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Re: [Autoerotic Asphyxiation Support] My husband died this way   Message List  
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Hi DD,
I know your anguish. My husband of 20 years died this way about 4 years
ago. There is no "making sense" of it. It will never make sense. I have
found that time and God have gotten me through the worst trauma and now each
passing year puts me further into my "new normal". I choose to not dwell on
or think about him or what happened, but focus on my future, my kids, etc.
I'm sure it sounds hard and uncaring to many, but it is the way I have
coped. I hope you can find some comfort in knowing you are not alone in
this.
Sincerely,
Charlotte
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From: "dhodges_il" <dhodges_il@...>
To: <autoeroticasphyxiationsupport@yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Saturday, March 18, 2006 9:13 PM
Subject: [Autoerotic Asphyxiation Support] My husband died this way


> Hi, I'm a new member. My husband died this way 2 years ago after 25
> years of marriage. I'm still trying to cope and make sense of what he
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Sun Mar 19, 2006 9:04 pm

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Hi DD, I know your anguish. My husband of 20 years died this way about 4 years ago. There is no "making sense" of it. It will never make sense. I have ...
Charlotte Davis
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Mar 19, 2006
9:04 pm

Hi Charlotte and DD, I'm sorry about your husband DD. in the beginning its so hard, not only do you have the grief, pain, questions, but also the trauma added...
Carol
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Mar 19, 2006
9:33 pm

Dear Charlotte, Thanks for your message. Do you have children? How did they react to this tragedy? My 15 year old son discovered his dad's body hanging in ...
Diane Hodges
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Mar 20, 2006
1:07 am

DD, I'm going to butt into your conversation if you dont mind. My 7 and 10 year olds found steve hanging. I have a lot of guilt from that. even though I know I...
Carol
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Mar 20, 2006
1:24 am

Carol, Thanks for your input. I know exatly what you mean by the guilt part! It took me a long time to realize that this was something he couldn't control and...
Diane Hodges
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Mar 25, 2006
3:42 pm

DD, Yes, I have children. They were 14 and 17 at the time. They were there when I found my husband in our bedroom closet. My 17 year old son helped me find...
Charlotte Davis
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Mar 20, 2006
3:18 am

Dear Charlotte, Counseling didnn't help my children much either. Like yours they refused to open up to the counselor and I felt it was a waste of money to...
Diane Hodges
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Mar 24, 2006
12:59 am
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