my husband died from aea almost 10 yrs ago, it is alife destroying practice for
all, I live in the UK if you contact your local wellman clinic they will be able
to put you in contact with a sex therapist who will work thru this with you, if
you wish to remain anon then contact samaritans they are a free phone service
there 24/7 they will help and give you contacts for future help, I wish you well
and wish you to think long and hard before you perform this practice
again....Juls

--- On Sat, 14/11/09, vacman4_2000 <vacman4_2000@...> wrote:


From: vacman4_2000 <vacman4_2000@...>
Subject: [Autoerotic Asphyxiation Support] help
To: autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com
Date: Saturday, 14 November, 2009, 2:36


 



This is a hard for me but I am trying to find some help with my problem and I am
finding it very hard to get any I do not want my family to find me one day dead
but find it very hard to stop.this is not a prank i do need help please do any
of you know where help is avaible I am in the uk.

thank you for reading this











[Non-text portions of this message have been removed]

Thank you all for your kind words I will try and find some help as I do not want
to end my life this way.My wife trying to be helpful but I know she does not
under stand It is an addiction just like smoking I do see that and I managed to
give that up twenty years ago.so I am ready to try..I will keep you all up dated
.and agian thankyou.

--- In autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com, coochiealamode@... wrote:
>
> Thanks Carrie. If only my husband had the courage to reach out to someone or
had acknowledge he had a problem I would' have to be in AEA group.
> Carolanne.
> Sent from my BlackBerry device on the Rogers Wireless Network
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: "runtheyrcoming" <runtheyrcoming@...>
> Date: Sun, 15 Nov 2009 17:07:10
> To: <autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com>
> Subject: [Autoerotic Asphyxiation Support] Re: help
>
> Hello, I don't know if this will help alittle or not, but I am hoping that it
will.  First off, definitely find a doctor or therapist for long term help. 
Second, think of one person who means the world to you and then think of them
being completely destroyed by the news that you have died like this.
>    On January 19th,I called my dear brother who I loved so very much and left
him a message that the baby I was carrying was a girl and that he'd have his
first neice. He loved being an uncle and was so great with his nephews. I was so
happy in that moment, but I had no idea that my brother didn't pick up the phone
because he was dead.  He had actually died from aea the day before and wouldn't
even be found for 2 more days.  When I found out the news, I was completely
destroyed.  I was screaming, shaking, and sobbing for days and thought I would
lose the baby and didn't even really care because life didn't seem worth living
anymore. Now, my entire family has fallen apart. My dad has gone off the deep
end and I have had to cut off contact with my parents because I can't deal with
their grief and my own plus have a new baby. Getting through each day is
difficult and part of me is dead inside.
>    I am telling you this story about myself and my family, because while it is
theraputic for me to write about it, I also want you to imagine this kind of
destruction happening to someone that you love very much. Find at least one
person in your life who's entire world will be this devastated and concentrate
on that until you can get more professional, long term support.
>    I would have given anything at all, absolutely anything to have helped my
brother or to have him get some help.  You've already had the courage to email
this group, now I know that you will have the courage to take the next step.  I
believe in you and know that you don't want your loved ones to go through what
we have gone through.  --Carrie
>
> --- In autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com, "carol" <sixcons@>
wrote:
> >
> > Allan
> > my son posted on the silent victims site, asking for help. he has died since
then. I know you dont want to put your family through this, after Steve died our
life went in the toilet. everything hurts. everything we do is a struggle. I
know you realize this.
> >
> > I look at AEA like Cutting or doing drugs. is there a NA group you can go
to? its not narcotics but at least you could gain some coping skills on
addiction. I wish there was a patch you could take to stop the craving!!! I
guess in the meantime, when the urges are too strong, at least hold a noose with
one hand so you arent suspended and die? that way when you pass out, your hand
will let go of the noose. if you can control the urges, when it hits instead of
playing it out, go read some of our stories, or some of the older posts.
> >
> > I wish you all the luck in the world with this. I know you can do it! Please
keep us updated on your journey.
> > Carol
> >
> > --- In autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com, "vacman4_2000"
<vacman4_2000@> wrote:
> > >
> > >
> > > I am trying to find a therapist but its hard for me talk about and i don't
think i could talk to the family doctor about it for him to make me an
appontment to see a therapist
> > >  but thank you for being there all the best vacman (allan)
> > >
> > > --- In autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com, christy86m@ wrote:
> > > >
> > > > hi vacman,
> > > >
> > > > my name is christy and i lost my brother to aea in 2001 - he was 36.
> > > >
> > > > can you find a local therapist you can talk to?
> > > >
> > > > i wish you lived nearby and i could suggest some people to talk to.
> > > >
> > > > please know you are in my prayers.
> > > >
> > > > christy
> > > > jon's sister
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
> > > >
> > >
> >
>
>
>
>
>
> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
>

