. Though we were sometimes quite unconscious
of this, the result always had been the same. Either we had tried to
play God and dominate those about us, or we had insisted on being
overdependent upon them. Where people had temporarily let us run their
lives as though they were still children, we had felt very happy and
secure ourselves. But when they finally resisted or ran away, we were
bitterly hurt and disappointed. We blamed them, being quite unable to
see that our unreasonable demands had been the cause.
p. 115 ***********************************************************
Deep within us is a place where we have found God and God has found
us. Once in a great while, we come to this place within us and we
realize it is the goal of our seeking. It feels like home. We may not be
consciously aware of our seeking. We may be living our lives day by
day. The wonder is that while this searching goes on within us, there is
also the One who seeks us out, calling to us, desiring that we find the
home within. It is God who takes the initiative of seeking and places
the desire in our hearts to be found.
--Unknown
The world needs all of our power and love and energy, and each of us
has something to give. The trick is to find it and use it, to find it
and
give it away so there will always be more. We can be lights for each
other, and through each other's illumination we will see the way. Each
of us is a seed, a silent promise, and it is always spring.
--Merle Shain
A true winner is one who congratulates the one receiving recognition
in heart felt words.
--unknown
Forgiveness is only one step in the healing process, but a very
important one to learn.
--unknown
Burdening yourself with trivial things only affects one person - YOU.
--unknown
There is no investment you'll ever make which will pay you so well as
the effort to scatter sunshine and good cheer wherever you are.
--unknown
We see God through eyes of faith.
--SweetyZee
***********************************************
Father Leo's Daily Meditation
CHOICES
"Destiny is not a matter of
chance, it is a matter of choice;
it is not a thing to be achieved."
--William Jennings Bryan
It is so important for us to see that we create our destiny. We create
our futures in the choices we initiate today. During my addiction I was
like a ship without a sail. I drifted through life and was tossed in a
thousand directions. Today I am able to point myself in the direction I
want to go.
I do not believe that this attitude takes anything away from the power
of God because He gave me freedom in the first place! He created me
to be free and to have the gift of decision-making. He is not a dictator
God, and I am not a puppet on a string. He loves me enough to allow
me to learn from my mistakes and take personal pride in my
achievements. Addiction made me powerless. Sobriety puts me in
touch with my God-given power.
I am forever grateful and thankful for my involvement in my own life.
I pray today that I might live responsibly a day at a time.
"Jesus
said to him, If you want to be perfect, go, sell what you have and give
to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow Me."
Matthew 19:21
"We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of
childbirth right up to the present time. Not only so, but we ourselves,
who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait
eagerly for our adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies. For in
this hope we were saved. But hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who
hopes for what he already has? But if we hope for what we do not yet
have, we wait for it patiently."
Romans 8:22-25
"Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full
armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's
schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against
the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark
world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms."
Ephesians 6:10-12
"Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like
a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm
in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the
world are undergoing the same kind of sufferings."
I Peter 5:8-9
"You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them, because
the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world."
I John 4:4 ***********************************************************
Daily Inspiration
Stay close to God because He is the solution to all problems. Lord,
I will live in Your presence, protected by You and Your peace will be
mine.
Our lives should be productive and useful and we should always make a
difference because we are alive. Lord, You have brought me to this new
day. Work with me so that I will have a successful day with many
accomplishments whether they are great or small.
Ask and you shall
receive, Seek and ye shall find, Knock and it
shall be opened unto you. Matthew 7:7
God grant me the
Serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
Courage to change the things I can;
and Wisdom to know the difference.
Thy will, not mine, be done.
July 3, 2009
Daily
Reflections
EXPERIENCE:
THE BEST TEACHER
Being still inexperienced and having just made conscious
contact with God, it is not probable that we are going to
be inspired at all times.
ALCOHOLIC ANONYMOUS , p. 87
Some say that experience is the best teacher, but I believe
that experience is the only teacher. I have been able to
learn of God's love for me only by the experience of my
dependence on that love. At first I could not be sure of
His direction in my life, but now I see that if I am to be
bold enough to ask for His guidance, I must act as if He
has provided it. I frequently ask God to help me remember
that He has a path for me.
In the beginning of Alcoholics Anonymous there were only two
persons. Now there are many groups and thousands of members.
True, the surface has only been scratched. There are probably
ten million or more persons in America alone who need our
help. More and more people are making a start in A.A. each
day. In the case of individual members, the beginning has
been accomplished when they admit they are powerless and turn
to a Power greater than themselves, admitting that their
lives have become unmanageable. That Higher Power works for
good in all things and helps us to accomplish much in
individual growth and in the growth of A.A. groups. Am I
doing my part in helping A.A. to grow?
Meditation For The Day
Blessed are they that hunger and thirst after righteousness,
for they shall be filled. Only in the fullness of faith can the
heart-sick and faint and weary be satisfied, healed, and rested.
Think of the wonderful spiritual revelations still to be found
by those who are trying to live the spiritual life. Much of life
is spiritually unexplored country. Only to the consecrated and
loving people who walk with God in spirit can these great
spiritual discoveries be revealed. Keep going forward and keep
growing in righteousness.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may not be held back by the material things of the
world. I pray that I may let God lead me forward. ***********************************************************
As Bill Sees It
Meeting
Adversity, p. 184
"Our spiritual and emotional growth in A.A. does not depend so deeply
upon success as it
does upon our failures and setbacks. If you will bear this in mind, I
think that your slip
will have the effect of kicking you upstairs, instead of down.
