hello Sally ? Carolle ? I am very very sorry about your loss ... I
don't know exactly how you feeling at the moment but I know more or
less because I found my best friend and ex-husband in his bed last
february and I still in shock questioning myself the same question you
ask yourself why he was doing that ? I am sorry about your daugther
because is something really horrible I not have enough words for
that .. try hard everyday to handle this make yourself busy....
busy ...conversation with your friends a lots.. if somebody next to
kind or even your best friend know the true about his dead.. speak a
lots about this to them .. doesn't matter if your friend o next to
kind be boring of your conversation. . they need to understand you at
the moment and listening to you is the best way to show you love...warm
your daugther with words about her father how good he was in life and
if he was doing that no delete the good man he was .. only it is
something he was INTO apart from his own personality and is the more
private thing anybody can do and not is business or nobody else etc etc
etc.,( I am sorry about my english ) still write to this site..
hopefully you be better soon, bye, Patricia.