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> The basic laws of healing
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> By JAGUAR SPEAKS
> LET’S look at the three integral and indispensable laws of
> healing. The first one is unconditional love. Some time back, we shared the
> five-minute miracle, which is based on unconditional love – love that is not
> possessive, which does not restrain, which gives itself equally to everyone.
> Like the sun, this love radiates for every one regardless of their race or
> religion.
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> Empathy is at the heart of any helping relationship. We must
> want to help to be able to carry out a process that will be beneficial,
> right and balanced for another person. We must feel this compulsion to help
> in a spirit of empathy and love.
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> We need to be careful in understanding this love, which is
> empathy, with sympathy. Sympathy will alienate those we feel sorry for
> because when we sympathize with someone, we cannot be comfortable facing
> their feelings. We suffer when confronted by their suffering, because we
> want it to stop. However, with empathy, we do not get directly involved in
> their suffering. Empathy is something detached and only to give and to
> share. It is the same for everyone, regardless of the degree of suffering.
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> This empathetic attitude comes from understanding who we are.
> Through meditation we come to recognize the mystery within. We can then
> become conscious of the fact that the other person is a reflection of the
> same mystery. This love in empathy is, at the same time, love of ourselves.
> It is a matter of giving to another person what we would wish to receive.
> Through this sense of togetherness – that we are one – we learn to share
> those resources of love that are inside us.
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> This kind of love cannot be expressed without loving ourselves.
> It is only then that we are in a position to love others. We must feel
> empathy for ourselves before experiencing it with others. This attitude of
> empathy should accompany any meditation, when we sit in silence and sense
> the mystery that lives inside us all.
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> To help others we must give ourselves some moments of relaxation
> and pleasure. Try to allocate at least one day a week to doing only those
> things that you like. It is important for a healer to be replenished so that
> there is a well of happiness, well-being and joy to pass on to others,
> without any loss of personal energy.
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> We should enjoy our self wherever we can. It is very important
> to understand that we must look after ourselves before trying to look after
> others. (The biggest failing in care givers and healers – myself included.)
>
> This is why the first integral principle in any approach to a
> helping relationship is unconditional love. Healing comes only from
> unconditional love. When someone embodies love all over, they will succeed
> in healing just with a touch of the fingertips. The great miracle workers
> and healers of our age all embodied this principle of unconditional love. It
> is this principle that will heal our nation and our world, and make Vision
> 2020 and national unity a reality as we practice unconditional love for our
> brothers and sisters regardless of race and religion.
>
> The method used for healing, whether it be homeopathy, crystal
> therapy, phytotherapy, psychotherapy or traditional medicine is not as
> important as this first underlying principle of unconditional love. Our
> ability, as healers (and we all are healers), to live these basic truths
> necessary for healing will always bring about a healing.
>
> The second fundamental law of healing is non-attachment.
> Sympathy is a sentiment that is attached, while empathy involves absolutely
> no attachment.
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> Non-attachment signifies that we are not linked to the result
> and understand that it is the other who is responsible for their own cure.
> It is never the healer who heals the other. We are only a tool, a channel
> and an instrument of the divine in the healing process. The best healer and
> the best medicine in the world will not heal anyone who does not want to be
> healed. The illness will remain or move to another spot, but it will not
> disappear because the “ill person” has decided to keep it, consciously or
> otherwise.
>
> We must remember that as a healer we are not God. The only
> person responsible for a cure is the one affected. This is why we must be
> unattached to the result. If that person we are helping gets better, we must
> not feel proud and boast about the cure. Equally, if the person does not get
> better, we should not blame our self or feel guilty as long as we have
> practiced these three basic rules in our healing approach.
>
> The principle of non-attachment is insurance for the healer and
> guarantees they will always be objective, impartial and well-balanced. It is
> the ill person who will succeed in curing themselves. We need to remember
> that illness is an opportunity for growth, a signal that tells us we must
> change and restore our harmony with the universe. Illness is not so much a
> negative affair as something that can be healthy for our evolution. This
> applies in every aspect of our life including at our national and
> international level. When we see past challenges as mistakes that have
> helped us grow we become better in every way.
