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Thank you to everyone for the support..with everything that is going on with my grandfather.
I have no new news to report, my sister and her family went to visit yesterday but nobody reported into me on what's going on. So, I am in the dark right now.
I wanted to go along yesterday but I woke with a very bad sore throat and I couldn't go. I would not have been allowed near my grandfather, so it was pointless for me to go along. It worked out ok, we had storms yesterday which upset Hattie greatly, so I was able to be here with her. I tried mostly to just be lazy yesterday, which I did well. Considering my grandmother, Uncle and mother gave me a wonderfully LARGE "to do list" for this week, which includes about ten other things daily to do on top of the things I have already been put in charge of. One can only take on so much and nobody seems to mind if I feel like cracking, they just keep piling it all on more and more.
On Friday, I finally told my sister, I couldn't do all of this alone and I needed her help. Her words to me were to "buck up" she has her own life to worry about. I have a real problem with that and we had a huge fight. I have no problem helping out in the family at all...but I am always the one everyone calls when they need or want something, like "I have no life". My sister while I was running around like a chicken with my head cut off this week, told me "if you have any news on Pap, call my cell, I'll be at the pool"...(GRRRRRRRRR!) Another time I called to give a report, she left and was getting her hair highlighted, while her oldest son (age 15) stayed with the baby sitting kids. What a rough life.......Yeah, priorities.
Sorry, I don't mean to flip off here, I am just overwhelmed. I am just very upset that...not a soul called yesterday to give me a report on my grandfather but people were able to contact me to give me a longer list of things to do. My Uncle is a huge responsibility at the moment and even before he had his stroke he is mainly like a middle aged child. You have to baby sit him CONSTANTLY, not because of his stroke but becase that's just the way it is...It's difficult to describe and I am sure you are all thinking I am a horrible ungrateful individual right now. It's so difficult to explain and it's not worth trying.
Thank you all for your support, you've held me up during this past week, I only hope I can hold it together for this week as well.
I hope you are all dizzy free and take care.
Jen and Hattie, Kitties too
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I have no new news to report, my sister and her family went to visit yesterday but nobody reported into me on what's going on. So, I am in the dark right now.
I wanted to go along yesterday but I woke with a very bad sore throat and I couldn't go. I would not have been allowed near my grandfather, so it was pointless for me to go along. It worked out ok, we had storms yesterday which upset Hattie greatly, so I was able to be here with her. I tried mostly to just be lazy yesterday, which I did well. Considering my grandmother, Uncle and mother gave me a wonderfully LARGE "to do list" for this week, which includes about ten other things daily to do on top of the things I have already been put in charge of. One can only take on so much and nobody seems to mind if I feel like cracking, they just keep piling it all on more and more.
On Friday, I finally told my sister, I couldn't do all of this alone and I needed her help. Her words to me were to "buck up" she has her own life to worry about. I have a real problem with that and we had a huge fight. I have no problem helping out in the family at all...but I am always the one everyone calls when they need or want something, like "I have no life". My sister while I was running around like a chicken with my head cut off this week, told me "if you have any news on Pap, call my cell, I'll be at the pool"...(GRRRRRRRRR!) Another time I called to give a report, she left and was getting her hair highlighted, while her oldest son (age 15) stayed with the baby sitting kids. What a rough life.......Yeah, priorities.
Sorry, I don't mean to flip off here, I am just overwhelmed. I am just very upset that...not a soul called yesterday to give me a report on my grandfather but people were able to contact me to give me a longer list of things to do. My Uncle is a huge responsibility at the moment and even before he had his stroke he is mainly like a middle aged child. You have to baby sit him CONSTANTLY, not because of his stroke but becase that's just the way it is...It's difficult to describe and I am sure you are all thinking I am a horrible ungrateful individual right now. It's so difficult to explain and it's not worth trying.
Thank you all for your support, you've held me up during this past week, I only hope I can hold it together for this week as well.
I hope you are all dizzy free and take care.
Jen and Hattie, Kitties too
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