From: Chuck Rossier <survivor@...>
Subject: [cancer_survivors_gathering_place] Wedding
To: cancer_survivors_gathering_place@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 8:47 PM

I posted a photo album of the wedding.

The wedding was wonderful. Jackie & I had a great time. It was a very
emotional experience. We just love Ed's bride. And she is smart enough
to make me feel smarter than she (Harvard undergrad, Columbia grad
school). I will let Jackie fill in with some of the details.

Shalom,
Chuck

From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@...>
Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_gathering_place] Back to where it all started
To: cancer_survivors_gathering_place@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 4:48 PM

I also went without a wig, hat or anything.  Made all kinds of new friends because of it.  As a teacher of grades  7 - 8 at the time, I was nervous of how my students would react.  I should have not worried - the first day when I wore a wig, they asked me to take it off.  When I put it back on, one of the 8th grade boys came up and took it off and told me never to put it on again.  A few days later, once the entire school was used to me being bald, most of the kids (we had 97 that year) signed my head with an erasable marker.  It made such an impact that one day last week the kids were talking about signing my head - the kids that were in the 1st grade that year!   Remember - getting ready to go in the morning is much quicker now with no hair! Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Tue, 10/14/08, paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> wrote: From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 6:58 PM Hi Marsha:  you're much braver than me.  I don't think I could have had it done at wal-mart.   But here in my own bathroom with my friends was okay.  I feel good, like I'm in control of at least this part of the process. --- On Tue, 10/14/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 3:45 PM I remember when my head got shaved.  I had it done one Sunday at Wal Mart.  Went home and pulled weeds for an hour or so.  Guess if I was loosing something, the ground was going to as well! Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Tue, 10/14/08, paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> wrote: From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 6:05 PM Hi Laurie:  Thanks so much for the reply.  I think this group will become very important to me in my journey.  I do have a lot of faith.  Two of my best friends came over today and we shaved my hair off.  Didn't even cry...just put on a cute wig, made some English tea scones and they brought a cake and we just pigged out.  How long have you been cancer free?  I will be doing radiation after I finish all the chemo, but I don't know yet how much or how long.  I'll keep you updated.  thanks again, Paula --- On Mon, 10/13/08, Laurie Ross <laurieross1961@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Laurie Ross <laurieross1961@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 4:44 PM Hi Paula:  I know when I was looking I couldn't find a group that had the endometrial cancer, but this one seemed the best of them all.  I was diaganosed after I had a partial hysterectomy that I requested.  They staged mine at IIB.  I felt pretty lucky as I just had to do the six weeks of radiation and no chemotherapy.  I agree with Marsha - as soon as you are told you have cancer, you immediately become a surviror!   I was not happy that I had to go an extra year of four times a year PAPs and just now am moving to every six months.  I have to remind myself that I would rather have them be extra cautious than not be cautious.  Especially as had my doctor been looking at all of my symptons and my pap before my surgey, they should have sent me off to the cancer specialist right then - not have the surgery and then 5 weeks later another surgery to stage the cancer and make sure it had not traveled any farther than my cervix.    My friend, Kate, that i asked for prayers found out she is still cancer free.  The lump was not cancer and as she put it "she was walking on air" which is something I think we can all relate with.   After four months they have determined that my pain in my abodimen is a combination of scar tissue (from the surgery and radiation), stress, and things that I eat.  It is not as bad as it was before since I am now on a pain management therapy, needing to take just a couple of pills instead of 8 or 12.    This group and the people that belong are livesavers!  They are there for you anytime you need a boost.  I am "just" 47 and know that the majority of this group is way more active than I am and so full of life.  They are an inspiration to all!  Hang in there and know that there are a lot of prayers out there for you.  Laurie ----- Original Message ---- From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Sent: Monday, October 13, 2008 2:19:15 PM Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started Hi marsha:  I was pretty close to Georgia last week.  Flew back to Fort jakcson So. Carolina for my grandfaughter' s graduation from Basic Training.  You know, this will sound stupid, but I can't remember how I got into this group.  I know after I was diagnosed, I did a lot of seraching on the internet looking for support.  I was really a mess because I had just lost my husband.  What kind of cancer are you a survivor of?  Mine is Stage IIIA endometrial.  Talk to you later, Paula --- On Mon, 10/13/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 8:59 AM Hi Paula, no, I live in Calhoun, GA!  My husband lived in Reno when he was younger.   Ok, you are a survivor!  In my mind, anyone was had been told cancer was found in their body is a survivor.  So, congratulations on being a survivor!  Awesome feeling, I'm sure, to have treatment #1 done and over with.  For me it was the scariest not knowing how my body would react.  Only 5 to go!!!!!!!!!! !! Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Mon, 10/13/08, paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> wrote: From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 11:21 AM Hi Marsha:  I'm just getting around to reading all my e-mails this morning, and I noticed you mentioned Reno.  Do you live in Reno?  I live in Portola about 48 miles away.  I do go into Reno for treatment though.  I just had my first chemo last Wednesday, October 8Th.  Can't actually call myself a survivor yet cause I have 5 more chemos to go and then some radiation... but I will be a survivor.  Guess I would be called a survivor in the making.  Would love to chat when you get a chance. Sincerely, Paula --- On Wed, 10/1/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Sounds like you had an awesome experience.  It's amazing to me how quick the bond develops when you realize someone is a "survivor".  Seems that's all it takes is for someone to say "I'm a survivor" and all of us know instantly what they mean.  I've been a survivor for only 3 years, but some of my best friends have come out of this whole thing.    I told my students yesterday I'm glad I had cancer.  Most of them about fell out of their seats!  Of course they wanted to know why.  I told them I've grown as a person, that I feel honored God knew I could go through the experience and come out on the other side shining for him.  I also told them some of my best friends are the people I met through the whole experience.  My two chemo nurses are some of my closest friends.    Anyway, if you ever head to Reno or East of the Mississippi - let's try the get together again!  I'd love to meet more survivors face to face!   Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Wed, 10/1/08, marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> wrote: From: marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> Subject: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Dan and I had some airline vouchers that had to be used up, so Sunday morning we flew out of San Diego for three days in Reno, NV. Most of you are too new to this group to know that 14 years ago, we took our then-turning- 21 daughter to Reno to celebrate the occasion. There were a lot of active people at that time, all of us trying to survive cancer, and I shared the plans for this trip on the site. A couple of days later, one of the members (who is no longer with us) came on and said that Reno was only a couple of hours from her home, and she might drive down to have dinner with us. Pretty soon Pat G. logged in. She lived in Washington, DC at the time working for one of the airlines, and she thought she could pick up a flight to Reno. (Pat, if you're lurking here, drop me a note....the email address I have no longer works for you._ Somewhere along the line Jim decided to go. Evie really wanted to go, but she had never flown in an airplane, and had never been that far from home. She screwed up her courage, asked her beautifule daughter to come along, and got on the plane. I don't remember how many people we had -- Anne Loeser (are you lurking, Annie?) and many others (can't remember how many now) showed up. We had t-shirts made that we all proudly wore. This was the first reunion of the Cancer Survivors group (though in those days it was a Bulletin Board on Prodigy). We met several times after that, but as we got further from our diagnoses and life took over our cancer time, most of us have moved along. But it was all brought back to me when we stepped off the plane. We had such joy then to have survived to whatever point we were in our treatment and we made friends for life there. Through our travels we've been able to see many of the people that were there, and stay in touch through e-mail. This group of friends I've met here are dear to me, and I can't thank you all enough for the spot you've played in my survival. I hope that you who are new to this board find the comradery and friendship that I did. It was a major point in my recovery and people here can be that to you...... We're home now, in fact got in Wednesday night. On the flight home I was composing this note in my head. But life is back, and it's 2:00 a.m. on the following Tuesday night, and I just got the chance to check in. It's been a great ride all these years, and it will continue to be. Marla

From: Laurie Ross <laurieross1961@...>
Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_gathering_place] Back to where it all started
To: cancer_survivors_gathering_place@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 4:28 PM

I would love the recipe, since so far only fair scones, from a bakery, or the ones from the mix.  Love comparing to see which I like best, so when you have time that would be great.

