I remember when my ex A was that way (he still is but I don't have to live with
him) I found that the best thing to do in order to keep my serenity was get out
of the home for a couple of hours.  Take a walk, go window shopping anything
that got me out of the home for a while.  When I got back he was still in his
mood the only difference was that I wasn't going to take it.  When I got back I
usually ended up in another area of the apartment doing what I wanted to do. 
It isn't worth smashing things take a deep breath and walk away for a few hours.
 
Wendy

--- On Wed, 7/29/09, ycuffe <ycuffe@...> wrote:


From: ycuffe <ycuffe@...>
Subject: [chicago alanon] OOOHHHHHH
To: chicagoalanon@yahoogroups.com
Received: Wednesday, July 29, 2009, 4:18 PM


 



Do you know what I am so sick of the attitude of the alcoholic in my life. He is
sober but he is being a royal pr**k (do not mean to offend anybody) We are happy
on his terms. If he is in a bad mood that that's ok, I have to tip toe around. I
have to pander to his needs, moods, whims and ego!! I am so sick of him. Do not
have the capacity right now to humbly ask anything of anybody. I just want to
smash stuff!!!!!
















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