Hi, I'm so very sorry that this has happened to you.  I lost my precious husband
just over 4 years ago and I can feel your pain.  I am not able to tell you how
to handle it.....I think that I just survived, not knowing what to do.  I know
that the pain is so hard to endure, there is no getting away from that.  Please
keep posting if you can.  It was one of the things that kept me focussed.  I had
to share my horror with others that were feeling my pain. 
If you can, try to focus on the love that you shared with your husband.  I'm now
at a loss for words.  Take care, Wendy

--- On Mon, 9/15/08, Carole <sallyjoe74@...> wrote:

From: Carole <sallyjoe74@...>
Subject: [Autoerotic Asphyxiation Support] New here...
To: autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, September 15, 2008, 4:31 AM






I lost my husband on 8/20/08 to AeA. I had no idea he was doing this.
I am still in shock and can't believe he would do such a dangerous and
foolish act. Our daughter came home for lunch and found him in the
garage. She will never be able to forget. I am at a loss at how to
handle this.


















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