Hello MAb,<br> Yes that is wonderful news. I have to seen some miracles in my life. I to have had to let go of some things that I was hanging on to....Needlees...
I slept with the enemy last night . My wife (A) has been living with her parents for the past 6 months , Last night her mother got tired of cleaning up after...
Hay we all have been there done that.....Dont be too tuff on yourself.......Also on the house thing, Have you thought of other ways to keep the hosue? Like ...
I remember separating and moving away from my A at one point in my life. I used to call him over to see the kids, and once they were in bed, to be honest, I...
Been there myself.Felt like dirt afterwards,but as francine said we are human. Besides whats the serenity prayer say? <br>God grant me the serenity to accept...
Henry,<br>I've been where you are... and done many of the same things. Believe it or not, your situation can be a gift-- even though it may not seem like it at...
Hi all. Thank you for being here and keeping the posting active. I always manage to hear what I need to hear. The past week has been chock full of things I'm ...
Hi Everyone,<br> I am checking in today and I have to say I am Great. I am feeling peaceful and I am really liking this. I am having a great day and it is just...
Hi everyone,wish I could be upbeat as I was last week, but so goes the life of those of us with associations with A's. I must say I was feeling better, but ...
this has been a good week,, I went and did some stuff for myself that I feel really good about.<br>I make lampwork beads and put 10 sets up on ebay. <br>hope...
Hope everybody had a good week. Mine went ok. On Wednesday I went to a meeting. I was glad I did. My mood improved and I found myself with a little more energy...
My weekend was not that great! I am in a rut! I am hurt! and want to cry my eyes out! but what good would it do? Tomorrow is a new day....and i will go on ,...
After reading the posts from the last few days, I see members going through some pretty sobering times. I see people that are hurting, some are estranging ...
Last week was up and down. My A is in early recovery again. I got into the dread of he's not doing what he needs to do and I got scared. I want to control. By...
Boy is this something I have had to do. I have had to smile even when it looked like I had nothing to smile about. I even remember just looking at a spider on...
Happiness is not a state to arrive at, but a manner of traveling.<br>— Margaret Lee Runbeck<br><br>We all want to be happy. When we're not, we try to ...
I've not posted in a while......not because I've drifted away but because I find myself busy with my home group which I love! It's so good to keep busy and not...
My alcoholic will always try to drive me nuts and there is nothing I can do about it. And this is the reason I have such a hard time with alanon. Sober or ...
Hi,<br>What I'm going to say may sound cold and hard, and I apologize in advance if I offend you. You said a few key words in that posting that I don't think...
I have an ex who infuriates me so!!!<br><br>I went out..bought a punching bag....and at first..it was a small punch...after 10 minutes..i had worked up my...
I have thought about my anger and yes it is my anger and I have to be willing to do something about it, I agree on that. I do know this though. Everyone is at...
When I read your post, something did immediately come to mind... There's something written about step 10 (that am haunted by, but I find has proven true for...
I guess I've had this on my mind for awhile-- so, I've finally worked up the nerve to post on it... I have heard, over and over from folks I've run into ...
First off, if you ever need a shoulder..just send me an email..(gonna_b_no_1@...) or im me!!!<br><br>Secondly, I too am homebound. 99% of the support that...
The day has come...<br><br>Yahoo is slowly integrating yahoo clubs into groups. I have seen some of the new "groups" Not much will be changing...so don't be ...
I've had some very mixed feelings about my home group lately. I've heard some things, from some of the ladies and some I overheard, that bother me. When does ...
Francine--<br>Thank you. <br><br>It all comes back to our "primary purpose"... to help each other deal... Thanks for reminding me and showing me HOW, ...