 

I have gone to the Metropolitan Grill, very expensive and it was good, but.... I thought that Outback does a great job on their steaks as well.  I love food and my "boyfriend" loves to cook, so I am lucky as he does the cooking and I the cleanup.  Works perfectly for us.  We also purchase steaks from Schwans (home delivery) and they are great.  Have even purchased the sirlion steaks (prefer mignon or ribeye) and they could be cut with a fork!  Can't say that for most of the store bought steaks.  Laurie

----- Original Message ----
From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com>
To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com
Sent: Tuesday, October 14, 2008 3:34:36 PM
Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started

Hi Laurie:  I got hooked on scones when we went to Victoria BC last October.  The lady who comes to my house to pet sit for me is actually from England, so when I got home and told her about them she immediately got out her cookbook from England and gave me her recipe.  so if you would like the recipe, let me know.  And thank you for the info on your scones.  My husband and I were supposed to go to Seattle the middle of July, but he passed away before that.  We loved Seattle though.  Do you ever eat at the Metropolitan Grill?  Love their food!.  Talk to you soon, Paula --- On Tue, 10/14/08, Laurie Ross <laurieross1961@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Laurie Ross <laurieross1961@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 3:22 PM Hi Paula, I have been cancer free for three years (that have actually gone by very quickly) and celebrate each day of health.  I love scones, as well as most things fattening and got hooked on a particular brand including their creme brulee from Boca Java where I order my coffee.  Being in the suburb of Seattle, I love coffee and it must be good. They always seemed to be out when I wanted scones (comes in a mix and my 12-year old son makes them and the creme brulee for me) so now I go directly to the site: http://www.kingarth urflour.com   if you like goodies as I do.  Especially easy to prepare ones.   Friends are good at times like this.  I was pretty indpendent and the one offering the help when I found out about the cancer.  I think it was a test for me to let others help as they want to help.  I know that it gives others pleasure to be able to help out, the big and little things.  I encourage you to allow people to help out whenever possible.  The others would be able to give you the low-down on chemo since I was lucky enough not to have to go through that.   As far as the radiation, the first half was a breeze for me.  The second half (last three weeks) got a bit harder.  I was tired all the time, at one point my anus was burned internally, and I thought I wanted to die from the pain.  But as we all know "this to will pass" and this is when the help from family and friends became so important.  My prayers are with you and please do keep us informed.  Laurie ----- Original Message ---- From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Sent: Tuesday, October 14, 2008 3:05:13 PM Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started Hi Laurie:  Thanks so much for the reply.  I think this group will become very important to me in my journey.  I do have a lot of faith.  Two of my best friends came over today and we shaved my hair off.  Didn't even cry...just put on a cute wig, made some English tea scones and they brought a cake and we just pigged out.  How long have you been cancer free?  I will be doing radiation after I finish all the chemo, but I don't know yet how much or how long.  I'll keep you updated.  thanks again, Paula --- On Mon, 10/13/08, Laurie Ross <laurieross1961@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Laurie Ross <laurieross1961@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 4:44 PM Hi Paula:  I know when I was looking I couldn't find a group that had the endometrial cancer, but this one seemed the best of them all.  I was diaganosed after I had a partial hysterectomy that I requested.  They staged mine at IIB.  I felt pretty lucky as I just had to do the six weeks of radiation and no chemotherapy.  I agree with Marsha - as soon as you are told you have cancer, you immediately become a surviror!   I was not happy that I had to go an extra year of four times a year PAPs and just now am moving to every six months.  I have to remind myself that I would rather have them be extra cautious than not be cautious.  Especially as had my doctor been looking at all of my symptons and my pap before my surgey, they should have sent me off to the cancer specialist right then - not have the surgery and then 5 weeks later another surgery to stage the cancer and make sure it had not traveled any farther than my cervix.    My friend, Kate, that i asked for prayers found out she is still cancer free.  The lump was not cancer and as she put it "she was walking on air" which is something I think we can all relate with.   After four months they have determined that my pain in my abodimen is a combination of scar tissue (from the surgery and radiation), stress, and things that I eat.  It is not as bad as it was before since I am now on a pain management therapy, needing to take just a couple of pills instead of 8 or 12.    This group and the people that belong are livesavers!  They are there for you anytime you need a boost.  I am "just" 47 and know that the majority of this group is way more active than I am and so full of life.  They are an inspiration to all!  Hang in there and know that there are a lot of prayers out there for you.  Laurie ----- Original Message ---- From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Sent: Monday, October 13, 2008 2:19:15 PM Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started Hi marsha:  I was pretty close to Georgia last week.  Flew back to Fort jakcson So. Carolina for my grandfaughter' s graduation from Basic Training.  You know, this will sound stupid, but I can't remember how I got into this group.  I know after I was diagnosed, I did a lot of seraching on the internet looking for support.  I was really a mess because I had just lost my husband.  What kind of cancer are you a survivor of?  Mine is Stage IIIA endometrial.  Talk to you later, Paula --- On Mon, 10/13/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 8:59 AM Hi Paula, no, I live in Calhoun, GA!  My husband lived in Reno when he was younger.   Ok, you are a survivor!  In my mind, anyone was had been told cancer was found in their body is a survivor.  So, congratulations on being a survivor!  Awesome feeling, I'm sure, to have treatment #1 done and over with.  For me it was the scariest not knowing how my body would react.  Only 5 to go!!!!!!!!!! !! Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Mon, 10/13/08, paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> wrote: From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 11:21 AM Hi Marsha:  I'm just getting around to reading all my e-mails this morning, and I noticed you mentioned Reno.  Do you live in Reno?  I live in Portola about 48 miles away.  I do go into Reno for treatment though.  I just had my first chemo last Wednesday, October 8Th.  Can't actually call myself a survivor yet cause I have 5 more chemos to go and then some radiation... but I will be a survivor.  Guess I would be called a survivor in the making.  Would love to chat when you get a chance. Sincerely, Paula --- On Wed, 10/1/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Sounds like you had an awesome experience.  It's amazing to me how quick the bond develops when you realize someone is a "survivor".  Seems that's all it takes is for someone to say "I'm a survivor" and all of us know instantly what they mean.  I've been a survivor for only 3 years, but some of my best friends have come out of this whole thing.    I told my students yesterday I'm glad I had cancer.  Most of them about fell out of their seats!  Of course they wanted to know why.  I told them I've grown as a person, that I feel honored God knew I could go through the experience and come out on the other side shining for him.  I also told them some of my best friends are the people I met through the whole experience.  My two chemo nurses are some of my closest friends.    Anyway, if you ever head to Reno or East of the Mississippi - let's try the get together again!  I'd love to meet more survivors face to face!   Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Wed, 10/1/08, marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> wrote: From: marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> Subject: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Dan and I had some airline vouchers that had to be used up, so Sunday morning we flew out of San Diego for three days in Reno, NV. Most of you are too new to this group to know that 14 years ago, we took our then-turning- 21 daughter to Reno to celebrate the occasion. There were a lot of active people at that time, all of us trying to survive cancer, and I shared the plans for this trip on the site. A couple of days later, one of the members (who is no longer with us) came on and said that Reno was only a couple of hours from her home, and she might drive down to have dinner with us. Pretty soon Pat G. logged in. She lived in Washington, DC at the time working for one of the airlines, and she thought she could pick up a flight to Reno. (Pat, if you're lurking here, drop me a note....the email address I have no longer works for you._ Somewhere along the line Jim decided to go. Evie really wanted to go, but she had never flown in an airplane, and had never been that far from home. She screwed up her courage, asked her beautifule daughter to come along, and got on the plane. I don't remember how many people we had -- Anne Loeser (are you lurking, Annie?) and many others (can't remember how many now) showed up. We had t-shirts made that we all proudly wore. This was the first reunion of the Cancer Survivors group (though in those days it was a Bulletin Board on Prodigy). We met several times after that, but as we got further from our diagnoses and life took over our cancer time, most of us have moved along. But it was all brought back to me when we stepped off the plane. We had such joy then to have survived to whatever point we were in our treatment and we made friends for life there. Through our travels we've been able to see many of the people that were there, and stay in touch through e-mail. This group of friends I've met here are dear to me, and I can't thank you all enough for the spot you've played in my survival. I hope that you who are new to this board find the comradery and friendship that I did. It was a major point in my recovery and people here can be that to you...... We're home now, in fact got in Wednesday night. On the flight home I was composing this note in my head. But life is back, and it's 2:00 a.m. on the following Tuesday night, and I just got the chance to check in. It's been a great ride all these years, and it will continue to be. Marla

From: Chuck Rossier <survivor@...>
Subject: [cancer_survivors_gathering_place] Re: Is It Back?
To: cancer_survivors_gathering_place@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 7:39 PM

My oncologist scheduled a PSA test for October 29 and I have an
appointment with her on November 12.

I was too busy this past weekend to worry about little things like PSA
while my son was getting married and that was good.

