I know how you feel. I also have to learn to not fight with mine too.
Please share your sucesses with me!

--- In chicagoalanon@yahoogroups.com, "awieboots" <awieboots@...>
wrote:
>
> You're so right. I know that if he gets angry I just have to not
fight
> back. As hard as it will be I will stay quiet and maybe he will
learn
> that I am not going to do the silly arguing game anymore. We had a
> fight today and after about 10 minutes of my silence he apologized
and
> admitted that he goes off the head when he sees the sun shining and
> thinks of his drinking days. Who knows but I know that for my own
> sanity, I have to not fight him period..
>