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Re: [chicago alanon] I need some guidence..

Breathing is a good thing. Glad you're doing better. Stay in the moment, and
don't let this get the best of you.



**************Vote for your city's best dining and nightlife. City's Best
2008. (http://citysbest.aol.com?ncid=aolacg00050000000102)


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Ok.. I am about to spill my guts here so please be brutally honest with me. I need it. Yesterday all hell broke loose and I am left wondering if I can do this... 		Amanda
amandajg24
Offline Send Email 		Jun 5, 2008
8:17 pm

First, take a breath.  It sounds like the situation is much more complicated than it sounds.  I understand your pain and confusion.  Unfortunately, addicts...
erika brechbill
animal.erika
Offline Send Email 		Jun 6, 2008
12:38 am

I think this was the hardest thing for me to accept.  He was in rehab for 3 months, so when he got out I expected to be able to spend some time with...
cheryl coats
cheryl_cts
Offline Send Email 		Jun 6, 2008
1:57 am

I have a question for you. Which is more important to you, his sobriety, or your romantic evenings? He's doing what it takes for HIM to say sober, and you have...
Rhen56@...
rhent4free2
Offline Send Email 		Jun 6, 2008
7:18 pm

Yesterday was a better day. One day at a time right Erika? We talked like adults about what I felt, what he felt, and what we both needed. I guess what I...
Amanda Jabben
amandajg24
Offline Send Email 		Jun 6, 2008
8:35 pm

Your question to your alcoholic was and I quote....." You're going to 3 meetings today, and not spending time with me" ? Sorry if I misread that. I read that...
Rhen56@...
rhent4free2
Offline Send Email 		Jun 6, 2008
11:41 pm

... to 3 ... years, and I've ... do NOT try to ... learned NOT ... Spontaneity seems ... statement. I ... don't feel ... with ... I need advice from you. I was...
elainc
Offline Send Email 		Jun 7, 2008
5:43 pm

Don't try doing the same thing over again and expect different results. I know this is difficult, been there got the t-shirt. Trust isn't handed on a silver...
Rhen56@...
rhent4free2
Offline Send Email 		Jun 7, 2008
10:34 pm

... results. I ... handed on a ... control ... pisses me ... that question ... feeling Thank you for your response. As painful as it is you are so right. I ...
elainc
Offline Send Email 		Jun 10, 2008
1:03 am

Elaine, One more thing if I may. The only person we have to please is ourselves. **************Vote for your city's best dining and nightlife. City's Best ...
Rhen56@...
rhent4free2
Offline Send Email 		Jun 10, 2008
7:14 pm

... ourselves. ... so thatn my kids.. you are so kind I have lost my center and become obsessed again. I wait for phone calls email I am so lost and confused.....
elainc
Offline Send Email 		Jun 11, 2008
12:59 am

Yes, set your foot down. Tell him what you will NOT accept. He probably won't like it, but that's his choice. We don't have to be doormats, and we deserve much...
Rhen56@...
rhent4free2
Offline Send Email 		Jun 11, 2008
3:53 pm

... really nice day. I dont know how to attend the meetings online but I am trying and you are soo right. I just came back and I dont have a sponsor but you...
elainc
Offline Send Email 		Jun 12, 2008
1:41 am

Breathing is a good thing. Glad you're doing better. Stay in the moment, and don't let this get the best of you. **************Vote for your city's best...
Rhen56@...
rhent4free2
Offline Send Email 		Jun 12, 2008
3:25 pm

... moment, and ... Best...
elainc
Offline Send Email 		Jun 13, 2008
1:25 am
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