Shalom,
Chuck

From: paula crowder <crowd6807@...>
Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_gathering_place] Back to where it all started
To: cancer_survivors_gathering_place@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 6:58 PM

Hi Marsha:  you're much braver than me.  I don't think I could have had it done at wal-mart.   But here in my own bathroom with my friends was okay.  I feel good, like I'm in control of at least this part of the process. --- On Tue, 10/14/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 3:45 PM I remember when my head got shaved.  I had it done one Sunday at Wal Mart.  Went home and pulled weeds for an hour or so.  Guess if I was loosing something, the ground was going to as well! Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Tue, 10/14/08, paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> wrote: From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 6:05 PM Hi Laurie:  Thanks so much for the reply.  I think this group will become very important to me in my journey.  I do have a lot of faith.  Two of my best friends came over today and we shaved my hair off.  Didn't even cry...just put on a cute wig, made some English tea scones and they brought a cake and we just pigged out.  How long have you been cancer free?  I will be doing radiation after I finish all the chemo, but I don't know yet how much or how long.  I'll keep you updated.  thanks again, Paula --- On Mon, 10/13/08, Laurie Ross <laurieross1961@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Laurie Ross <laurieross1961@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 4:44 PM Hi Paula:  I know when I was looking I couldn't find a group that had the endometrial cancer, but this one seemed the best of them all.  I was diaganosed after I had a partial hysterectomy that I requested.  They staged mine at IIB.  I felt pretty lucky as I just had to do the six weeks of radiation and no chemotherapy.  I agree with Marsha - as soon as you are told you have cancer, you immediately become a surviror!   I was not happy that I had to go an extra year of four times a year PAPs and just now am moving to every six months.  I have to remind myself that I would rather have them be extra cautious than not be cautious.  Especially as had my doctor been looking at all of my symptons and my pap before my surgey, they should have sent me off to the cancer specialist right then - not have the surgery and then 5 weeks later another surgery to stage the cancer and make sure it had not traveled any farther than my cervix.    My friend, Kate, that i asked for prayers found out she is still cancer free.  The lump was not cancer and as she put it "she was walking on air" which is something I think we can all relate with.   After four months they have determined that my pain in my abodimen is a combination of scar tissue (from the surgery and radiation), stress, and things that I eat.  It is not as bad as it was before since I am now on a pain management therapy, needing to take just a couple of pills instead of 8 or 12.    This group and the people that belong are livesavers!  They are there for you anytime you need a boost.  I am "just" 47 and know that the majority of this group is way more active than I am and so full of life.  They are an inspiration to all!  Hang in there and know that there are a lot of prayers out there for you.  Laurie ----- Original Message ---- From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Sent: Monday, October 13, 2008 2:19:15 PM Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started Hi marsha:  I was pretty close to Georgia last week.  Flew back to Fort jakcson So. Carolina for my grandfaughter' s graduation from Basic Training.  You know, this will sound stupid, but I can't remember how I got into this group.  I know after I was diagnosed, I did a lot of seraching on the internet looking for support.  I was really a mess because I had just lost my husband.  What kind of cancer are you a survivor of?  Mine is Stage IIIA endometrial.  Talk to you later, Paula --- On Mon, 10/13/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 8:59 AM Hi Paula, no, I live in Calhoun, GA!  My husband lived in Reno when he was younger.   Ok, you are a survivor!  In my mind, anyone was had been told cancer was found in their body is a survivor.  So, congratulations on being a survivor!  Awesome feeling, I'm sure, to have treatment #1 done and over with.  For me it was the scariest not knowing how my body would react.  Only 5 to go!!!!!!!!!! !! Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Mon, 10/13/08, paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> wrote: From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 11:21 AM Hi Marsha:  I'm just getting around to reading all my e-mails this morning, and I noticed you mentioned Reno.  Do you live in Reno?  I live in Portola about 48 miles away.  I do go into Reno for treatment though.  I just had my first chemo last Wednesday, October 8Th.  Can't actually call myself a survivor yet cause I have 5 more chemos to go and then some radiation... but I will be a survivor.  Guess I would be called a survivor in the making.  Would love to chat when you get a chance. Sincerely, Paula --- On Wed, 10/1/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Sounds like you had an awesome experience.  It's amazing to me how quick the bond develops when you realize someone is a "survivor".  Seems that's all it takes is for someone to say "I'm a survivor" and all of us know instantly what they mean.  I've been a survivor for only 3 years, but some of my best friends have come out of this whole thing.    I told my students yesterday I'm glad I had cancer.  Most of them about fell out of their seats!  Of course they wanted to know why.  I told them I've grown as a person, that I feel honored God knew I could go through the experience and come out on the other side shining for him.  I also told them some of my best friends are the people I met through the whole experience.  My two chemo nurses are some of my closest friends.    Anyway, if you ever head to Reno or East of the Mississippi - let's try the get together again!  I'd love to meet more survivors face to face!   Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Wed, 10/1/08, marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> wrote: From: marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> Subject: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Dan and I had some airline vouchers that had to be used up, so Sunday morning we flew out of San Diego for three days in Reno, NV. Most of you are too new to this group to know that 14 years ago, we took our then-turning- 21 daughter to Reno to celebrate the occasion. There were a lot of active people at that time, all of us trying to survive cancer, and I shared the plans for this trip on the site. A couple of days later, one of the members (who is no longer with us) came on and said that Reno was only a couple of hours from her home, and she might drive down to have dinner with us. Pretty soon Pat G. logged in. She lived in Washington, DC at the time working for one of the airlines, and she thought she could pick up a flight to Reno. (Pat, if you're lurking here, drop me a note....the email address I have no longer works for you._ Somewhere along the line Jim decided to go. Evie really wanted to go, but she had never flown in an airplane, and had never been that far from home. She screwed up her courage, asked her beautifule daughter to come along, and got on the plane. I don't remember how many people we had -- Anne Loeser (are you lurking, Annie?) and many others (can't remember how many now) showed up. We had t-shirts made that we all proudly wore. This was the first reunion of the Cancer Survivors group (though in those days it was a Bulletin Board on Prodigy). We met several times after that, but as we got further from our diagnoses and life took over our cancer time, most of us have moved along. But it was all brought back to me when we stepped off the plane. We had such joy then to have survived to whatever point we were in our treatment and we made friends for life there. Through our travels we've been able to see many of the people that were there, and stay in touch through e-mail. This group of friends I've met here are dear to me, and I can't thank you all enough for the spot you've played in my survival. I hope that you who are new to this board find the comradery and friendship that I did. It was a major point in my recovery and people here can be that to you...... We're home now, in fact got in Wednesday night. On the flight home I was composing this note in my head. But life is back, and it's 2:00 a.m. on the following Tuesday night, and I just got the chance to check in. It's been a great ride all these years, and it will continue to be. Marla

From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@...>
Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_gathering_place] Back to where it all started
To: cancer_survivors_gathering_place@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 3:45 PM

