Greetings all,

I am married to an alc. and have three wonderful children. A few
years back things had got really bad (after 12 years of trying to
deal with it) so I packed up my kids and left. My hubby went to
rehab (a 2 week prog) and got out and was doing good at first. But
I guess that is normal. We were separated for 1 year and he was
doing well (so I thought) and we slowly started to see each other
and let him visit the kids. We got back to together and here we are
four years later...heading down the same path to distruction. He
refuses to go to a meeting, is still in denial, thinks he can
moderate...etc. I am sure you all know the drill.

My questions stems from reading someone else's post about being an
enabler. I fear that is what I am doing and what should I do to stop
it. I have never been to a face to face meeting and frankly am
scared to death (don't know why though). Well any tips or words of
encouragement would be appreciated, especially in regard to my
children. I do so worry about them following in his footsteps.

Diedrajm