Time for Men and Dads to pay close attention. From one US journalist
to us all. "Men's Silence is Women's Gold" is self-explanatory And
he is dead right too. He describes us all, Canadians, Americans,
Australians, New Zealanders, Europeans, and South African men to
a "T". We might not like what he is saying but he is completely and
honestly accurate in everything he says. As we Fathers in particular
close up to Fathers day and the inevitable pain and emotional
distress that comes with it we might well want to heed what Marc is
telling us. Its blunt and raw and to the point. But its cutting and
honest above all else. We need to accept what he is saying in that
we are our own worst enemies.


The italics and bold are my own

JS







MEN'S SILENCE IS WOMAN'S GOLD

By Marc H. Rudov
June 11, 2008
NewsWithViews.com

http://www.newswithviews.com/Rudov/marc8.htm



The Defeatist Generation



Tom Brokaw's book, The Greatest Generation, is filled with personal
accounts of brave American soldiers who fought in World War II.
Until Brokaw interviewed them, in their august years, they never had
spoken to anyone of their wartime experiences, believing that
feelings are better left undisturbed and unarticulated, that silence
and masculinity are synonymous. Instead of teaching their sons to
fight like hell and sacrifice for a great cause, these reluctant
talkers inadvertently created a generation of passively silent men
who pathetically march to the feminist agenda. Alas, these Boomers,
Gen-Xers, and Millennials are the men of The Defeatist Generation—
willing to lay down their arms and surrender to the gynocratic army.



When the topic is Osama bin Laden, men are Rambo; when the topic is
women, men are Bambi. Men will go bonkers over—and pay lots of cash
to see—football, hockey, rock concerts, tractor pulls, boxing
matches, and naked women. But, when elected officials legislate away
their reproductive, civil, and custody rights, their rowdiness melds
into reticence. These men of "action" are quickly transformed into
passive, diffident, cheap wimps. If one of their friends gets
falsely accused of rape, they will be shocked…for two seconds…and
then hope like hell it never happens to them. End of story.



Like Tom Brokaw's WWII heroes, men of The Defeatist Generation
willingly suck up their pain, akin to the old circus guy taking a
cannonball in the stomach. Unlike Brokaw's war heroes, however, they
win few gender wars because they rarely, if ever, fight back. Only
defeatists subserviently wine & dine their girlfriends and wives for
sex, and then see those same women gouge them in divorce court. Only
defeatists continue to reelect and reelect Senator Joe Biden, the
biggest man-hater in the US Senate, the father of VAWA—the
inexplicably unconstitutional but thriving Violence Against Women
Act.



On my radio show two weeks ago, I interviewed Michael Robinson,
executive director of the California Alliance of Families and
Children (CAFC). With an annual operating budget of $50K, Michael is
the sole policy consultant for men's rights in California. He
competes with 25 feminist lobbyists, operating with $10M per year —
outstaffed 25:1 and outspent 200:1. That's why California, in 2008,
still unconstitutionally defines DV as man hitting woman! Yet, he's
had some great legislative successes: preventing divorced mothers
from unilaterally moving their children out of state, keeping
parental alienation in the family-court lexicon, and putting a stop
to some forms of paternity fraud.



Incredibly, if Michael Robinson quits his tireless policy-reform
activities or becomes incapacitated, the men in California will have
nobody to fight for them in Sacramento. They must find this
alarming, right? Wrong. When I asked Robinson how much donation
money he had received almost two weeks after appearing on my show,
he answered: "Zero!" That's right: men feel entitled to Michael
Robinson's hard work.



Survival of the Fittest



Money talks; bullshit walks. One must conclude, then, that the
peripatetic men of the Golden State are so busy with bullshit, like
playing fantasy football and paying their women for sex, that they
can't be bothered to worry about losing their rights. That's why
California is called the Golden State: men's silence is women's
gold. Gynocratic politicians, and the male voters who elect them,
enable women to mine the gold of maternity and paternity fraud, and
false accusations of rape, DV, and sexual harassment.



Case in point: Senator Joe Biden wants to give women free access to
100K taxpayer-funded lawyers so they can falsely accuse men of DV
and take their children away from them. Unconstitutionality aside,
there are two psychological questions necessary here: 1) Why does
Biden continue his angry rampage against men? 2) Why do the eunuchs
of Delaware keep this A-hole in office?



Notwithstanding that "survival of the fittest" is an irrefutable
axiom, known to every living creature on Planet Earth, men somehow
contract amnesia and a death wish when women are present—their
testicles experience real shrinkage. I see this every time a man
pulls out a chair for his female competitor in the infamous
boardroom on Donald Trump's The Apprentice.



