Hi MaryAnn,



You say your daughter was just diagnosed with OCD, social phobia and a

little bi-polar... Do you know how long before this she has been

dealing with these issues?



I'll admit that I do not know much at all about bi-polar... but my son

has OCD and social phobia - they often go hand-in-hand.



What treatments are you getting for the OCD & social phobia?  My son

is 14yo and was diagnosed less than a year ago (but the OCD had been

there for a while) and is doing great now.



Be hopeful!  I know when this first happens that is easier said than

done... but with the right treatment, hardwork and support your

daughter can get better.  Is your daughter still in high school?





--- In bossbackocd@yahoogroups.com, MaryAnn Dauterive

<maryanndauterive@...> wrote:

>

> Hi,

>

>   My name is MaryAnn, I am a new member of boss back ocd.  My 18

year old daughter has been diagnosised with OCD, Social Phiobia and

mildly bi-polar.  I am new at all this and welcome any advice and support.

>

>   Thanks,

>

>

> ---------------------------------

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Hi MaryAnn,

You say your daughter was just diagnosed with OCD, social phobia and a
little bi-polar... Do you know how long before this she has been
dealing with these issues?

I'll admit that I do not know much at all about bi-polar... but my son
has OCD and social phobia - they often go hand-in-hand.

What treatments are you getting for the OCD & social phobia? My son
is 14yo and was diagnosed less than a year ago (but the OCD had been
there for a while) and is doing great now.

Be hopeful! I know when this first happens that is easier said than
done... but with the right treatment, hardwork and support your
daughter can get better. Is your daughter still in high school?

--- In bossbackocd@yahoogroups.com, MaryAnn Dauterive
<maryanndauterive@...> wrote:
>
> Hi,
>
> My name is MaryAnn, I am a new member of boss back ocd. My 18
year old daughter has been diagnosised with OCD, Social Phiobia and
mildly bi-polar. I am new at all this and welcome any advice and support.
>
> Thanks,
>
>
> ---------------------------------
> Boardwalk for $500? In 2007? Ha!
> Play Monopoly Here and Now (it's updated for today's economy) at
Yahoo! Games.
>

It may be opposite of what you say... it may be the social phobia that

has "helped" her with the OCD.  Scientists believe and have evidence

that OCD is genetic and has a physiological cause - not enough

serotonin in the brain.  So, I don't think people get OCD in reaction

to something external (although external things can trigger it).



The OCD is emotionally painful for those who suffer and many try very

hard and are very effective at hiding their symptoms for a long long time.



My son has been treated with cognitive behavior therapy and exposure

response prevention (cbt / erp) - and it really does work!  It takes a

lot of work for the sufferer of OCD and lots of support from family.

But I believe in it.  And, if you look into it at all you will find

that it is the only treatment with any kind of real evidence of

effectiveness.



He has pretty well tackled the OCD and is mostly symptom free and we

are now working mostly on the social phobia (same treatment).



You need to find someone that really knows their stuff (treating OCD

with cbt / erp).  Sometimes meds help during therapy... but in my

opininon, if you opt for meds-only or primarily-meds you will be

getting into a lifetime trap.



Hope this helps a little - if you want I can point you to some good

resources on the web.  Be careful, though, there is a lot of

misinformation and what I call "snake-oil" medicine out there.



My son's symptoms actually started back in 1st grade but we didn't

realize what was going on.  Just a phase we thought and it did seem to

pass.  Then at the beginning of 8th grade... crash!







--- In bossbackocd@yahoogroups.com, MaryAnn Dauterive

<maryanndauterive@...> wrote:

>

> Hind sight is 20/20 they say.  I look back now and see that she has

had the social phobia most of her life and I feel the OCD is present

to help her get through the social phobia.  She just graduated from

high school finishing out as a home student have her 3rd

hospitalization this year for depression and attempt suicide.

>

>   What has helped your son?

>

> bossbackocd <bossbackocd@...> wrote:

>           Hi MaryAnn,

>

> You say your daughter was just diagnosed with OCD, social phobia and a

> little bi-polar... Do you know how long before this she has been

> dealing with these issues?

>

> I'll admit that I do not know much at all about bi-polar... but my son

> has OCD and social phobia - they often go hand-in-hand.

>

> What treatments are you getting for the OCD & social phobia? My son

> is 14yo and was diagnosed less than a year ago (but the OCD had been

> there for a while) and is doing great now.

>

> Be hopeful! I know when this first happens that is easier said than

> done... but with the right treatment, hardwork and support your

> daughter can get better. Is your daughter still in high school?

>

> --- In bossbackocd@yahoogroups.com, MaryAnn Dauterive

> <maryanndauterive@> wrote:

> >

> > Hi,

> >

> > My name is MaryAnn, I am a new member of boss back ocd. My 18

> year old daughter has been diagnosised with OCD, Social Phiobia and

> mildly bi-polar. I am new at all this and welcome any advice and

support.

> >

> > Thanks,

> >

> >

> > ---------------------------------

> > Boardwalk for $500? In 2007? Ha!

> > Play Monopoly Here and Now (it's updated for today's economy) at

> Yahoo! Games.

> >

>

>

>

>

>

>

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