I remember when my head got shaved.  I had it done one Sunday at Wal Mart.  Went home and pulled weeds for an hour or so.  Guess if I was loosing something, the ground was going to as well! Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Tue, 10/14/08, paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> wrote: From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 6:05 PM Hi Laurie:  Thanks so much for the reply.  I think this group will become very important to me in my journey.  I do have a lot of faith.  Two of my best friends came over today and we shaved my hair off.  Didn't even cry...just put on a cute wig, made some English tea scones and they brought a cake and we just pigged out.  How long have you been cancer free?  I will be doing radiation after I finish all the chemo, but I don't know yet how much or how long.  I'll keep you updated.  thanks again, Paula --- On Mon, 10/13/08, Laurie Ross <laurieross1961@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Laurie Ross <laurieross1961@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 4:44 PM Hi Paula:  I know when I was looking I couldn't find a group that had the endometrial cancer, but this one seemed the best of them all.  I was diaganosed after I had a partial hysterectomy that I requested.  They staged mine at IIB.  I felt pretty lucky as I just had to do the six weeks of radiation and no chemotherapy.  I agree with Marsha - as soon as you are told you have cancer, you immediately become a surviror!   I was not happy that I had to go an extra year of four times a year PAPs and just now am moving to every six months.  I have to remind myself that I would rather have them be extra cautious than not be cautious.  Especially as had my doctor been looking at all of my symptons and my pap before my surgey, they should have sent me off to the cancer specialist right then - not have the surgery and then 5 weeks later another surgery to stage the cancer and make sure it had not traveled any farther than my cervix.    My friend, Kate, that i asked for prayers found out she is still cancer free.  The lump was not cancer and as she put it "she was walking on air" which is something I think we can all relate with.   After four months they have determined that my pain in my abodimen is a combination of scar tissue (from the surgery and radiation), stress, and things that I eat.  It is not as bad as it was before since I am now on a pain management therapy, needing to take just a couple of pills instead of 8 or 12.    This group and the people that belong are livesavers!  They are there for you anytime you need a boost.  I am "just" 47 and know that the majority of this group is way more active than I am and so full of life.  They are an inspiration to all!  Hang in there and know that there are a lot of prayers out there for you.  Laurie ----- Original Message ---- From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Sent: Monday, October 13, 2008 2:19:15 PM Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started Hi marsha:  I was pretty close to Georgia last week.  Flew back to Fort jakcson So. Carolina for my grandfaughter' s graduation from Basic Training.  You know, this will sound stupid, but I can't remember how I got into this group.  I know after I was diagnosed, I did a lot of seraching on the internet looking for support.  I was really a mess because I had just lost my husband.  What kind of cancer are you a survivor of?  Mine is Stage IIIA endometrial.  Talk to you later, Paula --- On Mon, 10/13/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 8:59 AM Hi Paula, no, I live in Calhoun, GA!  My husband lived in Reno when he was younger.   Ok, you are a survivor!  In my mind, anyone was had been told cancer was found in their body is a survivor.  So, congratulations on being a survivor!  Awesome feeling, I'm sure, to have treatment #1 done and over with.  For me it was the scariest not knowing how my body would react.  Only 5 to go!!!!!!!!!! !! Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Mon, 10/13/08, paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> wrote: From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 11:21 AM Hi Marsha:  I'm just getting around to reading all my e-mails this morning, and I noticed you mentioned Reno.  Do you live in Reno?  I live in Portola about 48 miles away.  I do go into Reno for treatment though.  I just had my first chemo last Wednesday, October 8Th.  Can't actually call myself a survivor yet cause I have 5 more chemos to go and then some radiation... but I will be a survivor.  Guess I would be called a survivor in the making.  Would love to chat when you get a chance. Sincerely, Paula --- On Wed, 10/1/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Sounds like you had an awesome experience.  It's amazing to me how quick the bond develops when you realize someone is a "survivor".  Seems that's all it takes is for someone to say "I'm a survivor" and all of us know instantly what they mean.  I've been a survivor for only 3 years, but some of my best friends have come out of this whole thing.    I told my students yesterday I'm glad I had cancer.  Most of them about fell out of their seats!  Of course they wanted to know why.  I told them I've grown as a person, that I feel honored God knew I could go through the experience and come out on the other side shining for him.  I also told them some of my best friends are the people I met through the whole experience.  My two chemo nurses are some of my closest friends.    Anyway, if you ever head to Reno or East of the Mississippi - let's try the get together again!  I'd love to meet more survivors face to face!   Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Wed, 10/1/08, marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> wrote: From: marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> Subject: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Dan and I had some airline vouchers that had to be used up, so Sunday morning we flew out of San Diego for three days in Reno, NV. Most of you are too new to this group to know that 14 years ago, we took our then-turning- 21 daughter to Reno to celebrate the occasion. There were a lot of active people at that time, all of us trying to survive cancer, and I shared the plans for this trip on the site. A couple of days later, one of the members (who is no longer with us) came on and said that Reno was only a couple of hours from her home, and she might drive down to have dinner with us. Pretty soon Pat G. logged in. She lived in Washington, DC at the time working for one of the airlines, and she thought she could pick up a flight to Reno. (Pat, if you're lurking here, drop me a note....the email address I have no longer works for you._ Somewhere along the line Jim decided to go. Evie really wanted to go, but she had never flown in an airplane, and had never been that far from home. She screwed up her courage, asked her beautifule daughter to come along, and got on the plane. I don't remember how many people we had -- Anne Loeser (are you lurking, Annie?) and many others (can't remember how many now) showed up. We had t-shirts made that we all proudly wore. This was the first reunion of the Cancer Survivors group (though in those days it was a Bulletin Board on Prodigy). We met several times after that, but as we got further from our diagnoses and life took over our cancer time, most of us have moved along. But it was all brought back to me when we stepped off the plane. We had such joy then to have survived to whatever point we were in our treatment and we made friends for life there. Through our travels we've been able to see many of the people that were there, and stay in touch through e-mail. This group of friends I've met here are dear to me, and I can't thank you all enough for the spot you've played in my survival. I hope that you who are new to this board find the comradery and friendship that I did. It was a major point in my recovery and people here can be that to you...... We're home now, in fact got in Wednesday night. On the flight home I was composing this note in my head. But life is back, and it's 2:00 a.m. on the following Tuesday night, and I just got the chance to check in. It's been a great ride all these years, and it will continue to be. Marla

From: paula crowder <crowd6807@...>
Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_gathering_place] Back to where it all started
To: cancer_survivors_gathering_place@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 6:05 PM

Hi Laurie:  Thanks so much for the reply.  I think this group will become very important to me in my journey.  I do have a lot of faith.  Two of my best friends came over today and we shaved my hair off.  Didn't even cry...just put on a cute wig, made some English tea scones and they brought a cake and we just pigged out.  How long have you been cancer free?  I will be doing radiation after I finish all the chemo, but I don't know yet how much or how long.  I'll keep you updated.  thanks again, Paula --- On Mon, 10/13/08, Laurie Ross <laurieross1961@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Laurie Ross <laurieross1961@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 4:44 PM Hi Paula:  I know when I was looking I couldn't find a group that had the endometrial cancer, but this one seemed the best of them all.  I was diaganosed after I had a partial hysterectomy that I requested.  They staged mine at IIB.  I felt pretty lucky as I just had to do the six weeks of radiation and no chemotherapy.  I agree with Marsha - as soon as you are told you have cancer, you immediately become a surviror!   I was not happy that I had to go an extra year of four times a year PAPs and just now am moving to every six months.  I have to remind myself that I would rather have them be extra cautious than not be cautious.  Especially as had my doctor been looking at all of my symptons and my pap before my surgey, they should have sent me off to the cancer specialist right then - not have the surgery and then 5 weeks later another surgery to stage the cancer and make sure it had not traveled any farther than my cervix.    My friend, Kate, that i asked for prayers found out she is still cancer free.  The lump was not cancer and as she put it "she was walking on air" which is something I think we can all relate with.   After four months they have determined that my pain in my abodimen is a combination of scar tissue (from the surgery and radiation), stress, and things that I eat.  It is not as bad as it was before since I am now on a pain management therapy, needing to take just a couple of pills instead of 8 or 12.    This group and the people that belong are livesavers!  They are there for you anytime you need a boost.  I am "just" 47 and know that the majority of this group is way more active than I am and so full of life.  They are an inspiration to all!  Hang in there and know that there are a lot of prayers out there for you.  Laurie ----- Original Message ---- From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Sent: Monday, October 13, 2008 2:19:15 PM Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started Hi marsha:  I was pretty close to Georgia last week.  Flew back to Fort jakcson So. Carolina for my grandfaughter' s graduation from Basic Training.  You know, this will sound stupid, but I can't remember how I got into this group.  I know after I was diagnosed, I did a lot of seraching on the internet looking for support.  I was really a mess because I had just lost my husband.  What kind of cancer are you a survivor of?  Mine is Stage IIIA endometrial.  Talk to you later, Paula --- On Mon, 10/13/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 8:59 AM Hi Paula, no, I live in Calhoun, GA!  My husband lived in Reno when he was younger.   Ok, you are a survivor!  In my mind, anyone was had been told cancer was found in their body is a survivor.  So, congratulations on being a survivor!  Awesome feeling, I'm sure, to have treatment #1 done and over with.  For me it was the scariest not knowing how my body would react.  Only 5 to go!!!!!!!!!! !! Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Mon, 10/13/08, paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> wrote: From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 11:21 AM Hi Marsha:  I'm just getting around to reading all my e-mails this morning, and I noticed you mentioned Reno.  Do you live in Reno?  I live in Portola about 48 miles away.  I do go into Reno for treatment though.  I just had my first chemo last Wednesday, October 8Th.  Can't actually call myself a survivor yet cause I have 5 more chemos to go and then some radiation... but I will be a survivor.  Guess I would be called a survivor in the making.  Would love to chat when you get a chance. Sincerely, Paula --- On Wed, 10/1/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Sounds like you had an awesome experience.  It's amazing to me how quick the bond develops when you realize someone is a "survivor".  Seems that's all it takes is for someone to say "I'm a survivor" and all of us know instantly what they mean.  I've been a survivor for only 3 years, but some of my best friends have come out of this whole thing.    I told my students yesterday I'm glad I had cancer.  Most of them about fell out of their seats!  Of course they wanted to know why.  I told them I've grown as a person, that I feel honored God knew I could go through the experience and come out on the other side shining for him.  I also told them some of my best friends are the people I met through the whole experience.  My two chemo nurses are some of my closest friends.    Anyway, if you ever head to Reno or East of the Mississippi - let's try the get together again!  I'd love to meet more survivors face to face!   Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Wed, 10/1/08, marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> wrote: From: marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> Subject: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Dan and I had some airline vouchers that had to be used up, so Sunday morning we flew out of San Diego for three days in Reno, NV. Most of you are too new to this group to know that 14 years ago, we took our then-turning- 21 daughter to Reno to celebrate the occasion. There were a lot of active people at that time, all of us trying to survive cancer, and I shared the plans for this trip on the site. A couple of days later, one of the members (who is no longer with us) came on and said that Reno was only a couple of hours from her home, and she might drive down to have dinner with us. Pretty soon Pat G. logged in. She lived in Washington, DC at the time working for one of the airlines, and she thought she could pick up a flight to Reno. (Pat, if you're lurking here, drop me a note....the email address I have no longer works for you._ Somewhere along the line Jim decided to go. Evie really wanted to go, but she had never flown in an airplane, and had never been that far from home. She screwed up her courage, asked her beautifule daughter to come along, and got on the plane. I don't remember how many people we had -- Anne Loeser (are you lurking, Annie?) and many others (can't remember how many now) showed up. We had t-shirts made that we all proudly wore. This was the first reunion of the Cancer Survivors group (though in those days it was a Bulletin Board on Prodigy). We met several times after that, but as we got further from our diagnoses and life took over our cancer time, most of us have moved along. But it was all brought back to me when we stepped off the plane. We had such joy then to have survived to whatever point we were in our treatment and we made friends for life there. Through our travels we've been able to see many of the people that were there, and stay in touch through e-mail. This group of friends I've met here are dear to me, and I can't thank you all enough for the spot you've played in my survival. I hope that you who are new to this board find the comradery and friendship that I did. It was a major point in my recovery and people here can be that to you...... We're home now, in fact got in Wednesday night. On the flight home I was composing this note in my head. But life is back, and it's 2:00 a.m. on the following Tuesday night, and I just got the chance to check in. It's been a great ride all these years, and it will continue to be. Marla

From: Laurie Ross <laurieross1961@...>
Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_gathering_place] Back to where it all started
To: cancer_survivors_gathering_place@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 3:22 PM

Hi Paula, I have been cancer free for three years (that have actually gone by very quickly) and celebrate each day of health.  I love scones, as well as most things fattening and got hooked on a particular brand including their creme brulee from Boca Java where I order my coffee.  Being in the suburb of Seattle, I love coffee and it must be good. They always seemed to be out when I wanted scones (comes in a mix and my 12-year old son makes them and the creme brulee for me) so now I go directly to the site: http://www.kingarth urflour.com   if you like goodies as I do.  Especially easy to prepare ones.

