Thank you for allowing me into your group. I am 32 years old, married mother of 4. I live near Chicago Illinois. I am not sure where to begin....I am the...
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Hello everyone This is so frustrating that I am writing this...it is likee dajsbnu Last summer my husband went to rehab for 3 months after a year of steadly...
Hi Cheryl: Unfortunately you cannot do anything about this it is his problem not yours. Take care of yourself and do what is best for you. Don't worry about...
I am going through a similar situation except my husband has gotten title loans 2 of our vehicles, pawned his tools (his work tools) and more. I finally said...
Hi We are so similiar.....my husband spends money when he is drinking and when he was using. I guess I should be greatful he is just drinking.....lol He is...
Hi all. I am glad this group is here. My boyfriend is an alcoholic and is now in AA for almost 3 weeks. He has good days and bad days like anyone and hasn't...
Remember it takes 2 people to have a fight ...We can chose not to participate in an argument . We can't control anothers actions , only our reactions . ...
All we can do is work our own steps, and turn things over to our Higher Power. Stick close to the Al-Anon fellowship. You'll be amazed at how much we change...
Heyya..I hear ya..those pity parties are so sad ..I am learning to try to not take things so personal..he is lately on a bit of a high horse..oh my! Guess...
I think he is at the stage where everyone (especially me) is out to get him. We opened a tattoo shop together about 2 months ago. His credit is bad so I went...
I've learned NOT to try the same thing over and over expecting different results, because unless the alcoholic wants to change, they won't. Only I can change...
You're so right. I know that if he gets angry I just have to not fight back. As hard as it will be I will stay quiet and maybe he will learn that I am not...
Hey all..I decided to go to al-anon meetings here in my city and have been to 2 so far. I see hope and I know it will be a long road before I no longer feel...
... Hi Jim, I cant tell you how comforting your message is. I am new to al= anon but not to life and yet I once again got involved with a recovering alcoholoic...
Ok.. I am about to spill my guts here so please be brutally honest with me. I need it. Yesterday all hell broke loose and I am left wondering if I can do this...
First, take a breath. It sounds like the situation is much more complicated than it sounds. I understand your pain and confusion. Unfortunately, addicts...
I think this was the hardest thing for me to accept. He was in rehab for 3 months, so when he got out I expected to be able to spend some time with...
I have a question for you. Which is more important to you, his sobriety, or your romantic evenings? He's doing what it takes for HIM to say sober, and you have...
Yesterday was a better day. One day at a time right Erika? We talked like adults about what I felt, what he felt, and what we both needed. I guess what I...
Your question to your alcoholic was and I quote....." You're going to 3 meetings today, and not spending time with me" ? Sorry if I misread that. I read that...
Good for you! Yeah the not fighting thing is hard for me still. I think it is just frustration on my part. But you are so right when you dont...
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Don't try doing the same thing over again and expect different results. I know this is difficult, been there got the t-shirt. Trust isn't handed on a silver...
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Elaine, One more thing if I may. The only person we have to please is ourselves. **************Vote for your city's best dining and nightlife. City's Best ...
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