Dear Guylaine
Thank your for sharing your experiences.
My wife has gone to something similar (ah, the french doctors! -thank god she has a good homeopathic "généralisté", that helped her.
After clinical tests she was told that sooner or later her thyroid had to be removed as well.
Her homeopath then looked at the data, smiled and said: "we're going to do this in a different way. Given the fact that both your parents have died shortlly after each other, and given how much this has touched you, the data we have here are not that surprizing". So she's on good homeopathic treatment, and already doing a lot better, knowing that when she does a good mourning, in combination with the homeopathic treatment - and working some more on her previous love-pains, it will be allright.
Your letter confirms this message, and that is most helpful for us.
There is one hint: one group of approaches that can really help you well in resolving your old love-pain stories are known under the names of "merdian-therapies, thought-field therapy". Sites that might be of interest are www.tftrx.com and www.emofree.com . especially the latter has good links to other sites. As this is a relatively new fields, you will find a mixture of well-intentioned enthousiasts, as well as serious practitioners.
If you feel a bit overwhelmed by all the info, you might want to contact me directly, as I know the field rather well (and keep on being surprized how helpful these methods are).
And if at any point you come to Paris, let me know; I'm living 40 km outside of Paris, so we could organize a way to meet.
Wishing you well in your new life,
Maarten Aalberse, clinical psychologist
PS. In about a week a new website will be ready, by a naturopath called Sandi Radomski, who also works with "menergy-psychology" methods. This site will contain additional information that might be of help. So, if you're interested, let me know...
Sandi is exceptional. I have learned a lot from reading her material and am looking forward to training with her, coming august.
Maarten