 

Friends are good at times like this.  I was pretty indpendent and the one offering the help when I found out about the cancer.  I think it was a test for me to let others help as they want to help.  I know that it gives others pleasure to be able to help out, the big and little things.  I encourage you to allow people to help out whenever possible.  The others would be able to give you the low-down on chemo since I was lucky enough not to have to go through that.

 

As far as the radiation, the first half was a breeze for me.  The second half (last three weeks) got a bit harder.  I was tired all the time, at one point my anus was burned internally, and I thought I wanted to die from the pain.  But as we all know "this to will pass" and this is when the help from family and friends became so important.  My prayers are with you and please do keep us informed.  Laurie

----- Original Message ----
From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com>
To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com
Sent: Tuesday, October 14, 2008 3:05:13 PM
Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started

Hi Laurie:  Thanks so much for the reply.  I think this group will become very important to me in my journey.  I do have a lot of faith.  Two of my best friends came over today and we shaved my hair off.  Didn't even cry...just put on a cute wig, made some English tea scones and they brought a cake and we just pigged out.  How long have you been cancer free?  I will be doing radiation after I finish all the chemo, but I don't know yet how much or how long.  I'll keep you updated.  thanks again, Paula --- On Mon, 10/13/08, Laurie Ross <laurieross1961@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Laurie Ross <laurieross1961@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 4:44 PM Hi Paula:  I know when I was looking I couldn't find a group that had the endometrial cancer, but this one seemed the best of them all.  I was diaganosed after I had a partial hysterectomy that I requested.  They staged mine at IIB.  I felt pretty lucky as I just had to do the six weeks of radiation and no chemotherapy.  I agree with Marsha - as soon as you are told you have cancer, you immediately become a surviror!   I was not happy that I had to go an extra year of four times a year PAPs and just now am moving to every six months.  I have to remind myself that I would rather have them be extra cautious than not be cautious.  Especially as had my doctor been looking at all of my symptons and my pap before my surgey, they should have sent me off to the cancer specialist right then - not have the surgery and then 5 weeks later another surgery to stage the cancer and make sure it had not traveled any farther than my cervix.    My friend, Kate, that i asked for prayers found out she is still cancer free.  The lump was not cancer and as she put it "she was walking on air" which is something I think we can all relate with.   After four months they have determined that my pain in my abodimen is a combination of scar tissue (from the surgery and radiation), stress, and things that I eat.  It is not as bad as it was before since I am now on a pain management therapy, needing to take just a couple of pills instead of 8 or 12.    This group and the people that belong are livesavers!  They are there for you anytime you need a boost.  I am "just" 47 and know that the majority of this group is way more active than I am and so full of life.  They are an inspiration to all!  Hang in there and know that there are a lot of prayers out there for you.  Laurie ----- Original Message ---- From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Sent: Monday, October 13, 2008 2:19:15 PM Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started Hi marsha:  I was pretty close to Georgia last week.  Flew back to Fort jakcson So. Carolina for my grandfaughter' s graduation from Basic Training.  You know, this will sound stupid, but I can't remember how I got into this group.  I know after I was diagnosed, I did a lot of seraching on the internet looking for support.  I was really a mess because I had just lost my husband.  What kind of cancer are you a survivor of?  Mine is Stage IIIA endometrial.  Talk to you later, Paula --- On Mon, 10/13/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 8:59 AM Hi Paula, no, I live in Calhoun, GA!  My husband lived in Reno when he was younger.   Ok, you are a survivor!  In my mind, anyone was had been told cancer was found in their body is a survivor.  So, congratulations on being a survivor!  Awesome feeling, I'm sure, to have treatment #1 done and over with.  For me it was the scariest not knowing how my body would react.  Only 5 to go!!!!!!!!!! !! Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Mon, 10/13/08, paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> wrote: From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 11:21 AM Hi Marsha:  I'm just getting around to reading all my e-mails this morning, and I noticed you mentioned Reno.  Do you live in Reno?  I live in Portola about 48 miles away.  I do go into Reno for treatment though.  I just had my first chemo last Wednesday, October 8Th.  Can't actually call myself a survivor yet cause I have 5 more chemos to go and then some radiation... but I will be a survivor.  Guess I would be called a survivor in the making.  Would love to chat when you get a chance. Sincerely, Paula --- On Wed, 10/1/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Sounds like you had an awesome experience.  It's amazing to me how quick the bond develops when you realize someone is a "survivor".  Seems that's all it takes is for someone to say "I'm a survivor" and all of us know instantly what they mean.  I've been a survivor for only 3 years, but some of my best friends have come out of this whole thing.    I told my students yesterday I'm glad I had cancer.  Most of them about fell out of their seats!  Of course they wanted to know why.  I told them I've grown as a person, that I feel honored God knew I could go through the experience and come out on the other side shining for him.  I also told them some of my best friends are the people I met through the whole experience.  My two chemo nurses are some of my closest friends.    Anyway, if you ever head to Reno or East of the Mississippi - let's try the get together again!  I'd love to meet more survivors face to face!   Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Wed, 10/1/08, marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> wrote: From: marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> Subject: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Dan and I had some airline vouchers that had to be used up, so Sunday morning we flew out of San Diego for three days in Reno, NV. Most of you are too new to this group to know that 14 years ago, we took our then-turning- 21 daughter to Reno to celebrate the occasion. There were a lot of active people at that time, all of us trying to survive cancer, and I shared the plans for this trip on the site. A couple of days later, one of the members (who is no longer with us) came on and said that Reno was only a couple of hours from her home, and she might drive down to have dinner with us. Pretty soon Pat G. logged in. She lived in Washington, DC at the time working for one of the airlines, and she thought she could pick up a flight to Reno. (Pat, if you're lurking here, drop me a note....the email address I have no longer works for you._ Somewhere along the line Jim decided to go. Evie really wanted to go, but she had never flown in an airplane, and had never been that far from home. She screwed up her courage, asked her beautifule daughter to come along, and got on the plane. I don't remember how many people we had -- Anne Loeser (are you lurking, Annie?) and many others (can't remember how many now) showed up. We had t-shirts made that we all proudly wore. This was the first reunion of the Cancer Survivors group (though in those days it was a Bulletin Board on Prodigy). We met several times after that, but as we got further from our diagnoses and life took over our cancer time, most of us have moved along. But it was all brought back to me when we stepped off the plane. We had such joy then to have survived to whatever point we were in our treatment and we made friends for life there. Through our travels we've been able to see many of the people that were there, and stay in touch through e-mail. This group of friends I've met here are dear to me, and I can't thank you all enough for the spot you've played in my survival. I hope that you who are new to this board find the comradery and friendship that I did. It was a major point in my recovery and people here can be that to you...... We're home now, in fact got in Wednesday night. On the flight home I was composing this note in my head. But life is back, and it's 2:00 a.m. on the following Tuesday night, and I just got the chance to check in. It's been a great ride all these years, and it will continue to be. Marla

From: Laurie Ross <laurieross1961@...>
Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_gathering_place] Back to where it all started
To: cancer_survivors_gathering_place@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 4:44 PM

Hi Paula:  I know when I was looking I couldn't find a group that had the endometrial cancer, but this one seemed the best of them all.  I was diaganosed after I had a partial hysterectomy that I requested.  They staged mine at IIB.  I felt pretty lucky as I just had to do the six weeks of radiation and no chemotherapy.  I agree with Marsha - as soon as you are told you have cancer, you immediately become a surviror!

 

I was not happy that I had to go an extra year of four times a year PAPs and just now am moving to every six months.  I have to remind myself that I would rather have them be extra cautious than not be cautious.  Especially as had my doctor been looking at all of my symptons and my pap before my surgey, they should have sent me off to the cancer specialist right then - not have the surgery and then 5 weeks later another surgery to stage the cancer and make sure it had not traveled any farther than my cervix. 

