Hi Barbara,
Yes, for me some are much worse than others. I am the opposite of you
though because it seems that small buttons for me are worse than big
ones.
For some reason, any button which my fingertip can completely cover is
really gross to me, almost without exception. However, very large
buttons, like the ones on pea coats, don't bother me at all.
I just got back from a beach vacation and there were lots of things
there with buttons all over them. The worst thing I saw was a necklace
completely made of buttons!!!! My stomach started to turn and I had to
leave the store.
~Lisa