hi carol, funny, i was so happy and then so sad to read your first post. i wish we belonged to a more fun site or met via a different way. i am good. i have...
Hello all. Welcome to our new members. I'm sorry for your loss & that you had to come join our group, but you've found a good place to be. My family is just...
Maybe support for AEA family members is the wrong group for this comment. But perhaps if people didn't shove this under the table and look at it as such a...
yea it would be nice if we all knew each other for a better reason. aww the boys are getting big! I think when you lose someone close, you tend to hold your...
OMG I think saying congrats on the 1st anniversary is SO inappropriate!! I'm hoping it was a typo! what the hell is happy about not having a family member...
Congradulations on starting a support group that has survived a year is not out of line and yes con grads and no it's not a typo! The original line I replied...
Ed you are taking out anger and showing sarcasm to the wrong people. It isn't really my line - but you are out of line. Christy Jon's sister [Non-text portions...
No anger, no bad words, no bad vibes, only speaking my mind with some possible solutions. If you see suggestions and ideas as anger or sarcasm then you...
Yes, Colleen I agree that lies are not a good way to go. My closest friends know the whole story. But when I tell others that my brother took his own life, I...
Ed, As a new member to this group, after reading this thread I felt like this was the wrong place for me! There is already so much hostility in my own family...
OK, I see that was misread, it was in no way intended to to mean congratulations on the one year anniversary of losing a loved one. That being said I am at...
I think we all need to slow down and reaspect the fact that we all have our own opinions of how we should deal with our loved ones deaths, some of us are...
Yes I understand how you feel. I do believe that my son did not intend on dieing. He tried something that went terribly wrong. He had lots of dreams for the...
Carol, Long time no talk! It is amazing how things change over time isn't it? MeLinda ... From: carol <sixcons@...> Subject: [Autoerotic Asphyxiation...
Hello: I haven't written in a long time. I have been reading what has been posted though. I lost my husband June 14, 2008 to AEA he was 43. My son is four...
This is a hard for me but I am trying to find some help with my problem and I am finding it very hard to get any I do not want my family to find me one day...
hi vacman, my name is christy and i lost my brother to aea in 2001 - he was 36. can you find a local therapist you can talk to? i wish you lived nearby and i...
I am trying to find a therapist but its hard for me talk about and i don't think i could talk to the family doctor about it for him to make me an appontment to...
My advice is to definitely speak to your doctor, he is there to help you. You may find it difficult, that's understandable BUT it would not compare to the...
Allan my son posted on the silent victims site, asking for help. he has died since then. I know you dont want to put your family through this, after Steve died...
Dear Allan, Is there a close friend (s) that you can talk to and ask them to help you find a therapist??? Please seek out someone, anyone, to help you seek...
Hello, I don't know if this will help alittle or not, but I am hoping that it will. First off, definitely find a doctor or therapist for long term help....
Thanks Carrie. If only my husband had the courage to reach out to someone or had acknowledge he had a problem I would' have to be in AEA group. Carolanne. Sent...
Thank you all for your kind words I will try and find some help as I do not want to end my life this way.My wife trying to be helpful but I know she does not...
my husband died from aea almost 10 yrs ago, it is alife destroying practice for all, I live in the UK if you contact your local wellman clinic they will be...