 

My friend, Kate, that i asked for prayers found out she is still cancer free.  The lump was not cancer and as she put it "she was walking on air" which is something I think we can all relate with.

 

After four months they have determined that my pain in my abodimen is a combination of scar tissue (from the surgery and radiation), stress, and things that I eat.  It is not as bad as it was before since I am now on a pain management therapy, needing to take just a couple of pills instead of 8 or 12. 

 

This group and the people that belong are livesavers!  They are there for you anytime you need a boost.  I am "just" 47 and know that the majority of this group is way more active than I am and so full of life.  They are an inspiration to all!  Hang in there and know that there are a lot of prayers out there for you.  Laurie

----- Original Message ----
From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com>
To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com
Sent: Monday, October 13, 2008 2:19:15 PM
Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started

Hi marsha:  I was pretty close to Georgia last week.  Flew back to Fort jakcson So. Carolina for my grandfaughter' s graduation from Basic Training.  You know, this will sound stupid, but I can't remember how I got into this group.  I know after I was diagnosed, I did a lot of seraching on the internet looking for support.  I was really a mess because I had just lost my husband.  What kind of cancer are you a survivor of?  Mine is Stage IIIA endometrial.  Talk to you later, Paula --- On Mon, 10/13/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 8:59 AM Hi Paula, no, I live in Calhoun, GA!  My husband lived in Reno when he was younger.   Ok, you are a survivor!  In my mind, anyone was had been told cancer was found in their body is a survivor.  So, congratulations on being a survivor!  Awesome feeling, I'm sure, to have treatment #1 done and over with.  For me it was the scariest not knowing how my body would react.  Only 5 to go!!!!!!!!!! !! Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Mon, 10/13/08, paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> wrote: From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 11:21 AM Hi Marsha:  I'm just getting around to reading all my e-mails this morning, and I noticed you mentioned Reno.  Do you live in Reno?  I live in Portola about 48 miles away.  I do go into Reno for treatment though.  I just had my first chemo last Wednesday, October 8Th.  Can't actually call myself a survivor yet cause I have 5 more chemos to go and then some radiation... but I will be a survivor.  Guess I would be called a survivor in the making.  Would love to chat when you get a chance. Sincerely, Paula --- On Wed, 10/1/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Sounds like you had an awesome experience.  It's amazing to me how quick the bond develops when you realize someone is a "survivor".  Seems that's all it takes is for someone to say "I'm a survivor" and all of us know instantly what they mean.  I've been a survivor for only 3 years, but some of my best friends have come out of this whole thing.    I told my students yesterday I'm glad I had cancer.  Most of them about fell out of their seats!  Of course they wanted to know why.  I told them I've grown as a person, that I feel honored God knew I could go through the experience and come out on the other side shining for him.  I also told them some of my best friends are the people I met through the whole experience.  My two chemo nurses are some of my closest friends.    Anyway, if you ever head to Reno or East of the Mississippi - let's try the get together again!  I'd love to meet more survivors face to face!   Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Wed, 10/1/08, marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> wrote: From: marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> Subject: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Dan and I had some airline vouchers that had to be used up, so Sunday morning we flew out of San Diego for three days in Reno, NV. Most of you are too new to this group to know that 14 years ago, we took our then-turning- 21 daughter to Reno to celebrate the occasion. There were a lot of active people at that time, all of us trying to survive cancer, and I shared the plans for this trip on the site. A couple of days later, one of the members (who is no longer with us) came on and said that Reno was only a couple of hours from her home, and she might drive down to have dinner with us. Pretty soon Pat G. logged in. She lived in Washington, DC at the time working for one of the airlines, and she thought she could pick up a flight to Reno. (Pat, if you're lurking here, drop me a note....the email address I have no longer works for you._ Somewhere along the line Jim decided to go. Evie really wanted to go, but she had never flown in an airplane, and had never been that far from home. She screwed up her courage, asked her beautifule daughter to come along, and got on the plane. I don't remember how many people we had -- Anne Loeser (are you lurking, Annie?) and many others (can't remember how many now) showed up. We had t-shirts made that we all proudly wore. This was the first reunion of the Cancer Survivors group (though in those days it was a Bulletin Board on Prodigy). We met several times after that, but as we got further from our diagnoses and life took over our cancer time, most of us have moved along. But it was all brought back to me when we stepped off the plane. We had such joy then to have survived to whatever point we were in our treatment and we made friends for life there. Through our travels we've been able to see many of the people that were there, and stay in touch through e-mail. This group of friends I've met here are dear to me, and I can't thank you all enough for the spot you've played in my survival. I hope that you who are new to this board find the comradery and friendship that I did. It was a major point in my recovery and people here can be that to you...... We're home now, in fact got in Wednesday night. On the flight home I was composing this note in my head. But life is back, and it's 2:00 a.m. on the following Tuesday night, and I just got the chance to check in. It's been a great ride all these years, and it will continue to be. Marla

From: Jan Tarantino <jantarantino2002@...>
Subject: [cancer_survivors_gathering_place] Re: Is It Back?
To: cancer_survivors_gathering_place@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 12:24 AM

--- In cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com, "Chuck
Rossier" <survivor@.. .> wrote:
>
> In May I had a regular PSA test. My medical oncologist told me
> everything was fine. My radiation oncologist declared that I was
> Cancer free after 10 years.
>
> Last week I saw a new urologist who was supposed to be following a
> cyst on my left kidney that is currently diagnosed as benign. Instead,
> he took a look at my PSA and told me, "Your Cancer is growing again."
>
> Maybe my anti-anxiety, anti-depression medication is too strong. I am
> only confused. Two oncologists who have been following me for more
> than 10 years tell me there is nothing. A urologist who I have never
> seen before tells me it is only a matter of time before the new growth
> wins the battle. Who do I believe?
>
> I will ask my medical oncologist to do another PSA test before I see
> her next month and try to get an "informed opinion." A half dozen
> urologists over the years have demonstrated to me that their opinions
> are on a par with first year medical students.
>
> This week I need to focus on our son's wedding this Sunday in NYC. I
> won't share the urologists opinion with my family until after I see my
> medical oncologist. It will dampen my joy this weekend.
>
> Shalom,
> Chuck
>

Hello there Chuck!!!! I hope the wedding went well my friend. I am
sure it was lovely. I just stopped in here after not posting for a
time and wanted to wish you all well here. I will be thinking good
thoughts for you Chuck and sending you prayers that all will be well.
Cancer of any kind is very fickle it seems but I for one know it can
just play games with our bodies so I am chasing it away Chuck. Wishing
you the best. Jan (ovarian cancer survivor stg. 4 over 12 years now)

From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@...>
Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_gathering_place] Back to where it all started
To: cancer_survivors_gathering_place@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 5:07 PM