"We A.A.'s have had no better teacher than Old Man Adversity, except in
those cases
where we refuse to let him teach us."
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"Now and then all of us fall under heavy criticism. When we are angered
and hurt, it's
difficult not to retaliate in kind. Yet we can restrain ourselves and
then probe ourselves,
asking whether our critics were really right. If so, we can admit our
defects to them. This
usually clears the air for mutual understanding.
"Suppose our critics are being unfair. Then we can try calm persuasion.
If they continue
to rant, it is still possible for us--in our hearts--to forgive them.
Maybe a sense of humor
can be our saving grace--thus we can both forgive and forget."
We are only as sick as the secrets we keep.--- Anonymous
It is dangerous for us to keep secrets. Shame builds, and we'll want
relief. We may turn to alcohol or other drugs. True relief
comes by talking about our secrets, by sharing who we really are with
others. Our program helps us live a life based on honesty. Our program
helps us battle shame. We don't keep secrets anymore. We start our
meetings and share what we tried to keep secret before.
" Hi, my name is____________, and I'm am alcoholic." " Hi
my name is_____________, and I'm a drug addict." We keep telling our
secret, and the shame gets less and less.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, I pray to live an honest life.
Action for the Day: I'll list any secrets I've been keeping. I'll
talk
with my sponsor about
them.
Unless your friend wants to talk further about himself, do not wear out
your welcome. Give him a chance to think it over. If you do stay, let
him steer the conversation in any direction he like. Sometimes a new
man is anxious to proceed at once, and you may be tempted to let him do
so. This is sometimes a mistake. If he has trouble later, he is likely
to say you rushed him. You will be most successful with alcoholics if
you do not exhibit any passion for crusade or reform. Never talk down
to an alcoholic from any moral or spiritual hilltop; simply lay out the
kit of spiritual tools for his inspection. Show him how they worked
with you. Offer him friendship and fellowship. Tell him that if he
wants to get well you will do anything to help.
Step Eleven -
"Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact
with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will
for us and the power to carry that out."
All this should be very encouraging news for those who recoil from
prayer because they don't believe in it, or because they feel
themselves cut off from God's help and direction. All of us, without
exception, pass through times when we can pray only with the greatest
exertion of will. Occasionally we go even further than this. We are
seized with a rebellion so sickening that we simply won't pray. When
these things happen we should not think too ill of ourselves. We should
simply resume prayer as soon as we can, doing what we know to be good
for us.
p. 105 ***********************************************************
Deep within us is a place where we have found God and God has found
us. Once in a great while, we come to this place within us and we
realize it is the goal of our seeking. It feels like home. We may not be
consciously aware of our seeking. We may be living our lives day by
day. The wonder is that while this searching goes on within us, there is
also the One who seeks us out, calling to us, desiring that we find the
home within. It is God who takes the initiative of seeking and places
the desire in our hearts to be found.
--Unknown
The world needs all of our power and love and energy, and each of us
has something to give. The trick is to find it and use it, to find it
and
give it away so there will always be more. We can be lights for each
other, and through each other's illumination we will see the way. Each
of us is a seed, a silent promise, and it is always spring.
--Merle Shain
A true winner is one who congratulates the one receiving recognition
in heart felt words.
--unknown
Forgiveness is only one step in the healing process, but a very
important one to learn.
--unknown
Burdening yourself with trivial things only affects one person - YOU.
--unknown
There is no investment you'll ever make which will pay you so well as
the effort to scatter sunshine and good cheer wherever you are.
--unknown
We see God through eyes of faith.
--SweetyZee
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
CHOICES
"Destiny is not a matter of
chance, it is a matter of choice;
it is not a thing to be achieved."
--William Jennings Bryan
It is so important for us to see that we create our destiny. We create
our futures in the choices we initiate today. During my addiction I was
like a ship without a sail. I drifted through life and was tossed in a
thousand directions. Today I am able to point myself in the direction I
want to go.
I do not believe that this attitude takes anything away from the power
of God because He gave me freedom in the first place! He created me
to be free and to have the gift of decision-making. He is not a dictator
God, and I am not a puppet on a string. He loves me enough to allow
me to learn from my mistakes and take personal pride in my
achievements. Addiction made me powerless. Sobriety puts me in
touch with my God-given power.
I am forever grateful and thankful for my involvement in my own life.
I pray today that I might live responsibly a day at a time.
"Jesus
said to him, If you want to be perfect, go, sell what you have and give
to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow Me."
Matthew 19:21
"We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of
childbirth right up to the present time. Not only so, but we ourselves,
who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait
eagerly for our adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies. For in
this hope we were saved. But hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who
hopes for what he already has? But if we hope for what we do not yet
have, we wait for it patiently."
Romans 8:22-25
"Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full
armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's
schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against
the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark
world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms."
Ephesians 6:10-12
"Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like
a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm
in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the
world are undergoing the same kind of sufferings."
I Peter 5:8-9
"You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them, because
the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world."
I John 4:4 ***********************************************************
Daily Inspiration
Stay close to God because He is the solution to all problems. Lord,
I will live in Your presence, protected by You and Your peace will be
mine.
Our lives should be productive and useful and we should always make a
difference because we are alive. Lord, You have brought me to this new
day. Work with me so that I will have a successful day with many
accomplishments whether they are great or small.
Ask and you shall
receive, Seek and ye shall find, Knock and it shall be opened unto you. Matthew 7:7
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