Thanks Carrie. If only my husband had the courage to reach out to someone or had
acknowledge he had a problem I would' have to be in AEA group.
Carolanne.
Sent from my BlackBerry device on the Rogers Wireless Network

-----Original Message-----
From: "runtheyrcoming" <runtheyrcoming@...>
Date: Sun, 15 Nov 2009 17:07:10
To: <autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com>
Subject: [Autoerotic Asphyxiation Support] Re: help

Hello, I don't know if this will help alittle or not, but I am hoping that it
will.  First off, definitely find a doctor or therapist for long term help. 
Second, think of one person who means the world to you and then think of them
being completely destroyed by the news that you have died like this.
    On January 19th,I called my dear brother who I loved so very much and left
him a message that the baby I was carrying was a girl and that he'd have his
first neice. He loved being an uncle and was so great with his nephews. I was so
happy in that moment, but I had no idea that my brother didn't pick up the phone
because he was dead.  He had actually died from aea the day before and wouldn't
even be found for 2 more days.  When I found out the news, I was completely
destroyed.  I was screaming, shaking, and sobbing for days and thought I would
lose the baby and didn't even really care because life didn't seem worth living
anymore. Now, my entire family has fallen apart. My dad has gone off the deep
end and I have had to cut off contact with my parents because I can't deal with
their grief and my own plus have a new baby. Getting through each day is
difficult and part of me is dead inside.
    I am telling you this story about myself and my family, because while it is
theraputic for me to write about it, I also want you to imagine this kind of
destruction happening to someone that you love very much. Find at least one
person in your life who's entire world will be this devastated and concentrate
on that until you can get more professional, long term support.
    I would have given anything at all, absolutely anything to have helped my
brother or to have him get some help.  You've already had the courage to email
this group, now I know that you will have the courage to take the next step.  I
believe in you and know that you don't want your loved ones to go through what
we have gone through.  --Carrie

--- In autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com, "carol" <sixcons@...>
wrote:
>
> Allan
> my son posted on the silent victims site, asking for help. he has died since
then. I know you dont want to put your family through this, after Steve died our
life went in the toilet. everything hurts. everything we do is a struggle. I
know you realize this.
>
> I look at AEA like Cutting or doing drugs. is there a NA group you can go to?
its not narcotics but at least you could gain some coping skills on addiction. I
wish there was a patch you could take to stop the craving!!! I guess in the
meantime, when the urges are too strong, at least hold a noose with one hand so
you arent suspended and die? that way when you pass out, your hand will let go
of the noose. if you can control the urges, when it hits instead of playing it
out, go read some of our stories, or some of the older posts.
>
> I wish you all the luck in the world with this. I know you can do it! Please
keep us updated on your journey.
> Carol
>
> --- In autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com, "vacman4_2000"
<vacman4_2000@> wrote:
> >
> >
> > I am trying to find a therapist but its hard for me talk about and i don't
think i could talk to the family doctor about it for him to make me an
appontment to see a therapist
> >  but thank you for being there all the best vacman (allan)
> >
> > --- In autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com, christy86m@ wrote:
> > >
> > > hi vacman,
> > >
> > > my name is christy and i lost my brother to aea in 2001 - he was 36.
> > >
> > > can you find a local therapist you can talk to?
> > >
> > > i wish you lived nearby and i could suggest some people to talk to.
> > >
> > > please know you are in my prayers.
> > >
> > > christy
> > > jon's sister
> > >
> > >
> > > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
> > >
> >
>