I found this group through a google search.  I wanted to connect with people who, like you, were survivors but didn't live where I do.  I needed a group of people who understand completely and won't judge me.    I am a survivor of uterine cancer.  I was treated to a hysterectomy (age 40) and when the biopsy of the uterus came back, the report showed cancer cells.  The cells were contained to my uterus which was good news.  Butp- (compliments of my 20 lb. cat)  When they took the uterus out, not knowing the cancer cells were there they cut it open and took it out in two parts. For fear some cells got our and spread, I went through chemo and radiation.  Incidentally, my doctor has three daughters.  Two years I taught her oldest daughter at the small Christian school where I teach.  This year I have her other two daughters.    Keep your chin up.  God is in control. Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Mon, 10/13/08, paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> wrote: From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 5:19 PM Hi marsha:  I was pretty close to Georgia last week.  Flew back to Fort jakcson So. Carolina for my grandfaughter' s graduation from Basic Training.  You know, this will sound stupid, but I can't remember how I got into this group.  I know after I was diagnosed, I did a lot of seraching on the internet looking for support.  I was really a mess because I had just lost my husband.  What kind of cancer are you a survivor of?  Mine is Stage IIIA endometrial.  Talk to you later, Paula --- On Mon, 10/13/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 8:59 AM Hi Paula, no, I live in Calhoun, GA!  My husband lived in Reno when he was younger.   Ok, you are a survivor!  In my mind, anyone was had been told cancer was found in their body is a survivor.  So, congratulations on being a survivor!  Awesome feeling, I'm sure, to have treatment #1 done and over with.  For me it was the scariest not knowing how my body would react.  Only 5 to go!!!!!!!!!! !! Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Mon, 10/13/08, paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> wrote: From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 11:21 AM Hi Marsha:  I'm just getting around to reading all my e-mails this morning, and I noticed you mentioned Reno.  Do you live in Reno?  I live in Portola about 48 miles away.  I do go into Reno for treatment though.  I just had my first chemo last Wednesday, October 8Th.  Can't actually call myself a survivor yet cause I have 5 more chemos to go and then some radiation... but I will be a survivor.  Guess I would be called a survivor in the making.  Would love to chat when you get a chance. Sincerely, Paula --- On Wed, 10/1/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Sounds like you had an awesome experience.  It's amazing to me how quick the bond develops when you realize someone is a "survivor".  Seems that's all it takes is for someone to say "I'm a survivor" and all of us know instantly what they mean.  I've been a survivor for only 3 years, but some of my best friends have come out of this whole thing.    I told my students yesterday I'm glad I had cancer.  Most of them about fell out of their seats!  Of course they wanted to know why.  I told them I've grown as a person, that I feel honored God knew I could go through the experience and come out on the other side shining for him.  I also told them some of my best friends are the people I met through the whole experience.  My two chemo nurses are some of my closest friends.    Anyway, if you ever head to Reno or East of the Mississippi - let's try the get together again!  I'd love to meet more survivors face to face!   Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Wed, 10/1/08, marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> wrote: From: marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> Subject: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Dan and I had some airline vouchers that had to be used up, so Sunday morning we flew out of San Diego for three days in Reno, NV. Most of you are too new to this group to know that 14 years ago, we took our then-turning- 21 daughter to Reno to celebrate the occasion. There were a lot of active people at that time, all of us trying to survive cancer, and I shared the plans for this trip on the site. A couple of days later, one of the members (who is no longer with us) came on and said that Reno was only a couple of hours from her home, and she might drive down to have dinner with us. Pretty soon Pat G. logged in. She lived in Washington, DC at the time working for one of the airlines, and she thought she could pick up a flight to Reno. (Pat, if you're lurking here, drop me a note....the email address I have no longer works for you._ Somewhere along the line Jim decided to go. Evie really wanted to go, but she had never flown in an airplane, and had never been that far from home. She screwed up her courage, asked her beautifule daughter to come along, and got on the plane. I don't remember how many people we had -- Anne Loeser (are you lurking, Annie?) and many others (can't remember how many now) showed up. We had t-shirts made that we all proudly wore. This was the first reunion of the Cancer Survivors group (though in those days it was a Bulletin Board on Prodigy). We met several times after that, but as we got further from our diagnoses and life took over our cancer time, most of us have moved along. But it was all brought back to me when we stepped off the plane. We had such joy then to have survived to whatever point we were in our treatment and we made friends for life there. Through our travels we've been able to see many of the people that were there, and stay in touch through e-mail. This group of friends I've met here are dear to me, and I can't thank you all enough for the spot you've played in my survival. I hope that you who are new to this board find the comradery and friendship that I did. It was a major point in my recovery and people here can be that to you...... We're home now, in fact got in Wednesday night. On the flight home I was composing this note in my head. But life is back, and it's 2:00 a.m. on the following Tuesday night, and I just got the chance to check in. It's been a great ride all these years, and it will continue to be. Marla

From: paula crowder <crowd6807@...>
Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_gathering_place] Back to where it all started
To: cancer_survivors_gathering_place@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 5:19 PM

Hi marsha:  I was pretty close to Georgia last week.  Flew back to Fort jakcson So. Carolina for my grandfaughter' s graduation from Basic Training.  You know, this will sound stupid, but I can't remember how I got into this group.  I know after I was diagnosed, I did a lot of seraching on the internet looking for support.  I was really a mess because I had just lost my husband.  What kind of cancer are you a survivor of?  Mine is Stage IIIA endometrial.  Talk to you later, Paula --- On Mon, 10/13/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 8:59 AM Hi Paula, no, I live in Calhoun, GA!  My husband lived in Reno when he was younger.   Ok, you are a survivor!  In my mind, anyone was had been told cancer was found in their body is a survivor.  So, congratulations on being a survivor!  Awesome feeling, I'm sure, to have treatment #1 done and over with.  For me it was the scariest not knowing how my body would react.  Only 5 to go!!!!!!!!!! !! Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Mon, 10/13/08, paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> wrote: From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 11:21 AM Hi Marsha:  I'm just getting around to reading all my e-mails this morning, and I noticed you mentioned Reno.  Do you live in Reno?  I live in Portola about 48 miles away.  I do go into Reno for treatment though.  I just had my first chemo last Wednesday, October 8Th.  Can't actually call myself a survivor yet cause I have 5 more chemos to go and then some radiation... but I will be a survivor.  Guess I would be called a survivor in the making.  Would love to chat when you get a chance. Sincerely, Paula --- On Wed, 10/1/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Sounds like you had an awesome experience.  It's amazing to me how quick the bond develops when you realize someone is a "survivor".  Seems that's all it takes is for someone to say "I'm a survivor" and all of us know instantly what they mean.  I've been a survivor for only 3 years, but some of my best friends have come out of this whole thing.    I told my students yesterday I'm glad I had cancer.  Most of them about fell out of their seats!  Of course they wanted to know why.  I told them I've grown as a person, that I feel honored God knew I could go through the experience and come out on the other side shining for him.  I also told them some of my best friends are the people I met through the whole experience.  My two chemo nurses are some of my closest friends.    Anyway, if you ever head to Reno or East of the Mississippi - let's try the get together again!  I'd love to meet more survivors face to face!   Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Wed, 10/1/08, marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> wrote: From: marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> Subject: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Dan and I had some airline vouchers that had to be used up, so Sunday morning we flew out of San Diego for three days in Reno, NV. Most of you are too new to this group to know that 14 years ago, we took our then-turning- 21 daughter to Reno to celebrate the occasion. There were a lot of active people at that time, all of us trying to survive cancer, and I shared the plans for this trip on the site. A couple of days later, one of the members (who is no longer with us) came on and said that Reno was only a couple of hours from her home, and she might drive down to have dinner with us. Pretty soon Pat G. logged in. She lived in Washington, DC at the time working for one of the airlines, and she thought she could pick up a flight to Reno. (Pat, if you're lurking here, drop me a note....the email address I have no longer works for you._ Somewhere along the line Jim decided to go. Evie really wanted to go, but she had never flown in an airplane, and had never been that far from home. She screwed up her courage, asked her beautifule daughter to come along, and got on the plane. I don't remember how many people we had -- Anne Loeser (are you lurking, Annie?) and many others (can't remember how many now) showed up. We had t-shirts made that we all proudly wore. This was the first reunion of the Cancer Survivors group (though in those days it was a Bulletin Board on Prodigy). We met several times after that, but as we got further from our diagnoses and life took over our cancer time, most of us have moved along. But it was all brought back to me when we stepped off the plane. We had such joy then to have survived to whatever point we were in our treatment and we made friends for life there. Through our travels we've been able to see many of the people that were there, and stay in touch through e-mail. This group of friends I've met here are dear to me, and I can't thank you all enough for the spot you've played in my survival. I hope that you who are new to this board find the comradery and friendship that I did. It was a major point in my recovery and people here can be that to you...... We're home now, in fact got in Wednesday night. On the flight home I was composing this note in my head. But life is back, and it's 2:00 a.m. on the following Tuesday night, and I just got the chance to check in. It's been a great ride all these years, and it will continue to be. Marla

From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@...>
Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_gathering_place] Back to where it all started
To: cancer_survivors_gathering_place@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 8:59 AM

Hi Paula, no, I live in Calhoun, GA!  My husband lived in Reno when he was younger.   Ok, you are a survivor!  In my mind, anyone was had been told cancer was found in their body is a survivor.  So, congratulations on being a survivor!  Awesome feeling, I'm sure, to have treatment #1 done and over with.  For me it was the scariest not knowing how my body would react.  Only 5 to go!!!!!!!!!! !! Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Mon, 10/13/08, paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> wrote: From: paula crowder <crowd6807@yahoo. com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 11:21 AM Hi Marsha:  I'm just getting around to reading all my e-mails this morning, and I noticed you mentioned Reno.  Do you live in Reno?  I live in Portola about 48 miles away.  I do go into Reno for treatment though.  I just had my first chemo last Wednesday, October 8Th.  Can't actually call myself a survivor yet cause I have 5 more chemos to go and then some radiation... but I will be a survivor.  Guess I would be called a survivor in the making.  Would love to chat when you get a chance. Sincerely, Paula --- On Wed, 10/1/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Sounds like you had an awesome experience.  It's amazing to me how quick the bond develops when you realize someone is a "survivor".  Seems that's all it takes is for someone to say "I'm a survivor" and all of us know instantly what they mean.  I've been a survivor for only 3 years, but some of my best friends have come out of this whole thing.    I told my students yesterday I'm glad I had cancer.  Most of them about fell out of their seats!  Of course they wanted to know why.  I told them I've grown as a person, that I feel honored God knew I could go through the experience and come out on the other side shining for him.  I also told them some of my best friends are the people I met through the whole experience.  My two chemo nurses are some of my closest friends.    Anyway, if you ever head to Reno or East of the Mississippi - let's try the get together again!  I'd love to meet more survivors face to face!   Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Wed, 10/1/08, marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> wrote: From: marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> Subject: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Dan and I had some airline vouchers that had to be used up, so Sunday morning we flew out of San Diego for three days in Reno, NV. Most of you are too new to this group to know that 14 years ago, we took our then-turning- 21 daughter to Reno to celebrate the occasion. There were a lot of active people at that time, all of us trying to survive cancer, and I shared the plans for this trip on the site. A couple of days later, one of the members (who is no longer with us) came on and said that Reno was only a couple of hours from her home, and she might drive down to have dinner with us. Pretty soon Pat G. logged in. She lived in Washington, DC at the time working for one of the airlines, and she thought she could pick up a flight to Reno. (Pat, if you're lurking here, drop me a note....the email address I have no longer works for you._ Somewhere along the line Jim decided to go. Evie really wanted to go, but she had never flown in an airplane, and had never been that far from home. She screwed up her courage, asked her beautifule daughter to come along, and got on the plane. I don't remember how many people we had -- Anne Loeser (are you lurking, Annie?) and many others (can't remember how many now) showed up. We had t-shirts made that we all proudly wore. This was the first reunion of the Cancer Survivors group (though in those days it was a Bulletin Board on Prodigy). We met several times after that, but as we got further from our diagnoses and life took over our cancer time, most of us have moved along. But it was all brought back to me when we stepped off the plane. We had such joy then to have survived to whatever point we were in our treatment and we made friends for life there. Through our travels we've been able to see many of the people that were there, and stay in touch through e-mail. This group of friends I've met here are dear to me, and I can't thank you all enough for the spot you've played in my survival. I hope that you who are new to this board find the comradery and friendship that I did. It was a major point in my recovery and people here can be that to you...... We're home now, in fact got in Wednesday night. On the flight home I was composing this note in my head. But life is back, and it's 2:00 a.m. on the following Tuesday night, and I just got the chance to check in. It's been a great ride all these years, and it will continue to be. Marla

