Hi Maura..so glad you find the program helpful...it
has helped me so much and I must say it is the best
thing I have ever done for myself! I find that if I
keep going to meetings,reading the literature and
talking to others in the program while working the
steps it helps me to find serenity and keeps me
focused on myself and today...I have a tendency to
think about the past and the future and I know that we
really only have this moment and how it unfolds has
alot to do with my attitude...so hope to see you
around in the meetings and good luck to you...hang in
there and you will know your progress one day at a
time!

florence
--- Luisa p <sirena10332003@...> wrote:
> Hey everyone
>
> It's me maura
>
> Well I had to change my e-mail address. Any ways I
> finally went to an al-anon meeting. you guy where
> right it is great. I met so many people who have
> gone or are going through the same things I am. It
> was nice to see how they have handled the situation.
> Also to give you guys an update my husband and I
> have separated. So we are talking about maybe trying
> it again but I am very skeptical about it. I have to
> admit though that my maternal instincts and
> co-dependency is getting to me. I found myself
> wanted to go back because he needs me. Thank god I
> have been seeing a Psychologist in regards to my
> co-dependency and have to admit that I am learning
> to control it. i have been apart from him now 5
> weeks. he still calls and tries to make me feel
> guilty for not being by his side. But I know that
> right now this is what i need. I am trying to
> concentrate on me. How can I love him and try to
> help him if i cant help myself, not only that I am
> not responsible for him. he is an adult and needs to
> learn to take care of himself. Well as many may see
> I believe I am evolving to another level of maturity
> and acceptance. I am very proud of myself even
> though I know I can not scream victory yet, that
> will come with time. But at list now I can look at
> myself in the mirror and not feel ashamed. I am
> learning to love myself and to dream.
>
> Well gang that for listening hope to here from you
> guys.
>
>
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~Florence M.S.H.~

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