Ok.. I am about to spill my guts here so please be brutally honest with me. I need it. Yesterday all hell broke loose and I am left wondering if I can do this...
First, take a breath. It sounds like the situation is much more complicated than it sounds. I understand your pain and confusion. Unfortunately, addicts...
I think this was the hardest thing for me to accept. He was in rehab for 3 months, so when he got out I expected to be able to spend some time with...
I have a question for you. Which is more important to you, his sobriety, or your romantic evenings? He's doing what it takes for HIM to say sober, and you have...
Yesterday was a better day. One day at a time right Erika? We talked like adults about what I felt, what he felt, and what we both needed. I guess what I...
Your question to your alcoholic was and I quote....." You're going to 3 meetings today, and not spending time with me" ? Sorry if I misread that. I read that...
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Don't try doing the same thing over again and expect different results. I know this is difficult, been there got the t-shirt. Trust isn't handed on a silver...
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Elaine, One more thing if I may. The only person we have to please is ourselves. **************Vote for your city's best dining and nightlife. City's Best ...
... ourselves. ... so thatn my kids.. you are so kind I have lost my center and become obsessed again. I wait for phone calls email I am so lost and confused.....
Yes, set your foot down. Tell him what you will NOT accept. He probably won't like it, but that's his choice. We don't have to be doormats, and we deserve much...
... really nice day. I dont know how to attend the meetings online but I am trying and you are soo right. I just came back and I dont have a sponsor but you...
Breathing is a good thing. Glad you're doing better. Stay in the moment, and don't let this get the best of you. **************Vote for your city's best...