Hi Colleen,
I read both the police report and the autopsy report. Don't read the
autopsy. Please don't read it. I do know that my husband didn't even
know what happened, he just passed out. From my understanding of all
this, that more times than not, they usually pass out without even
knowing whats about to happen. That is comforting to me, in a strange
way. I was assured by our Dr's and the police that is whats happens.
The autopsy report is full of medical jargon that is hard to
understand, but yet there are things in there that you totally
understand. Save yourself the heartache and don't do it. The police
report, mine anyway, did not contain pictures. I was not even offered
pictures and I doubt they would even give you any. All the report
shows is everyones statement of what happened verbatim. Then it tells
what the policeman saw, and his assessment, and then what the EMS did
and the outcome of their analysis. Then the times the coroner came,
and what they did.The report wont tell you anything you don't already
know. I had to have both reports for insurance purposes, so I read
them after my mom told me not to. I should have listened to her. I
hope this helps. Please don't pour salt in your wound.



--- In autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com, Colleen Cordeiro
<powderedsugar41@...> wrote:
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> Hi All,
>
> I know I don't write very often, but I have been thinking about
something for awhile now.
> I would like your opinion please.
> My son died on 8/9/2004 in South Carolina where we lived, I have
since moved back home to MA to be with family.
>
> I do not know much about the specifics of my son's death. My
ex-boyfriend found him and I personally did not speak to the cornorer
after his death (my brother did at my request). I now want to know
more and am thinking about calling the police dept in SC to get the
report and the cornorer's report.. I know that my ex filled out a
statement and I would like to read that also.
>
> Should I do this or just let it go as I know it cannot bring my
son back. Please help me to decide.
> Thanks
> Colleen
>
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