Hello,I'm sorry to read of your various problems. I'm confused as to who was writing to who-which of you is so ill? Feel free to email me personally so we can really chat. maybe i'm able to offer some help/suggestions- and if nothing else at least i can help out as a friend--- shoulder to lean on etc. dont feel like you've got to get right back to me. with my own difficulties i cannot get to the computer as quickly as i'd like to sometimes-so please dont take it personally if you do email me and i seem to have fallen off the planet--i've not forgotten--i'm just trying to do what i can--if anything.ami in MIps. i hope to be helpful and supportive. i'm not trying to sound like a know it all or anything like that. every so often i have some difficulty saying (writing) what i mean-especially if i'm trying to keep it fairly short and to the point so that those that arent interested in it-dont have to read through tons of material-but occassionally it may sound really abrupt or even rude and thats never the intention. thanks again Ami