Heyya..I hear ya..those pity parties are so sad ..I am learning to try to not
take things so personal..he is lately on a bit of a high horse..oh my! Guess
that's part of it too..he'll be sober 1month april 8th please GOD but I am being
realistic that it might not happen..I will just turn up the volume when he gets
on..lol=) Thanks!
Andrea


----- Original Message ----
From: Henry <henrym64@...>
To: chicagoalanon@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Sunday, March 30, 2008 11:49:22 A
Subject: Re: [chicago alanon] new here

Remember it takes 2 people to have a fight ...We can chose not to participate in
an argument . We can't control anothers actions , only our reactions .
Detach with love ...Find other things to do when he has a pity party ....lol
Have a nice day ,
Henry

awieboots <awieboots@yahoo. com> wrote:
Hi all. I am glad this group is here. My boyfriend is an alcoholic and
is now in AA for almost 3 weeks. He has good days and bad days like
anyone and hasn't had a drink in this time period. I guess I am trying
to deal with the past hurts, lies and how to avoid any arguements that
might come up now. I want to look out for me and not give my 110% all
to him. I need help trying to deal with the not so good days and the ex
gf and all the drama that went along with it. I hope you are all
well..lotsa love.

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