--- In chicagoalanon@yahoogroups.com, "Amanda" <ajabben@...> wrote:
>
> I know how you feel. I also have to learn to not fight with mine too.
> Please share your sucesses with me!
>
> --- In chicagoalanon@yahoogroups.com, "awieboots" <awieboots@>
> wrote:
> >
> > You're so right. I know that if he gets angry I just have to not
> fight
> > back. As hard as it will be I will stay quiet and maybe he will
> learn
> > that I am not going to do the silly arguing game anymore. We had a
> > fight today and after about 10 minutes of my silence he apologized
> and
> > admitted that he goes off the head when he sees the sun shining and
> > thinks of his drinking days. Who knows but I know that for my own
> > sanity, I have to not fight him period..
> >
>The hardest part we have to do to keep our sanit is to not get hooked
into their insanity. keep the forcus on ourselves. At least he
apologized thats a good beginnig.