--- In chicagoalanon@yahoogroups.com, Rhen56@... wrote:
>
> Don't try doing the same thing over again and expect different
results. I
> know this is difficult, been there got the t-shirt. Trust isn't
handed on a
> silver platter, it's earned.
>
> I feel that your inner peace comes and goes because he's trying to
control
> you. The only person I can control is me, and sometimes that really
pisses me
> off.
>
> Reset your boundaries, and stick to them. Do you want him to continue
> bringing you down, or do you want to flourish in your life, without
that question
> of " where is he, who is he with, when will he be home"? I have a
feeling
Thank you for your response. As painful as it is you are so right. I
have been going up and down and my inner peace has been dependent on
hime and he is so controlling. I know the person I can control is me
and I feel so out of control and it is making me crazy. and it is so
painful. I will make it throught this night! I will make it throught
this night!
> since you have forgiven him once, he'll keep on expecting you to
over and over
> again.
>
> His anger might be that he got caught lying yet again. Weigh your
options
> carefully, and choose the path that's best for you.
>
> I wish you the best. Hope I shed some light.
>
>
> Rhenda
>
>
>
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