Is there a post I have to find or does one start on a specific day? this is my
first experience with a meeting of this type, so please explain.

I've been in Al-Anon over 25 years and have not hit a barrier like the one I'm
hitting my head against right now. And it hurts!!! Being codependent on an
alcoholic was difficult, but being codependent on a codependent is so far into
insanity, I'm reeling and it just started. I know I'm in over my head, I've
asked HP for guidance, I'm working the first 5 steps on the issue. I'm stuck at
step 4; not stuck, but what's the word . . . pig headed? Yea, that fits. I'm
putting it off and suffering like I did in the beginning. I'm playing victim
and resenting every moment of it. LOL. What an amazing learning
experience/growth opportunity. Thanks for listening. Thanks HP. Amen.