Lisa, I'm so glad you were contacted. My family is not in a place we can share what really happened to my brother yet. I was watching Larry King the other...
Deb, I know what your saying. you want them to just SAY IT! say it outloud, say it on tv, take the filth out of it and just say the damn words! so when we have...
Hi. I'm not sure how to do this. On April 1st (!) a police officer came to the door saying my brother had passed away, and that I should call the coroner's...
Aw hun i feel for you so much, i do agree that we have to focus on it as the loss of a loved one as in grief itself and not how the death came about, i know...
I am so sorry for your loss. I'm glad you have found a therapist who understands. My brother passed away last September. My mom has never said the words...
Thank you so much, Debra and Suzanne (and any other readers out there). It helps so much to know I'm not alone, and that you "hear" me in a special, though...
Hello, I lost my brother to AEA in January. So far, when I tell people that my brother died I say that "he took his own life". I don't say he committed...
Hi, I just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. I, too, lost my brother (Jan. 09). He would have been 47 this month. I appreciate your post. I have...
hi - i am so sorry to hear about your brother. i lost my brother jon on 5/11/09 and he also was not found for a little while (5/15/01 but it was in savannah,...
No other way about it, I've always been truthful to anyone who asks. I cannot live with lies on top of losing my child too. Colleen J. Marrero (Jared's Mom) ...
Hi, I'm sorry about your brother. for you and for our other new member who lost their brother. This is a nightmare. Its been quiet in the group for a while, I...
sorry about that sign in name. didnt realize my IM name was still on. yes i'm lazy ahahahaha Hi Christy, How are you your family? My son Matt doesnt bring it...
hi carol, funny, i was so happy and then so sad to read your first post. i wish we belonged to a more fun site or met via a different way. i am good. i have...
Hello all. Welcome to our new members. I'm sorry for your loss & that you had to come join our group, but you've found a good place to be. My family is just...
Maybe support for AEA family members is the wrong group for this comment. But perhaps if people didn't shove this under the table and look at it as such a...
yea it would be nice if we all knew each other for a better reason. aww the boys are getting big! I think when you lose someone close, you tend to hold your...
OMG I think saying congrats on the 1st anniversary is SO inappropriate!! I'm hoping it was a typo! what the hell is happy about not having a family member...
Congradulations on starting a support group that has survived a year is not out of line and yes con grads and no it's not a typo! The original line I replied...
Ed you are taking out anger and showing sarcasm to the wrong people. It isn't really my line - but you are out of line. Christy Jon's sister [Non-text portions...
No anger, no bad words, no bad vibes, only speaking my mind with some possible solutions. If you see suggestions and ideas as anger or sarcasm then you...
Yes, Colleen I agree that lies are not a good way to go. My closest friends know the whole story. But when I tell others that my brother took his own life, I...
Ed, As a new member to this group, after reading this thread I felt like this was the wrong place for me! There is already so much hostility in my own family...
OK, I see that was misread, it was in no way intended to to mean congratulations on the one year anniversary of losing a loved one. That being said I am at...
I think we all need to slow down and reaspect the fact that we all have our own opinions of how we should deal with our loved ones deaths, some of us are...
Yes I understand how you feel. I do believe that my son did not intend on dieing. He tried something that went terribly wrong. He had lots of dreams for the...
Carol, Long time no talk! It is amazing how things change over time isn't it? MeLinda ... From: carol <sixcons@...> Subject: [Autoerotic Asphyxiation...
Hello: I haven't written in a long time. I have been reading what has been posted though. I lost my husband June 14, 2008 to AEA he was 43. My son is four...
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