Pam

First: Your vulgar and emotionless display has sickened me, although
this woman was asking our opinion I feel that you went above and
beyond the call of duty. I find it unfortunate that you have been
unable to forgive your husband for the way that he died. Are you
ashamed of him? Or are you ashamed of yourself?

Second: Who are you to pass judgement on anyone, I hope you wake up
everyday and look in the mirror and see the peson you have become,
cold and heartless.

and lastly third: Many of us have had a hard time moving on, it by
far does not mean that we no longer love our ones who have passed
its that we have grown and realized that life is what we make out of
it and will die alone if we sit there and wallow about the hardships
we were dealt.

My husband died of extreme AEA He was found bound at the neck by
bungee cords, a rope tied around his penis, as well as a vacumm on
his penis.. in the middle of our livingroom floor and after 2 days.
Please dont think that you are the only one that has ever hurt from
this Pam as so many people have.. not many people know about it due
to the ignorance of others... of strangers,,, thats why this group
is here so we arent alone. Maybe you should blog on here more often
and get your anger out... if you dont accept this you will
eventually die as a lonely bitter old woman who is too quick to pass
judgement on others.

As for the woman who is wondering IS IT OK...

Yes, for me it was okay, it took awhile to accept everything that
happened and move on.. I wasnt looking to move on, I had 2 small
children I needed to focus on.. why should I worry about anything
other than them....then I realised, my happiness and how I feel
about myself is what they are dependant on. I couldnt dwell on the
past anymore. When I met Jeff I told him everything, Shawns pictures
are still around my house and in the face of my children, Shawn made
me who I am today... who Jeff loves.. strong and CAPABLE if I would
have let AEA break me... where would I be... move on its okay.. no
one is asking you to forget

Brandy

--- In autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com, "Pam Dring"
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> First: You are not ready for a relationship.
> Second: If this guy is really OK with all the photos in the
house...there is something wrong with him.
> I'm 56, my husband took his life in February with his hand around
his cock: and just like everyone else on this site I have a sorry
story.
> Please, do not get into a relationship right now. you have a son
who needs all your attention!
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