i just joined ...i need some support here..my daughter is 15 she
accused me of being a drunk and prior to that her dad who owes over
80,000 dllars thats right ..i swear her was working on her she became
awful to me in the past few years and worse after he got her a cell
phone..i feel i was alienated...she has been away now for almost a
year and refuses to have any contact,,,these people never even came to
my home the state..she was telling the neighbors and they never even
talked to
me about it.when asked by judge if they ever seen me drink they said
no but could smell it on me..my god i worked every day. and i had
coffe with them a few times a week ..anyway the
state gave them guardienship ..and as soon as my daughter found that
this was not going to get her sent to her dads right away she started
acting up with them
she ran..to him ..on her birthday he had told me he was going to
kidnap her and i called the state and my atty.they thought i was
nuts...and we still dont kwow how she got 500 miles away.he had to
return her which
he didnt for over a month oh this was the month of may and so she
missed school while he negotiated for her return with police jesus the
kid is a straight a student what was he thinking ..i know himself the
state really messed up on this ill tell you..when she returned they
still wouldnt give her back they would have had to admit it..so i got
in touch with my estraged parents so she wouldnt be put into a group
hhome yes it was a deal with the devil now shes with family member of
my stepmoms who
believe her...there is money involved aha.. that became foster
parents to her..i really only met these people a few times havent seen
any of them in 8years//i have done everything and
more to satisfy the courts .including forced aa meetings ect..my
lawywer dosnt want to now see this for what it truly is he says as
long as she refuses to have contact it the wat it is and i fear she
will be really screwed up..i am crushed and the holidays are killing
me the workers are so not helpful and they treat me like shit and say
i am in denial...I AM NOT i love my daughter more than i can say and i
feel the system is so much more harmful i never will understand ..i
miss her so much..i feel as though i am going crazy my thoughts are
scattered ..the very fabric of my being is unravveling