You're so right. I know that if he gets angry I just have to not fight
back. As hard as it will be I will stay quiet and maybe he will learn
that I am not going to do the silly arguing game anymore. We had a
fight today and after about 10 minutes of my silence he apologized and
admitted that he goes off the head when he sees the sun shining and
thinks of his drinking days. Who knows but I know that for my own
sanity, I have to not fight him period..