hi karen,
what a horrible thing to not really know what happened to your brother from
age 7 to your 20's.
we initially thought jon killed himself but within 30 minutes of finding out
he died we were told it appeared to be an accident and something "sexual".
i was SO relieved!!
we are Lutheran and how he died is not discussed much at all.
we lost my brother jon when he was 36, on 5.11.01.
best of luck to you and i am glad you found this site.
christy
jon's sister
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