Hello, I guess I really don't know where to start. My husband, Allen (41), died May 7, due to auto-erotic asphixiation. I didn't even know what it was! We had...
Susan, I am so sorry this happened. Especially your son finding him. how is he? Get him in counseling, I know at 15 he probably doesnt want to go but he is...
Susan, My husband (52) was found in our bedroom closet by my children (14 and 17) and me. I know EXACTLY what you are going through! Have you told anyone what...
Carol, I cannot tell you how grateful I am that someone (you) responded! My son is seeking help. I cannot bring myself to just yet. My brother-in-law came to...
hi susan, i lost my brother, jon, to AeA on 5.11.01. jon was 36, extremely smart - brilliantly funny and compassionate. i am so sorry you lost your husband to...
Susan, I am so sorry that for the reason that you had to find us but I am glad that you did so that you can talk to others who have been through the same...
Dear Charlotte, I have only responded to one other e-mail on this subject from the same forum. My son is getting help, however, I cannot bring myself to that...
Susan, I'm curious, did your son know what it was? It seems kids know more then we do. When I finally told people what really happened they all seemed to say...
Susan, My heart aches for you. When I read your message, it brought back all of those raw feelings when my husbands death was just new and we were trying to ...
Susan, I'm very sorry for your loss. And I would never ever attempt to tell someone how to handle the grief that comes with such a loss. I also would never...
Hello all..... I do not post or write much....but I do read each and everyone and still trying to understand this myself and such pain to see another one has...
Dear susan Your not alone hun, my husband was found by my 16 year old daughter, he died just over 2 years ago, our 22 wedding anniversary is next Friday *sad...
Hi. I just wanted to say that I to have lost my brother on July 29th 2004, 1 week after his 41st birthday from autoerotic asphyxia. I agree that people need to...
hey all... just a wee note to say i am still about and still reading although i havent posted much...however, still finding things difficult unfortunately! i...
I cannot thank everyone on this link enough for your support! It has been overwhelming! I have been going crazy over what has happened to me and my son for 4...
The big question I pose: is Allen in Heaven or Hell? He was a devote christian, however, he sinned when he died...where does that leave him? allen is in heaven...
Susan, Dont let organized religion tell you where your husband is. I was born and raised in the catholic church, I have turned my back on them. (yes my kids...
Susan, You have opened a can of worms with this question!!! "The big question I pose: is Allen in Heaven or Hell? He was a devote christian, however, he sinned...
Susan, I'm not real religious, I believe in spiritual things, I believe there's good and evil and an ultimate realm for those spirits that excludes the evils...
Hey, 2 weeks ago my friend committed auto erotic asphyxiation. They found him in his room and he was only 16 years old. I was his first friend at his new...
GDay Susan I Know my husband is in heaven with everyone else, god is all forgiving, he doesn't judge people, I'm not religious at all, our loved ones didn't...
"if god didn't want us to do that he wouldn't have made our hands long enough to reach our genitals" - Bernie, I'm peeing my pants laughing! that is probably...
Amber, Your doing a good thing befriending his little brother. He's going to need all the friends he can get now. especially someone who can share memories....
Amber, I'm sorry for your losing your friend. My son was 16 when he died. He had just finished his Junior year and was looking forward to his Senior year...
You're beautiful Bernie. ~~Dianna Jason's mom Bernie ODwyer <diamond_blue_2002@...> wrote: GDay Susan I Know my husband is in heaven with everyone else,...
Dear Joanne, At one of my deepest moments of sorrow the mail brought a flier from a local hospital listing their grief seminars....I was able to take a 6 week...
I have never thought of AEA as a sin...the sin comes in not realizing the danger of the act. Sometime even that would not deter....Just as some people climb to...
Ann, Do you and your daughter have anything planned for Saturday? I'll be thinking of you. I'll light a candle for Stevie's anniversary and Steve's birthday....
Hi I am Colleen and I am a single mother of a a wonderful, gifted, highly intelligent young man named Jared who turned 22 on August 6th. On August 9th my...