Passive silence is the signature characteristic of The Defeatist
Generation. Just remember what happens to the proverbial frog
sitting motionless in the pot of water over a low flame: as the
water temperature slowly rises (akin to yet another misandrist law
being passed), the frog incrementally approaches the point of death.
Likewise, while men sit in silent oblivion, the determined
feminists, aided by male politicians, incrementally crank up the
legislative and judicial heat until these silent, oblivious men are
dead in the water.



General Mills is currently running a misandrist Multi-Grain Cheerios
commercial in which the husband, deathly afraid of his wife, informs
her that the cereal has only 110 calories. She demands to know if
he's calling her fat. Then, he almost wets his pants and barely can
look her in the eye, while apologetically explaining that he was
merely reading the box's nutrition matrix. "What else does the box
say?" she gloweringly inquires. He sheepishly replies, "Shut up,
Steve." Finally, she shoots him a wan, condescending smirk of
approval. I want to puke every time I see this trash. This eunuch is
a typical cowering American male, a member of the Defeatist
Generation. Why didn't he just say to her, "Yeah, you have a fat
ass!"?



Why did General Mills fund this commercial? Because its VP of
marketing felt that diminishing a man in front of his wife would
sell cereal, based on how most couples interact. The eunuch in this
Cheerios commercial is a proxy for every man who grovels to
his "Merchant Maureen" for sex, for every feminist-
controlled "Gynocrat" who's so fearful of his wife that he willingly
throws his male constituents under the bus.



The NoNonsense Bottom Line



Based on my experience in this business, men tend to blame their
misandry predicament on women. That's like getting drunk and
wrapping your new car around a tree, and then blaming the alcohol.



The reality is, men must blame themselves for slowly giving away
their rights over the past 50 years. They must stop behaving like
cringing, passive, silent, cheap ostriches and become titans of
action — before the indefatigable feminists, with their deep Louis
Vuitton bags, completely gut men's rights. Men cling to their
remaining right—the right to remain silent—and have made it an art
form, a self-defeating death wish.



Men make two key mistakes in life: they recruit "Merchant Maureens"
and elect "Gynocrats". A "Merchant Maureen" is a woman who drops her
anchor into a man's wallet, with his consent. He is silent, out of
desperation for sex, and willingly gives her his gold. Most men,
whether in private life or politics, just don't have the balls to
stand up to "Merchant Maureens".




A "Gynocrat" is a politician who cares only about women's rights—men
are invisible and irrelevant. Can you name an American politician
who isn't a Gynocrat? Didn't think so. Yet, "Gynocrats" hold—and
keep—elected office because men, 44% of the electorate, put and keep
them there. Accordingly, "Gynocrats" care nothing about men because
they have no evidence that men care about themselves.



Men will protest a bad referee call during the Super Bowl, but they
won't protest bad laws that strip them of their rights. Men will pay
thousands of dollars to purchase widescreen TVs the week before the
Super Bowl, but they won't contribute $10 to a lobbyist fighting for
their rights to live as protected citizens. What else would you
expect from the Defeatist Generation?



Again, men make two key mistakes in life: they recruit Merchant
Maureens and elect Gynocrats. Very simply, then, here's how they can
self-correct: 1) don't recruit Merchant Maureens and 2) don't elect
Gynocrats.



The true measure of a man is the courage of his convictions, the
degree to which he'll fight for his rights. The bottom line is the
bottom line: How much do you really want to keep your gold? Your
deafening silence says it all.



© 2008-Marc H. Rudov







Marc H. Rudov, The NoNonsense Man™, has gained a worldwide
reputation as an authority on male-female relationships. He is the
author of Under the Clitoral Hood: How to Crank Her Engine Without
Cash, Booze, or Jumper Cables™, and The Man's No-Nonsense Guide to
Women: How to Succeed in Romance on Planet Earth™.

Rudov has appeared on the KTLA Morning Show, CNN, Fox Business
Network, and is a featured weekly guest on Fox News Channel's Your
World with Neil Cavuto. Rudov also appears regularly on FNC's The
O'Reilly Factor.

Marc Rudov has piqued many listeners on radio shows including The
Howard Stern Show (Sirius), The Tom Leykis Show (CBS Radio), The
Dennis Miller Show (Westwood One), The John Gibson Program (Fox News
Radio), The Mancow Show (Talk Radio Network), Covino & Rich
(Maxim/Sirius), Afternoon Advice with Tiffany Granath
(Playboy/Sirius), The Roger Hedgecock Show (Clear Channel), The Troy
Neff Show (Fox Sports Radio), The Big Show with Mason & Ireland
(ESPN Radio), National Evenings with Libbi Gorr & Mary Moody (ABC
Radio Australia), and The John Oakley Morning Show (AM640 Radio
Toronto).

Radio Show: TheMarcRudovShow

Website: TheNoNonsenseMan.com

E-Mail: marc@...



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