I never thought that I'd be joining an on line support group, but here I am. I lost my 29 year old son to AEA on March 20, less than 2 weeks ago. The funeral...
New person, What is your name? WHat is your sons name? I'm so sorry you had to be here! But I'm glad you found this group. My name is Carol, my 16 year old son...
Ditto on what Carol said. In time the pain will lessen but honestly for us it has not gone completely away and probably won't. We lost our 18 year old last...
Dear new member: If ever you will find understanding and comfort it will be here. We lost our 19 year old son one month before his 20th birthday. He died on my...
You and your boy's mother will be in shock for quite a while. Do not expect too much of yourselves. This takes its toll emotionally, mentally and physically...
Dear "Kfoh2003" I read your heartfelt post and I wanted to write to you. I am so sorry about your son. Please know you are not alone in your grief. This...
Noryne, WOW you have 10 kids?? you are a saint! I didnt realize, how do you keep your sanity? I have (had) 4 and I feel like I dont know if I'm coming or going...
Dear new member, Your post wrenched my heart. I remember so well those same questions...when will I stop crying?...When will I be able to think of him without...
Dear New Member, My heart is breaking for you and your family. Reading you post brought it all back...my son died just shy of his 21st birthday while he was a...
new member -- i am glad you found us so early on -- i am SO sorry about your son -- i lost my husband 14 months ago; he was 38 -- like everyone has said, it...
noryne--- i have had similar feelings -- about being able to see nic, like a flash of something, and then nothing -- there's no telling what we could...
Hi Carol yes sometimes I feel like I live in a loony bin but we also have a lot of fun. When my husband spoke at Philips funeral he mentioned that we had so...
Hi Noryne, I think you are blessed to have so many children. I remember when Nat died...some friends said..."Well, at least you have Hannah and Joe...". What a...
Noryne, I know what you're saying about the surviving kids. Our two daughters did something very special for us the Christmas after Dalton died. They went and...
hello kfoh - my name is christy and i lost my brother jon on 5.11.01 to aea. jon was 36. he lived in moved from tampa (ironically, a huge bucs fan) to savannah...
YES thats exactly what I'm dealing with, it happened once, how do I know it wont happen again!!! Obviously God didnt think much of picking one of ours, how do...
Hi new member, My name is Kelly and I lost My Brother Marc 1/10/2001. He was 38 years old. My now 15 year old son found him. I am so sorry for your loss. we...
Jackie, Your response to this New Member was so well put and true. Thank God, the Police found my son, Dan, 31, who left this world last July and not my son,...
Jackie, I probably would have thought the same thing had I not gone through this. You just don't realize how one person affects a whole family until that ...
kfoh2003 <Kfoh@...> wrote:I never thought that I'd be joining an on line support group, but here I am. I lost my 29 year old son to AEA on March 20, less...
Hi All. I have not posted much lately but have finally caught up on reading all the posts. I have been really busy . I just wanted to ask for your prayers...
Bud: I'm so sorry you're going through what you're going through. How I wish I could just be the character Q from Star Trek the Next Generation and be...
Please, you are NOT rambling! not at all, I was very interested to hear what you had to say. I am so sorry for you, I dont understand how this can happen. that...
Bud, I am sorry for your pain I am sure that it is hard to have faith in a God who would allow both your sons to be taken but I hope you will hang on to what...
Laura on Philips first B-day we took all the kids to the cemetery and had gave each one a flower. We had them each tell of a memory of Philip and then put...
laura i will be thinking of you tomorrow -- i know it won't be easy -- i've only gone through it once myself so far -- nic's birthday is in december, so i had...
bud, oh, i am so sorry about john -- it doesn't matter to us if it's aea- related or not, if you need to talk about it, please do -- i understand your...