Hi Dennis (LOL, my brother's name, and also the Hurricane that's
knocking on our door this weekend). Thanks for the insight, I did go
to an Al-Anon meeting years ago, but they told me no kids, and now with
a small baby, I'm sure that she would not be welcome, unless they've
changed the rules. I will check into this, because I do need some kind
of SOMETHING. I feel like I'm going nuts sometimes, and walking on
eggshells the rest of the time, and no matter what I do or say, I can't
avoid the crossfire. Although I won't be living with this man in 4
days time, he will always be my daughter's father, and his 2 boys are
royally screwed up from his relationship with them. Any way I can help
my girl NOT end up like that is what I am going to do.