Have just joined so I am not completly sure how this works. I am looking to more
experienced members for their advise on how they achieved detachment. I know
members do not offer advice, but I guess if I heard how people achieved
detachment from their alcohilic then "I can take what I want and leave the rest"
I am in the fortunate in that the alcoholic in my life is in recovery. But I am
unfortunate in having an alcoholic in my life at all!!! I am now trying to learn
about detachment as I feel this is the next step I need to take in order to
maintain my sanity. I struggle here though as I cannot differentiate between
detachment and abondonment. How in the name of all that is good and holy do you
detach without adopting and attitude of "Sod You" I truely want to support my
husband and it is fantastic that he is working so hard at maintaining sorbiety,
but how do I support him and mind myself????????