From: paula crowder <crowd6807@...>
Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_gathering_place] Back to where it all started
To: cancer_survivors_gathering_place@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, October 13, 2008, 11:21 AM

Hi Marsha:  I'm just getting around to reading all my e-mails this morning, and I noticed you mentioned Reno.  Do you live in Reno?  I live in Portola about 48 miles away.  I do go into Reno for treatment though.  I just had my first chemo last Wednesday, October 8Th.  Can't actually call myself a survivor yet cause I have 5 more chemos to go and then some radiation... but I will be a survivor.  Guess I would be called a survivor in the making.  Would love to chat when you get a chance. Sincerely, Paula --- On Wed, 10/1/08, Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Sounds like you had an awesome experience.  It's amazing to me how quick the bond develops when you realize someone is a "survivor".  Seems that's all it takes is for someone to say "I'm a survivor" and all of us know instantly what they mean.  I've been a survivor for only 3 years, but some of my best friends have come out of this whole thing.    I told my students yesterday I'm glad I had cancer.  Most of them about fell out of their seats!  Of course they wanted to know why.  I told them I've grown as a person, that I feel honored God knew I could go through the experience and come out on the other side shining for him.  I also told them some of my best friends are the people I met through the whole experience.  My two chemo nurses are some of my closest friends.    Anyway, if you ever head to Reno or East of the Mississippi - let's try the get together again!  I'd love to meet more survivors face to face!   Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Wed, 10/1/08, marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> wrote: From: marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> Subject: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Dan and I had some airline vouchers that had to be used up, so Sunday morning we flew out of San Diego for three days in Reno, NV. Most of you are too new to this group to know that 14 years ago, we took our then-turning- 21 daughter to Reno to celebrate the occasion. There were a lot of active people at that time, all of us trying to survive cancer, and I shared the plans for this trip on the site. A couple of days later, one of the members (who is no longer with us) came on and said that Reno was only a couple of hours from her home, and she might drive down to have dinner with us. Pretty soon Pat G. logged in. She lived in Washington, DC at the time working for one of the airlines, and she thought she could pick up a flight to Reno. (Pat, if you're lurking here, drop me a note....the email address I have no longer works for you._ Somewhere along the line Jim decided to go. Evie really wanted to go, but she had never flown in an airplane, and had never been that far from home. She screwed up her courage, asked her beautifule daughter to come along, and got on the plane. I don't remember how many people we had -- Anne Loeser (are you lurking, Annie?) and many others (can't remember how many now) showed up. We had t-shirts made that we all proudly wore. This was the first reunion of the Cancer Survivors group (though in those days it was a Bulletin Board on Prodigy). We met several times after that, but as we got further from our diagnoses and life took over our cancer time, most of us have moved along. But it was all brought back to me when we stepped off the plane. We had such joy then to have survived to whatever point we were in our treatment and we made friends for life there. Through our travels we've been able to see many of the people that were there, and stay in touch through e-mail. This group of friends I've met here are dear to me, and I can't thank you all enough for the spot you've played in my survival. I hope that you who are new to this board find the comradery and friendship that I did. It was a major point in my recovery and people here can be that to you...... We're home now, in fact got in Wednesday night. On the flight home I was composing this note in my head. But life is back, and it's 2:00 a.m. on the following Tuesday night, and I just got the chance to check in. It's been a great ride all these years, and it will continue to be. Marla

From: Marsha Claus <marshaclaus@...>
Subject: Re: [cancer_survivors_gathering_place] Back to where it all started
To: cancer_survivors_gathering_place@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM

Sounds like you had an awesome experience.  It's amazing to me how quick the bond develops when you realize someone is a "survivor".  Seems that's all it takes is for someone to say "I'm a survivor" and all of us know instantly what they mean.  I've been a survivor for only 3 years, but some of my best friends have come out of this whole thing.    I told my students yesterday I'm glad I had cancer.  Most of them about fell out of their seats!  Of course they wanted to know why.  I told them I've grown as a person, that I feel honored God knew I could go through the experience and come out on the other side shining for him.  I also told them some of my best friends are the people I met through the whole experience.  My two chemo nurses are some of my closest friends.    Anyway, if you ever head to Reno or East of the Mississippi - let's try the get together again!  I'd love to meet more survivors face to face!   Marsha Claus 770-608-5100 marshaclaus@ yahoo.com --- On Wed, 10/1/08, marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> wrote: From: marlapence <marlapence@hotmail. com> Subject: [cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place] Back to where it all started To: cancer_survivors_ gathering_ place@yahoogroup s.com Date: Wednesday, October 1, 2008, 5:11 AM Dan and I had some airline vouchers that had to be used up, so Sunday morning we flew out of San Diego for three days in Reno, NV. Most of you are too new to this group to know that 14 years ago, we took our then-turning- 21 daughter to Reno to celebrate the occasion. There were a lot of active people at that time, all of us trying to survive cancer, and I shared the plans for this trip on the site. A couple of days later, one of the members (who is no longer with us) came on and said that Reno was only a couple of hours from her home, and she might drive down to have dinner with us. Pretty soon Pat G. logged in. She lived in Washington, DC at the time working for one of the airlines, and she thought she could pick up a flight to Reno. (Pat, if you're lurking here, drop me a note....the email address I have no longer works for you._ Somewhere along the line Jim decided to go. Evie really wanted to go, but she had never flown in an airplane, and had never been that far from home. She screwed up her courage, asked her beautifule daughter to come along, and got on the plane. I don't remember how many people we had -- Anne Loeser (are you lurking, Annie?) and many others (can't remember how many now) showed up. We had t-shirts made that we all proudly wore. This was the first reunion of the Cancer Survivors group (though in those days it was a Bulletin Board on Prodigy). We met several times after that, but as we got further from our diagnoses and life took over our cancer time, most of us have moved along. But it was all brought back to me when we stepped off the plane. We had such joy then to have survived to whatever point we were in our treatment and we made friends for life there. Through our travels we've been able to see many of the people that were there, and stay in touch through e-mail. This group of friends I've met here are dear to me, and I can't thank you all enough for the spot you've played in my survival. I hope that you who are new to this board find the comradery and friendship that I did. It was a major point in my recovery and people here can be that to you...... We're home now, in fact got in Wednesday night. On the flight home I was composing this note in my head. But life is back, and it's 2:00 a.m. on the following Tuesday night, and I just got the chance to check in. It's been a great ride all these years, and it will continue to be. Marla

From: Chuck Rossier <survivor@...>
Subject: [cancer_survivors_gathering_place] Is It Back?
To: cancer_survivors_gathering_place@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, October 8, 2008, 5:27 AM

In May I had a regular PSA test. My medical oncologist told me
everything was fine. My radiation oncologist declared that I was
Cancer free after 10 years.

Last week I saw a new urologist who was supposed to be following a
cyst on my left kidney that is currently diagnosed as benign. Instead,
he took a look at my PSA and told me, "Your Cancer is growing again."

Maybe my anti-anxiety, anti-depression medication is too strong. I am
only confused. Two oncologists who have been following me for more
than 10 years tell me there is nothing. A urologist who I have never
seen before tells me it is only a matter of time before the new growth
wins the battle. Who do I believe?

I will ask my medical oncologist to do another PSA test before I see
her next month and try to get an "informed opinion." A half dozen
urologists over the years have demonstrated to me that their opinions
are on a par with first year medical students.

This week I need to focus on our son's wedding this Sunday in NYC. I
won't share the urologists opinion with my family until after I see my
medical oncologist. It will dampen my joy this weekend.

Shalom,
Chuck