I lost my precious husband in September 2004 and I too could not get past the
accident. Somehow I have learned to live with it and accept that he is gone.
The love that I shared with my husband will always be with me and keeps me
going. It is so very early for you yet and I know and can feel the pain that
you are experiencing at this time. Keep on seeing your counsellor and take
strength from the love that you and your husband shared. It was the love that
helped me heal. I am thinking of you, Wendy

tuck_1964 <tuck_1964@...> wrote: I am wondering if all of you have
had these feelings and how you
dealt. I can't help but feel guilty that I did not know and I am still
in denial that he is really gone.
I lost my husband to AeA Dec. 2,2007, I know its still fresh but I am
still hoping it's all a bad bad dream.
When will these feelings subside? (If ever)
I feel I can't properly mourn his loss because I can't get past the
ACCIDENT. Is this normal in the beginning? I am seeing a therapist
but I have only had 2 visits so hard to tell if it's helping.
But at least I can bare my soul.
Any help would be greatly appreciated, or if anyone would just like to
talk further about our situations that would HELP alot!

Thanks for reading. Thinking about all of you.






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