>
> Sometimes, the healing for someone may actually involve death,
> which is itself a stage of growth, a transition. The healer will come across
> cases where people have finished their time in this life and our role may be
> to lead them to death and help them to die. It is essential that in such a
> case the individual be allowed to progress naturally. Herein lies one of the
> great problems of allopathic medicine, because it tries by all means
> possible to keep people alive, even when this conflicts with their time to
> die. We all know the suffering that this can cause both family and patient.
>
> The healer should work on the person affected. We should
> strengthen and help their sense of evolution and development.
>
> This brings us to the third fundamental law, which is intention.
> Having a clear intention of what we want to achieve is fundamental to all
> therapeutic applications. Energy follows the thought, like an electric wire
> carrying the healing current.
>
> Imagining clearly the intention of the treatment will help the
> healer to use fully their healing energy, whether through a crystal,
> allopathic medicine, or simply advice. If we know how to keep clearly in
> mind our intention to heal, the results will be all the more positive.
> Sadly, in our fast-paced world, many healers treat their healing as “just a
> job”.
>
> We want to reduce the suffering, soothe the pain and cure the
> illnesses. This intention is inappropriate because what stand out are
> “suffering”, “pain” and “illness”. Importance is being given to the problem.
> We should refrain from energising the problem and, instead, energise the
> person, by giving them strength to help relieve them of the health problems
> they are experiencing.
>
> A good intention is “This person is showing perfect health, the
> forces are circulating freely throughout their body and they feel absolutely
> fine.” By imagining this intention, the healing energy will follow the
> thought, the channel that you have prepared for it. The patient will be
> better equipped to use, in a beneficial way, the energy that is available
> through you at that moment.
>
> Everything is in the intention. Remember, when we eat our food,
> if we forget to concentrate on the intention to help and to cure, we will
> know it soon enough. The effect of this practice will be greatly reduced,
> your digestion will not be so good and the taste of the food will be less
> enhanced.
>
> I agree and understand that we need to know the illness
> thoroughly, what its effects are and so on. We have to name the illness but
> it is not good to confirm the existence of the illness in fatalistic terms
> or to talk about it in such a way near the patient. We must learn how to
> choose our words carefully and allow the energy to circulate in a way that
> will be helpful for the cure. How many times have you heard a doctor, at the
> bed of a patient, talk in fatalistic terms that energise the illness.
>
> We must never forget that the illness does not really exist,
> that it is transitory. In fact, we do not exist either, because we are
> transitory. We are continually in a state of change. In reality, the “Hazri”
> now writing this article will not be the same “Hazri” when you read it.
>
> I believe with absolute certainty that illness is never a test
> from the divine. All illness is a signal that we are out of alignment with
> the divine will for our lives. As soon as we realign ourselves with the
> divine will, we heal ourselves.
>
> I have recently been nominated as the country coordinator for
> Malaysia, for Humanity’s Team, a new worldwide movement that seeks to bring
> people together around a central organizing principle – that the world does
> not have to be the way it is, and that individual people can change it,
> using the power of spiritual citizenship. The mission of Humanity’s Team is
> to create the space of possibility for a new spirituality to emerge on the
> earth. It seeks to do this by causing humanity to see that there may be
> something human beings do not understand about God and about Life, the
> understanding of which could change everything. I want to invite all
> Malaysians to join me in this venture (read more about it at
> http://www.humanitiesteam.com ) and then write to me. I am asking for
> volunteers across all races and religions who believe we can make a
> difference in Malaysia and the world.
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> Jaguar Speaks is the pen name chosen by Mohd Hazri Humphreys for
> its healing vibrations. He is an Australian who has made Malaysia his home.
> He is a ‘corporate healer’ and trainer and is the Malaysian country
> coordinator for Humanities Team (http://www.humanitiesteam.com ) as well as
> a Principal of Circles of Life International
> (http://www.homestead.com/MilleniumEvolution/CirclesofLifeInternational.html
> , a Global Healing Network. Write to Hazri at shique@...
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