Twice now I have found hidden alcohol bottles in the house. The first
time I sadly believed it to be a one time issue. HOwever, I just found
more and now I believe it to be alcoholism. I asked my husband why
(which I am sure is not the right approach but I was so stunned and
angry). He claims it is how he handles our difficult son. Obviously,
this is not going to help but hurt. Our home is too large to search nor
do I really want to. I am so sad and don't know what to do next. I am
self employed so I am getting my ducks in a row. I am trying to build
the business big enough that I can support both my son and myself
without my husband's support down the road. I know my life will change
and I want to keep the disruptions to my son's life as little as
possible. Please offer advice, this is all so new to me. My first
reaction was to kick him out immediately, which I still want to do but
I have not done yet.