[Non-text portions of this message have been removed]

Hello, I don't know if this will help alittle or not, but I am hoping that it
will.  First off, definitely find a doctor or therapist for long term help. 
Second, think of one person who means the world to you and then think of them
being completely destroyed by the news that you have died like this.
    On January 19th,I called my dear brother who I loved so very much and left
him a message that the baby I was carrying was a girl and that he'd have his
first neice. He loved being an uncle and was so great with his nephews. I was so
happy in that moment, but I had no idea that my brother didn't pick up the phone
because he was dead.  He had actually died from aea the day before and wouldn't
even be found for 2 more days.  When I found out the news, I was completely
destroyed.  I was screaming, shaking, and sobbing for days and thought I would
lose the baby and didn't even really care because life didn't seem worth living
anymore. Now, my entire family has fallen apart. My dad has gone off the deep
end and I have had to cut off contact with my parents because I can't deal with
their grief and my own plus have a new baby. Getting through each day is
difficult and part of me is dead inside.
    I am telling you this story about myself and my family, because while it is
theraputic for me to write about it, I also want you to imagine this kind of
destruction happening to someone that you love very much. Find at least one
person in your life who's entire world will be this devastated and concentrate
on that until you can get more professional, long term support.
    I would have given anything at all, absolutely anything to have helped my
brother or to have him get some help.  You've already had the courage to email
this group, now I know that you will have the courage to take the next step.  I
believe in you and know that you don't want your loved ones to go through what
we have gone through.  --Carrie

--- In autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com, "carol" <sixcons@...>
wrote:
>
> Allan
> my son posted on the silent victims site, asking for help. he has died since
then. I know you dont want to put your family through this, after Steve died our
life went in the toilet. everything hurts. everything we do is a struggle. I
know you realize this.
>
> I look at AEA like Cutting or doing drugs. is there a NA group you can go to?
its not narcotics but at least you could gain some coping skills on addiction. I
wish there was a patch you could take to stop the craving!!! I guess in the
meantime, when the urges are too strong, at least hold a noose with one hand so
you arent suspended and die? that way when you pass out, your hand will let go
of the noose. if you can control the urges, when it hits instead of playing it
out, go read some of our stories, or some of the older posts.
>
> I wish you all the luck in the world with this. I know you can do it! Please
keep us updated on your journey.
> Carol
>
> --- In autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com, "vacman4_2000"
<vacman4_2000@> wrote:
> >
> >
> > I am trying to find a therapist but its hard for me talk about and i don't
think i could talk to the family doctor about it for him to make me an
appontment to see a therapist
> >  but thank you for being there all the best vacman (allan)
> >
> > --- In autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com, christy86m@ wrote:
> > >
> > > hi vacman,
> > >
> > > my name is christy and i lost my brother to aea in 2001 - he was 36.
> > >
> > > can you find a local therapist you can talk to?
> > >
> > > i wish you lived nearby and i could suggest some people to talk to.
> > >
> > > please know you are in my prayers.
> > >
> > > christy
> > > jon's sister
> > >
> > >
> > > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
> > >
> >
>

Dear Allan,



Is there a close friend (s) that you can talk to and ask them to help you find a
therapist??? Please seek out someone, anyone, to help you seek what you need. My
son, Jared, told no one about his AeA practice and he died alone in his bedroom.
I wish he would have asked me for help because I would have done anything for
him. Please let me know how you make out, I care. I wish I could help you but I
live in the United States.



