Hi Charlotte and DD,
I'm sorry about your husband DD. in the beginning its so hard, not
only do you have the grief, pain, questions, but also the trauma
added to it. its so hard, you think you'll never get past that
vision. but in time you do. your 2 years into this, i'm sure that
vision is starting to fade. and your replacing it with fun times.
I lost my 16 year old son to this is 2002. I cant not think about
him, thats impossible for me. BUT I have chosen not to dwell on his
death but his life. so everyday we celebrate his life and all the fun
he was able to give us. He was probably the funniest person I know.
Most times he had me almost peeing my pants.
thats why I dwell on his life. the other stuff, to me is meaningless.
our loved ones didnt want to die, especially not this way.
I hope you can find some peace.
Carol



--- In autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com, "Charlotte
Davis" <cldavis@...> wrote:
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> Hi DD,
> I know your anguish. My husband of 20 years died this way about 4
years
> ago. There is no "making sense" of it. It will never make sense.
I have
> found that time and God have gotten me through the worst trauma and
now each
> passing year puts me further into my "new normal". I choose to not
dwell on
> or think about him or what happened, but focus on my future, my
kids, etc.
> I'm sure it sounds hard and uncaring to many, but it is the way I
have
> coped. I hope you can find some comfort in knowing you are not
alone in
> this.
> Sincerely,
> Charlotte
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> Subject: [Autoerotic Asphyxiation Support] My husband died this way
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> > Hi, I'm a new member. My husband died this way 2 years ago after
25
> > years of marriage. I'm still trying to cope and make sense of
what he
> > did.
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