Hi Maura. I don't think this group is very active. Have you thought about
joining in person too? The meetings can be a little weird at first, but if you
keep going it gets better, and you will learn so much! Can I recommend a book?
Codependent no more. I recognize a lot of what you say in that book. I think you
will find it helpful. Therapy is a big help to a lot of people too. My mother is
an alcoholic, so we aren't experiencing the same things, but if you ever want to
write, I hope you will!! Get as much help as you can. Dealing with addicted
people is one of the most difficult things! I'm glad you are searching for
information! Take care.