God be with you !!

Love,



Colleen J. Marrero







  EMAILING FOR THE GREATER GOOD
Join me




To: autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com
From: vacman4_2000@...
Date: Sat, 14 Nov 2009 02:36:22 +0000
Subject: [Autoerotic Asphyxiation Support] help





This is a hard for me but I am trying to find some help with my problem and I am
finding it very hard to get any I do not want my family to find me one day dead
but find it very hard to stop.this is not a prank i do need help please do any
of you know where help is avaible I am in the uk.

thank you for reading this






[Non-text portions of this message have been removed]

Allan
my son posted on the silent victims site, asking for help. he has died since
then. I know you dont want to put your family through this, after Steve died our
life went in the toilet. everything hurts. everything we do is a struggle. I
know you realize this.

I look at AEA like Cutting or doing drugs. is there a NA group you can go to?
its not narcotics but at least you could gain some coping skills on addiction. I
wish there was a patch you could take to stop the craving!!! I guess in the
meantime, when the urges are too strong, at least hold a noose with one hand so
you arent suspended and die? that way when you pass out, your hand will let go
of the noose. if you can control the urges, when it hits instead of playing it
out, go read some of our stories, or some of the older posts.

I wish you all the luck in the world with this. I know you can do it! Please
keep us updated on your journey.
Carol

--- In autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com, "vacman4_2000"
<vacman4_2000@...> wrote:
>
>
> I am trying to find a therapist but its hard for me talk about and i don't
think i could talk to the family doctor about it for him to make me an
appontment to see a therapist
>  but thank you for being there all the best vacman (allan)
>
> --- In autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com, christy86m@ wrote:
> >
> > hi vacman,
> >
> > my name is christy and i lost my brother to aea in 2001 - he was 36.
> >
> > can you find a local therapist you can talk to?
> >
> > i wish you lived nearby and i could suggest some people to talk to.
> >
> > please know you are in my prayers.
> >
> > christy
> > jon's sister
> >
> >
> > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
> >
>

My advice is to definitely speak to your doctor, he is there to help you.  You
may find it difficult, that's understandable BUT it would not compare to the
difficulties that your family would face if you were to lose your life to aea. 
I wish you all the best in your search for support.

--- On Sat, 14/11/09, vacman4_2000 <vacman4_2000@...> wrote:


From: vacman4_2000 <vacman4_2000@...>
Subject: [Autoerotic Asphyxiation Support] help
To: autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com
Date: Saturday, 14 November, 2009, 2:36


 



This is a hard for me but I am trying to find some help with my problem and I am
finding it very hard to get any I do not want my family to find me one day dead
but find it very hard to stop.this is not a prank i do need help please do any
of you know where help is avaible I am in the uk.

thank you for reading this











[Non-text portions of this message have been removed]

I am trying to find a therapist but its hard for me talk about and i don't think
i could talk to the family doctor about it for him to make me an appontment to
see a therapist
  but thank you for being there all the best vacman (allan)

--- In autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com, christy86m@... wrote:
>
> hi vacman,
>
> my name is christy and i lost my brother to aea in 2001 - he was 36.
>
> can you find a local therapist you can talk to?
>
> i wish you lived nearby and i could suggest some people to talk to.
>
> please know you are in my prayers.
>
> christy
> jon's sister
>
>
> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
>

hi vacman,

my name is christy and i lost my brother to aea in 2001 - he was 36.

can you find a local therapist you can talk to?

i wish you lived nearby and i could suggest some people to talk to.

please know you are in my prayers.

christy
jon's sister


[Non-text portions of this message have been removed]

This is a hard for me but I am trying to find some help with my problem and I am
finding it very hard to get any I do not want my family to find me one day dead
but find it very hard to stop.this is not a prank i do need help please do any
of you know where help is avaible I am in the uk.

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